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I Love You but I Don’t Trust You Audiobook

I Love You but I Don’t Trust You: The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in Your Relationship

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Publisher's Summary

Is my relationship worth saving? Will the trust ever come back? How can things be good between us again? Whether broken trust is due to daily dishonesties, a monumental betrayal, or even a history of hurts from the past, it can put a relationship at risk. This is the first book to show you exactly what to do to restore trust in your relationship, regardless of how it was damaged.

In this complete guide, couples therapist Mira Kirshenbaum will also help you understand the stages by which trust strengthens when the rebuilding process is allowed to take place. And you will learn how the two of you can avoid the mistakes that prevent healing and discover how to feel secure with each other again.

©2012 Mira Kirshenbaum (P)2016 Tantor

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    mizzaga 01-13-17
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    "Amazing advice"

    This woman is incredibly insightful and a beautiful soul. She gave me practical advice and tools for deep introspection.

    As for the reviews about her swearing....

    Effing grow up. It was appropriate when used. She identified with my emotions through the use of those words. Your offense to language is NOT a reason to disregard this amazing work.

    4 of 4 people found this review helpful
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    jessica roth 08-11-17
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    "useful for many situations and from both sides"

    This book is for mistrust in all types of situations (secrecy, cheating, lies, hidden financial situations....all mistrust) . Also covers the perspectives of both parties .....the person who committed the mistrust and the person who lost trust. Helps make you feel normal and not alone and tells you how to rebuild or leave.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Karina 07-05-17
    Karina 07-05-17
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    "It was very helpful and I loved the examples"
    Would you listen to I Love You but I Don’t Trust You again? Why?

    The book explained a variety of different types of trust issues and represented both point of views (that of the person without trust and their partner). Great examples were given. I recommended it to my sister, she found it helpful. I also had my partner listen to parts of the audio so that he could better understand things from my POV. He found it eye opening.


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Wildcats_Chrad Graham, WA 05-24-17
    Wildcats_Chrad Graham, WA 05-24-17 Member Since 2016

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    "Restoring Trust is Hard"

    As a repeat offender of losing trust with the one I love, this book helped me understand the patterns of my behavior and the responses from partner. It takes work and isn't easy but the author gives tangible suggestions on steps you can take to start building again.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Carol Crawley 12-12-16 Member Since 2013
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    "Very eye opening!"

    This book really helped me understand there are different kinds of betrayal that eat away at trust. I always new I didn't feel safe in my relationship of 26 years, but I couldn't put my finger on it. This book opened my eyes and confirmed my feelings, helped me put a label to what I was feeling which also confirmed that no I am not crazy and no I am not being unreasonable. I read this book in 3 days! By the way I'm an MFT and I will definitely be using what I learned from this book with my clients. So so good!

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    Jeff 08-25-16
    Jeff 08-25-16 Member Since 2016
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    "Exactly what I needed. Thank you!"

    Very insightful. This is THE road map back to trust. This was exactly what I needed. Thank you!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Adrienne Virgilio Lake Zurich 08-23-17
    Adrienne Virgilio Lake Zurich 08-23-17 Member Since 2016

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    "Just what I needed to start my healing journey. "

    Just what I needed to start my healing journey. great tools to mend a broken heart.

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    Tara MO 07-17-17
    Tara MO 07-17-17 Member Since 2015

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    "must read"

    This book is a must-read. It had many helpful tools and included many questions to ask yourself when considering leaving or staying in a relationship. The questions are tough, to the point and very succinct.

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    Klarissa C 07-09-17
    Klarissa C 07-09-17 Member Since 2017
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    "It was not as good as I thought it to be."

    I thought this was going to be more informative. It is good for a pure read with not needing real help.

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    cecilia walsh 06-28-17
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    "saved my relationship"

    this book was more then a relatiomship fix it was what fixed me. i feel so much joy for the future and cannot wait to rebuild my relationship finally understanding how to make trust work

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