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Discovering that a partner has been unfaithful hits you like an earthquake. Long after the first jolt, emotional aftershocks can make it difficult to be there for your family, manage your daily life, and think clearly about your options. Whether you want to end the relationship or piece things back together, Getting Past the Affair guides you through the initial trauma so you can understand what happened and why before deciding how to move forward. Based on the only program that's been tested - and proven - to relieve destructive emotions in the wake of infidelity, this compassionate book offers support and expert advice from a team of award-winning couple therapists. If you stay with your spouse, you'll find realistic tips for rebuilding your marriage and restoring trust. But no matter which path you choose, you'll discover effective ways to recover personally, avoid lasting scars, and pursue healthier relationships in the future.

©2007 The Guilford Press (P)2017 Tantor

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AudioBook needs PDF file

The book gave very good tips. I only wish that audible required PDF that noted the exercises that was referenced in the book

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Best Affair Book So Far, for me...

I was betrayed. I have read many books. This one is my favorite so far.

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Excellent Book

My husband was unfaithful for some time, and when I found out he stopped it and decided to work on our marriage. I love this book because it focuses on the hurt person and helps us get through it. I am a mental health clinician and think this book is excellent.... I have not bought the actual book to go through the questions with him....

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Definitely worth listening to

Great advice. Simple easy to follow. Definitely speaks directly to you and your spouse. Very informative.

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Great book for someone who has been cheated on and for the cheater. It’s a must read as soon as you found out about the affair.

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  • Caffi
  • 06-02-21

So much good advise

Still finishing listening, but even now i want to give 5 stars.
Lots of good points where they betrayed spouse is stuck and to release the mind from obsessive behaviour and self doubt.

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  • Stef
  • 04-07-20

Very helpful

Well worth purchasing this book as it helped me at a difficult time and when I wasn’t sure how I was going to get my marriage back on track.