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After the Affair
- Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
- Narrated by: Janis Abrahams Spring Ph.D.
- Length: 2 hrs and 57 mins
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Publisher's summary
Many times infidelity is the death of a relationship - but an affair doesn't have to mean the end. Realistic ways of coping with pain, restoring self-esteem, and rebuilding trust and intimacy are available for the first time on audio in this guide by Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring.
Dr. Spring is one of the few clinical psychologists in the US who specializes in infidelity. She offers original and proven strategies to those seeking guidance, sympathy, and solutions, laying to rest blame and recrimination and focusing instead on recovery.
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- Sculpturades
- 01-27-16
OW vs. Lover
I really liked this book outside of the Other Woman/Man being constantly called the "lover" Maybe it's just me, but I find it a bit maddening cause no matter how bad your situation is, that other person sought selfish gratification along with your spouse/partner over your needs. There is nothing loving about any of it.
I felt the author wasn't clear enough or loud enough in her narration but I felt the overall was good and sound advice. I am an angry hurt spouse, and I personally feel victimized by this whole issue. I don't know what will happen with my relationship at this point, but this was a good read.
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- alicia
- 08-13-15
Very helpful
I enjoyed this book as much as anyone can when it's necessary to read such things. It was insightful, explanatory, consoling, and therapeutic. I listened to it twice within the week I received it (I have a long commute). I would recommend it to anyone that finds them self suddenly in this situation. The author explains both the mental and physical results and recovery of an affair. Very objective and informative.
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- ABKay
- 04-08-17
aabbreviated
The Short version of this audio book does not justify the more complete version of this book in paper back. One really understands and gets more comprehension of "affair" and how to deal with it from the print copy. Dr. Spring systematically, logically and methodically explains all the psychological drama a couple feel and how to cope with it in her book. Unless the entire book is published in audible, I recommend reading the book than listening to audio (although it will be long, but more useful).
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- Pat Kaufman
- 05-04-15
Very helpful book.
This book is not only great for comforting you when you struggle to understand all you are going through, but it gives helpful solutions for healing and repair. Good book.
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- JOANIE GRUBB
- 08-27-15
Great Book
narrator was great. very helpful and supporting. I would recommend this book if you were betrayed.
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- juan Temiquel
- 06-17-15
audio v book
although content of the book is very informational, extremely helpful and eye opening, the audio version does not include everything that is found in the book.
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- DONNA FREYMAN
- 07-11-16
This is a great book for both parties.
This is a great book for both parties.
All the books I kept finding were for the victim of the affair, but not for the one who had the affair. This book is for both.
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- Amazon Customer
- 06-06-17
Awesome insight to a moment in time that requires a great deal of valuable knowledge
This book provided me with the necessary information that I required to begin to rebuild a solid foundation for my relationship with my wife. It provided the information in a short and straight forward manner that eliminated having to spend unnecessary time to learn this material. The author has a great knowledge base and proposes an ideology to recovery based on factual and everyday life. Thank you for writing this book.
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- Anonymous User
- 04-19-17
A Tool toward Healing
Extremely therapeutic! A must read before making any life changing decisions. I really needed this.
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- pAUL aCQUAVIVA
- 08-21-15
finally a complete on the nose book
this book is your bible lf you.are serious about giving your failed marriage a second chance discusses all the different phases that are experienced from living with an unfaithful straying partner
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- Diane Osei-Loven
- 01-11-18
Insightful
Very good book, for anyone struggling to make sense of an affair and its impact on the primal couple.
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- Dave J.
- 10-06-20
Absolute Tripe
The author/narrator might be the most boring woman in the world, and the content was complete trash. Nothing useful, and mostly unhelpful in fact!
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- Anonymous User
- 07-26-23
Definitely both need to listen
Was very helpful. confronting at points but I believe gave an insight for both parties. definitely worth listening to.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-19-23
Worth Your Time
Can’t recommend this enough. Very relatable at times hard to hear the truth definitely helpful and validating. Once started couldn’t stop listening
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- Amazon Customer
- 03-25-19
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1 out of 5 stars
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- Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful
- By: Janis A. Spring
- Narrated by: Xe Sands
- Length: 9 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 127
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 107
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 105
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3 out of 5 stars
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- Narrated by: Joyce Licorish
- Length: 1 hr and 7 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall3.5 out of 5 stars 8
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Performance3.5 out of 5 stars 8
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Story3.5 out of 5 stars 8
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1 out of 5 stars
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- How to Truly Understand Things from Your Partner's Perspective and Provide the Needed Support
- By: Laura Redmond
- Narrated by: Siobhan Hallinan
- Length: 3 hrs
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 24
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 21
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 21
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5 out of 5 stars
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Heal your broken heart.
- By Grey Crystaline on 06-03-21
By: Laura Redmond
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Transcending Post-Infidelity Stress Disorder
- The Six Stages of Healing
- By: Dennis C. Ortman PhD
- Narrated by: Paul Brion
- Length: 9 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 182
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 158
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 155
The phrase "broken heart" belies the real trauma behind the all-too-common occurrence of infidelity. Psychologist Dennis Ortman likens the psychological aftermath of sexual betrayal to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) in its origin and symptoms, including anxiety, irritability, rage, emotional numbing, and flashbacks. Dr. Ortman sees recovery as a spiritual journey and draws on the wisdom of diverse faiths, from Christianity to Buddhism. He also offers exercises to deepen recovery, such as guided meditations and journaling.
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- By: Janis A. Spring PhD, Michael Spring - contributor
- Narrated by: Xe Sands
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 12
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 10
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 10
Until now, we've been taught that forgiveness is good for us and that good people forgive. Dr. Janis Abrahms Spring proposes a radical, life-affirming alternative that lets us overcome the corrosive effects of hate and get on with our lives—without forgiving. She also offers a powerful and unconventional model for earning genuine forgiveness—one that asks as much of the offender as it does of the hurt party.
By: Janis A. Spring PhD, and others
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When Good People Have Affairs
- Inside the Hearts & Minds of People in Two Relationships
- By: Mira Kirshenbaum
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 6 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 212
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 179
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 176
A world-renowned therapist, Mira Kirshenbaum has treated thousands of people caught in the powerful drama over what to do when an affair rocks their emotional lives. Now, in When Good People Have Affairs, Kirshenbaum puts her unsurpassed experience into one clear, calming place. She leads listeners through six easy-to-navigate steps that will take anyone from anxiety to clarity, and identifies 17 types of affairs, helping listeners figure out which type they're in and what it means.
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1 out of 5 stars
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This book condones affairs
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By: Mira Kirshenbaum
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Not 'Just Friends'
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- Narrated by: Laural Merlington
- Length: 15 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 573
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 489
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 485
Good people in good marriages are having affairs. The workplace and the Internet have become fertile breeding grounds for “friendships” that can slowly and insidiously turn into love affairs. Yet you can protect your relationship from emotional or sexual betrayal by recognizing the red flags that mark the stages of slipping into an improper, dangerous intimacy that can threaten your marriage.
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1 out of 5 stars
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WORST to Read/Listen to if you are well past D Day
- By K on 02-04-17
By: Shirley P. Glass Ph.D., and others
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When the Affair Is Over
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- By: K' Trie
- Narrated by: misti_rain
- Length: 48 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall3 out of 5 stars 14
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Performance3.5 out of 5 stars 13
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Story3 out of 5 stars 12
Meet Gillian, a former "other woman", who's trying to let go of her past. Her story is the first of true stories told from the other woman herself, one story at a time. The stories in When the Affair Is Over show the journey of these women as they shed their past and regain their self-respect, told one story at a time.