We Love Each Other, But . . .
Simple Secrets to Strengthen Your Relationship and Make Love Last
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Narrated by:
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Joyce Bean
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By:
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Ellen Wachtel
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We Love Each Other, But... offers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. It lays out the nuts and bolts of building relationships so they continue to be gratifying over the long haul. Dr. Ellen Wachtel shows how, even when you feel like giving up on a relationship or marriage, you can recapture why you fell in love in the first place. Dr. Wachtel promises that there is more and suggests simple ways to keep vitality in relationships. In fact, she shows you and your partner how you can stay interested in each other for the rest of your lives.
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5 out of 5 stars
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1 out of 5 stars
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What the F. Robot-reader???!?!?!
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simple and practical
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Good resource
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Just read the book. The cutesy voices on the quotations are stupid, poorly done, annoying and extremely distracting.Some interesting material
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