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Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity - but saving your sanity.

When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters - their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Full of solid advice that champions self-respect, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more.

Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

©2016 Tracy Schorn (P)2017 Tantor

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this book saved my life!

This book is a must read for any person facing infidelity. I am eternally grateful to Tracy Schorn for clearly and thoroughly relating her insights and experiences. She has helped me move forward confidently with recreating my life.

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  • JDB
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Must read for someone getting overs cheater

Great book. Very straight forward. Just the thing I needed to kick me in the butt.

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Great Book, narrator’s voice over-exaggerated .

Loads of useful, helpful, and understanding information.
However, the females voice over was irritating, over exaggerated almost every other word, I literally had to turn it off at times. Hate that, because the author did an excellent job putting this interesting and deeply psychological subject into layman terms.... the voice was just over acted and exaggerated, it kept me from wanting to share this audible with others.

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Breakthrough

My husband walked out on me, a 3 year old and 21 day old baby after I️ found out about the affair. After the confrontation he told me he wanted a divorce not because the affair but because of me! 17 years and 10 years of marriage!!! I️ was so hormonal and emotional and for the last 8 months I️ believed I️ had a part, I️ had so much to blame (myself). This book has set me free!!!

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Amazing

Loved it! It was perfect helped me completely! I am no longer confused about what I am going to do! Thank you so much writing and sharing this book with us!

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profoundly graduall fo understand what happened.

Words won't do it justice. Most important book I read of many. Saved me and got me unstuck and out of being manipulated . I can't think you enough chump lady!!