Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist

By: Ramani Durvasula PhD

Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD

Do you feel like you are talking and talking, and your partner is never listening?

Do you feel like you keep saying the same thing over and over again?

Does your partner make promises, only to break or betray your trust repeatedly?

Is your partner controlling or just plain mean?

Have you read every relationship book out there, practiced your communication skills, and still feel unheard or neglected?

Are you done with second chances?

Should you stay or should you go?

We live in a world of romance and rescue - where everyone believes love will conquer all, and the more we put up with, the more loving we are being. It doesn't work that way. Sometimes we choose mean people, and before long we are in so deep, we don't know whether we are coming or going. One day you want to fight harder, and the next day you are ready to pack it in, and the next day you want to fight harder.

Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.

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This should be your Primary Guide dealing with a Narcissistic Relationship

If I were to purchase one book to deal with this subject matter, this would be the book. It is clear, concise, and very accurate to all other information I have researched in this field.

For me this book is the Bible for trying to figure out how to recover from a soul destroying relationship with a narcissist. It has been incredibly helpful and I will refer to it again and again. I cannot recommend it enough.

The best on “narcissistic disorder”

I am a victim of a narcissist... I could not understand what was happening to me and had no idea that such people exist...
Oh, boy... they do exist...
this book will open your eyes...
This book will be very helpful to anyone!!!
I HIGHLY recommend it!!!!

narcissist survival

Provides great insight on making it or breaking it with a narcissist. Detailed overview of traits and behavior needed to deal with around a controlling person.

Great information!

This book was like going to therapy. I appreciated that it pointed out not just the narcissistic behavior, but also the behavior of their partners. This book has really opened my eyes in many ways. It has allowed me to not be focused on changing him, but to actually pay attention to myself and why I was accepting this behavior. At this point, I'm doing more listening and watching as I detach myself from the situation. It's all still new to me, so I'm surprised on how much I already knew about my partners actions. This book just made me question myself more, and now has me thinking about my exit plan. I know that it's not going to be easy, because I can sense that he sees a difference in me since I've been listening to this book. So there's more of him being attentive and somewhat doing the things that I've always wanted. But, now my heart isn't fixed on him, it's more so on fixing myself. So many great tips in figuring out if I should stay or go.

Finally Hopeful

Words can’t say what this book means to me. So many “AH HA” moments, confirmation, tears and smiles while reading. I feel “truly” hopeful for the first time in 36 years. Thank you for doing the research, and sharing this information with me and the world. It is much needed.