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Worthy of Her Trust

By: Stephen Arterburn, Jason B. Martinkus
Narrated by: Tom Parks, Kate Rudd
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You can win her back

Few challenges in life are as difficult as regaining a wife's trust - and few are as ultimately worthwhile. Trust can be rebuilt in your marriage! With patient, loving, self-sacrificing effort, it's possible that one day your wife will risk her heart with you again. And she may even have more respect and love for you than before.

In Worthy of Her Trust, Jason Martinkus relates how he repaired his own marriage after revelations of sexual addiction. Along with Stephen Arterburn, Jason offers exercises and tools rooted in counseling principles to help your marriage begin again. This comprehensive guide discusses:

  • How to be truly and effectively transparent
  • Combating the "he must not love me" myth and other untruths
  • What to do about the Internet, office temptations, and travel
  • Encouragement for wives who wonder if trust can ever be restored
  • The "five-minute phone call" and other daily trust-building strategies
  • What meaningful forgiveness and restitution look like
  • The Amends Matrix - a concrete exercise to admit past wrongs and cast a vision for a faithful future

Including insights from Jason's wife, Shelley, Worthy of Her Trust guides you through the process of rebuilding your relationship so it is stronger than ever.

©2014 eChristian (P)2014 eChristian

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Best Book on Building Trust

I agree with everything in the book. Nailed it. Highly recommend to anyone who has betrayed their wife with sexual integrity. I learned a lot and validated what I already doing. God bless men like this who have paved the road for men struggling with SA.

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TOTALLY FELT VALIDATED AND HEARD...

I have listened to this book three times now. In my Recovery from Betrayal Trauma, it has helped me to feel like I'm understood finally!

I am so grateful that I was able to realize that men's sexual addictions are not a wife's fault.

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The most accurate book I've read on this subject

I've read numerous books and attended many seminars on sexual integrity. Finally a book that helps a husband understand the process for his wife and teaches empathy. Thank you

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marriage saver

this was a great book....down to earth and easy to apply to your life..very real life...a must for marriages...

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Worthy of a purchase

This is a great guidance on what’s needed to rebuild trust in a relationship. However, the author missed the mark when he only focused on the husbands who use their wives to fulfill their selfish, outlandish, sexually desires and neglected to mention the husbands who never touch their wives, due to loss of interest in “normal” healthy sex. It has been my experience that many, if not most wives experience the opposite of what was described in the book. These wives face constant sexual rejection from their husbands, who aren’t any longer interested in sex from them. Because of so many extreme pornographic images programmed in these husbands’ brains, they constantly require someone new, different and more over the top than the last time. This really needed to be addressed. Also, the rage that commonly becomes part of the offenders temperament along with the defensiveness could have been discussed a lot more. Other than that, it’s absolutely worth the purchase. It validates the wife’s painful feelings, insecurities and hyper-vigilance and offers hope and a path to having a future without it.

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Desperate to build trust!

This Book has opened my eyes to see that I am the key acting trustworthy so I can be trusted. I don’t deserve Trust and I have to earn it one bit at a time. Many examples and much guidance will be found in this book. I highly recommend it to any Man who can read or listen.

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building a solid foundation

Trust and having some moments in question I believe many deal with, this helps any truly desiring couple to remove that doubt, from a unanswered call or arriving late at home in the evenings, many of life's delays can cause doubt or feelings of infidelity to creep in, this shows all of us how to handle this and remove the secrets and truly love without having closet turn on or vices, it may even add some spice to your life, removing shame and being very open can be powerful.

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great book and very helpful

This book was immensely descriptive and accurately honest for aiding in my journey through self help and recognizing how negative interactions with others are often a result of underlying issues within yourself. Add, bipolar, depression and addictive personality issues can be realized and hopefully treated for a life full of healthy relationships.

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helpful for my marriage

I'm tired of being this man i am and this book is really helping me understand what u can do to regain my wife's trust

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Great book!

I cannot thank Jason and Stephen enough. This is a very challenging but also sober book at the same time. it's helping me to realize a lot of things I didn't know and be committed to build trust at all cost
.. Thank you for taking the time to share your story with us..

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