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Publisher's Summary

Are you too nice?

If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness.

In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.

You'll discover how to:

  • Easily say "no" when you want to and need to
  • Confidently and effectively ask for what you want
  • Speak up more freely in all your relationships
  • Eliminate feelings of guilt, anxiety, and worry about what others will think
©2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD (P)2017 Dr. Aziz Gazipura, PsyD

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If it would be 100 stars rating review, I would give 100.

Do you remember a book ‘No more Mr nice guy’? I hate hate that book. After reading it, I felt that I am more screw up, then before that book. I did not remember any tool, just how fucked up nice people are. (Not author, he was perfect) So, I was kind of sceptic, before I start to read ‘Not nice’ But this book is nothing like that. Actually the book is brilliant. It’s guidebook, how to liberate yourself, to finally feel comfortable with yourself, authentic, bold and free. Great explanations about inner mechanisms and mindsets, examples, tools and exercises. If you struggle with stress and expressing yourself. You will find here everything what you need and more. Really good job Mr Aziz.
I know my English is not perfect but I won’t apologize for that ;))

2 of 2 people found this review helpful

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This book has changed my life!

I loved this book. What’s funny is, it is all in the title. By the time you finish this book, you will stop people pleasing, staying silent, and feeling guilty, and start speaking up, saying no, asking boldly, and unapologetically being yourself. Dr. Aziz helps you realize why you do the things you do, shows you why it doesn’t work, and then gives you tips and tricks for a variety of situations to start being “not nice”. Even before finishing the book I started implementing Dr. Aziz’s advice and have already started seeing major results in my own life. It’s powerful stuff with a dash of humor. I will be sharing it with several people I know who are too nice, and I know it will change their lives. Thanks for writing this book Dr. Aziz.

4 of 5 people found this review helpful

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Life changing

Thank you dr.Aziz!

This book made me realize that I was living in a wrong perspective of life

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GREAT BOOK.

I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It helps you give yourself permission to set boundaries, to accept and appreciate yourself and to pay attention to your needs. Upbeat, light and enjoyable to listen to the author... Some cheesy moments 😁, but the messages are clear and feel intuitively right. It's truly for the chronic nice guy/girl who needs to learn how to stand in their power.

1 of 1 people found this review helpful

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Life changing practical advice and techniques

I really appreciate this book. I’ve already changed aspects of my life, and I will continue to evolve based on easy (and at first seemingly impossible) techniques I learned.

2 of 3 people found this review helpful

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Engaging read

If you could sum up Not Nice in three words, what would they be?

Narrator feels like your new BFF.

What about Dr. Aziz Gazipura PsyD’s performance did you like?

I really like the narration. It is conversational, like Dr Gazipura is telling you his life story.

What’s an idea from the book that you will remember?

Being nice is not a thing to strive after.

Any additional comments?

I'm only 3 chapters into the audiobook, but I just have to take a moment to say that the conversational style of narration is so refreshing after months of robotic style readers in the "self help" genre. It's so easy and engaging, and Dr Gazipura is so authentic, vulnerable, and revealing in the details of his story and in his voice. It feels like a heart to heart with a friend--that I'm learning a lot from. I can't speak for the multitude of content of this book yet, but so far it's an easy listen with lots of personal examples and oppotunities to connect to the author's experiences.

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What disappointed you about Not Nice?

This audio is long, so long. Dr. Aziz seems to just ramble on and on. I feel the material could be condensed and made more applicable. More content doesn't mean better results. Its really the opposite. More content gives you analysis paralysis. Meaning you never take action because there is just too much to learn, remember, and apply. That's what happened to me. Find something that gets more to the point.

1 of 2 people found this review helpful

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Excellent book

This book will change your life. I highly recommend it. Thank's so much Dr Aziz

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  • Juaneezy
  • 01-16-18

Excellent Book

The best self help book I've come across dealing with social anxiety & confidence 5*

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