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Getting Past Your Breakup Audiobook

Getting Past Your Breakup: How to Turn a Devastating Loss into the Best Thing That Ever Happened to You

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Publisher's Summary

It’s over - and it really hurts. But as unbelievable as it may seem when you are in the throes of heartache, you can move past your breakup. Forget about trying to win your ex back. Forget about losing yourself and trying to make this person love you. Forget it! Starting today, this breakup is the best time to change your life for the better, inside and out.

Getting Past Your Breakup is a proven road map for overcoming the painful end of any romantic relationship, even divorce. Through her workshops and popular blog, Susan Elliott has helped thousands of clients and readers transform their love lives. Now she’ll help you put your energy back where it belongs - on you. Her plan includes:

  • The rules of disengagement: how and why to go “no contact” with your ex,
  • How to work through grief, move past fear, and take back your life,
  • The secret to breaking the pattern of failed relationships, and
  • What to do when you can’t stop thinking about your ex, texting, calling, checking social networking sites, or driving by the house.

Complete with inspiring stories from real people and strategies to jump-start the moving-on process, Getting Past Your Breakup is the most effective plan for getting permanently past a breakup, getting your confidence back, and opening yourself to true love.

©2012 Susan J Elliott (P)2012 Brilliance Audio, Inc.

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    Dylan 07-09-14
    Dylan 07-09-14 Member Since 2014
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    "Good information but a patronizing tone"

    This book has some useful information in it, especially the emphasis on NC (no contact with your ex) and I did find parts of the text helpful. My issue is that the author tends to talk down to the reader: "Do this." "Don't do that." "Grow up." And the narrator really emphasizes this bossy tone. Also, I didn't find the narrator's voice very appealing. She sounded like Mrs. Roper from "Three's Company" (a sit-com from the 70's & 80's).

    22 of 24 people found this review helpful
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    Shayna 03-27-17
    Shayna 03-27-17 Member Since 2016
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    "Too self-celebratory, but definitely some wise advice."

    I didn't like the narrators voice nor the positive affirmations nor the end bits of other people's stories. I could get on a blog and read other people's stories. It's a little too corny and overly treasures and values oneself. It feels a little over self-involves at times

    I like her advice on writing. I enjoyed how she explained grief, phases vs stages. Her no contact rule is a must. I found her explanations of not explaining yourself more than three time helpful, as well as a how manipulative people will continue to attempt to manipulate and drive you to their will.

    12 of 13 people found this review helpful
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    Kamazon 11-28-12
    Kamazon 11-28-12
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    "Wow..."
    This book wasn’t for you, but who do you think might enjoy it more?

    Depressing. Aren't these kind of books supposed to make you feel better? I, too, recommend 'its called a breakup because its broken' and 'the 30 day heartbreak cure.'


    Who would you have cast as narrator instead of Laural Merlington?

    Someone with a young, calm and soothing voice. Someone hipper.


    If you could play editor, what scene or scenes would you have cut from Getting Past Your Breakup?

    The first 3 chapters.


    25 of 29 people found this review helpful
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    Linda Quiquivix 04-30-12
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    "More for the married with children... not me"
    What could have made this a 4 or 5-star listening experience for you?

    This book could have been more useful for my own circumstance if it hadn't been so marriage/children-centered. Another turnoff was that the author spent a vast part of the book's beginning telling her personal, very specific story. I felt a bit cheated, as I felt forced to listen to someone's problems. (Sorry that sounds so crude...) The most useful book I've found on Audible on this topic thus far is: "It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken." It was hilarious at times and brutally honest, both of which made me feel so much better, so very quickly. I'd recommend that one any day.


    31 of 37 people found this review helpful
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    Vram 07-13-17
    Vram 07-13-17 Member Since 2017
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    "It's not a bad book, just wasn't applicable to me"

    Maybe some concepts cross platform, but this is definitely for a woman breaking up, and a man who wants to avoid their wife's feeling unhappy.

    3 of 3 people found this review helpful
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    Coffee4Life 07-30-16
    Coffee4Life 07-30-16
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    "Didn't like this at all - made me feel worse!"
    What could have made this a 4 or 5-star listening experience for you?

    A different writer ha!


    Any additional comments?

    Somehow this book actually made me feel WORSE! It appears to have been written by a child. Very very patronising. I found practically nothing of any real value in this. I feel a bit conned by this :( Breakups are hard enough without this nonsense.

    11 of 13 people found this review helpful
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    Mary Northern Utah, United States 07-01-17
    Mary Northern Utah, United States 07-01-17 Member Since 2015

    I love to read and listen to audio books.

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    This is one of the best books I've read and I've already recommended it to a few of my friends!! Dr. Elliott gives sound advice that makes perfect sense for anyone working to better themselves. I give this book a thumbs-up!

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Yolande Mcvey Dolton, IL USA 06-10-17
    Yolande Mcvey Dolton, IL USA 06-10-17 Member Since 2013

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    It was as if you were living my breakup from chapter one. Thank you for getting it when no one else has. I am hopeful now that I can move forward.

    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Allouise 07-26-12
    Allouise 07-26-12
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    "The Perfect Book When It's Time Move On"

    I was with my ex partner on and off for 7 years and desperately needed to find a way to make sure the most recent break up was the final one. I have found this book to be profoundly useful for not only getting over my ex once and for all but also helping me to create the life I dream of and deserve.
    I cannot recommend this book highly enough for someone who is hurting yet ready to make a better life.

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    David 07-07-13
    David 07-07-13
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    "Beacon of light during dark time"
    What made the experience of listening to Getting Past Your Breakup the most enjoyable?

    The narration was fine, but best of this listen is the book itself. The most helpful, hopeful and straightforward advice I've ever seen in this genre-the concepts offered me a way to think deeper beyond the emotional whirlwind I was experiencing, and just 'keep it simple' while keeping my own self-respect and learning to be whole again. This was the first and only book I picked up in the days after the sudden end of my long-term love, and it honestly kept me upright through those very difficult days. I still keep it ready to go in my library and reference it often. So grateful for this amazing book.


    Any additional comments?

    Don't bother with any fluff (ok, yeah, Greg Behrendt)- which minimizes the devastating effects of a breakup ('you're a stone cold fox! He is stupid'<br/>Now don't you feel better?). Getting Past your Breakup is so far beyond this, offers real direction and brutal honesty but you will believe that you can get past this, and even that it can be 'the best thing that ever happened to you.' Really.

    11 of 20 people found this review helpful
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  • Open Ears
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    10/15/16
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    "Frankly i was bored!"
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    I wanted to enjoy this but i spent most of the time BORED. It was a real chore to get thru this, but i wanted to as i didn't wanna waste money and i kept hoping it would get better and give me actual advice on how to feel better about my breakup - it didn't.

    10 of 10 people found this review helpful
  • Coffee4Life
    8/11/16
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    "Made me feel WORSE!!!"
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    This book somehow made me feel even worse about my rather horrible breakup I felt totally patronised, like i was made out to be a child for feeling upset. Silly book, really did not help me.

    8 of 8 people found this review helpful
  • Audioaddict
    11/29/16
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    "Didn't like it at all."
    Would you try another book written by Susan J. Elliott or narrated by Laural Merlington?

    The narration was fine, good actually, but the actual book was unfortunately of zero help to me. I wanted (/needed) help to get over my painful breakup, but unfortunately I most definitely did not find it here.


    What will your next listen be?

    Not sure yet.


    What reaction did this book spark in you? Anger, sadness, disappointment?

    Disappointed overall.


    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • W1992
    11/20/16
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    "Awful book, absolutely zero help."
    Would you try another book written by Susan J. Elliott or narrated by Laural Merlington?

    Definitely not, never again.


    What didn’t you like about Laural Merlington’s performance?

    Dull.


    You didn’t love this book--but did it have any redeeming qualities?

    To be honest, it has a great cover - that is about it.


    Any additional comments?

    Heartache and breakups are hard enough without cliched patronising nonsense like this being on the market.<br/><br/>No help. No help at all. Avoid.

    7 of 7 people found this review helpful
  • sharon saxby
    7/7/17
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    "Highly recommend"

    This book has been a god send , if you are going throu a break up I would highly recommend to buy this , Susan is a amazing woman , there's also a Facebook page where Susan gives out great advice , fantastic support group

    0 of 0 people found this review helpful
  • Anna
    10/11/15
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    "Awesome book"

    Lots of help. Amazing point of view. Good advices. Totally recommending. Thank you Susan. Anya.

    0 of 8 people found this review helpful

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