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You're Not Crazy - It's Your Mother

Understanding and Healing for Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers, Book 1
Narrated by: Danu Morrigan
Length: 7 hrs and 2 mins
4.5 out of 5 stars (53 ratings)

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Publisher's Summary

If you have a difficult relationship with your mother, this audiobook might well hold the key as to why. If you feel torn, upset, or confused after contact with your mother, then you deserve to have the answers. And maybe that answer is that your mother has Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Find out if she does or not, and what it means for you in the rest of your life.

©2012 Darton Longman and Todd (P)2017 Danu Morrigan

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Spot on and very helpful for victims.

I generally like this book but the extensive and multiple chapters on EMP a technique that I’m not really sure about might’ve been a bit much. One maybe two examples would have been plenty but 4-5 chapters on just that one modality was too much. Everything else was spot on and so nice to get validation on some shared experiences of other victims.

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This book changed my life

I'm finally validated in my thoughts and feelings for years I was told I was selfish, self centered and vapid. For example, I was running errands for my mother on my wedding day! Any normal person would see this as wrong and unconscionable but to her, she was spending all this money on me, it's the least I could do... just reading this book is like going through 10 years of therapy! Highly recommend!!

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Really helpful.

I have recently discovered that my mother has narcissistic personality disorder. I am trying to figure out how to deal with it. This book has given me confidence. I love the analogy of the flying monkeys! Fits my dad perfectly. Thanks for these insights.

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Heartbreaking but true

I felt like.the author was describing events taken directly from my childhood. If you are the daughter of a narcissistic mother, this book brings a new perspective to your entire life. It gives you the reasons why, and how to deal with her now that you are an adult. I am
still processing the information. Thank you Danu.

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It has a lot of great information!

It has a lot of great information, however it is a little repetitive at times.

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I FEEL FREE!!! MUST READ!!! THANK YOU!!!

This is one of the best books I've ever read!!! I finally feel like I'm understood and that I'm not too emotional!!! I plan to buy a hard back copy as well to help me with the homework portion!!!

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HealingBalmForInvisibleWoundsSurvivorsOfDONM

IF you are a daughter[err, survivor] of a narcissistic mother.... THIS BOOK IS A MUST HAVE!!!.... The book was of course absolutely great in every possible way..... If you are a D.O.N.M. (Daughter Of a Narcissistic Mother); as Ms./Mrs. Morrigan, (thankfully), simplifies into an acronym. For us fellow Daughters[survivors] Of Narcissistic Mothers.... I have found there is healing when we share our stories. I don't give a flippin flippity flip-flop dippity-tha-tha-doo-doo-doo all the flippin floppity flim flam all the dippity-doo day long... If you think I'm corny when I say I believe from my own experience and shared experience of others, there is such POWERFUL HEALING when we come together listen and share because we do form our own pack, tribe, sisterhood that no one else can fully understand. There's so much value in that. you will find that here. links to other resources. website all kinds of extra stuff.

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Gave a voice to my life story!

This book articulates something I have never been able to explain to others who never dealt with a narcissistic mother. The author describes characteristics that I had to ignore my entire life. It took me forty years to validate myself and cut myself loose from a toxic mother. Thank you for your insight and personal experience.

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The story of my life

A lifetime of thinking maybe it was just me. Nope ! The author spoke truth

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What is the difference between the goose & gander?

NONE! they are both the same, unfortunately. The first chapter was filled with "I's" and ultimately a pity party.

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  • Debbie Carnan
  • 10-31-18

Wow!

I’m so grateful to the author for this book. My life makes sense now. I’m looking forward to putting the scripts into practice. This book is a game changer!

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  • C&J.A18
  • 10-13-18

Got more out of the first half

I have listened to many books on this topic. This one has been my favourite so far. Only negative is the EFT program in the second half, I struggled to get through those sections as I don't feel that they will work for me. Otherwise first half of book was very helpful.

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