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  • For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition

  • What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men
  • By: Shaunti Feldhahn
  • Narrated by: Shaunti Feldhahn
  • Length: 4 hrs and 8 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (1,690 ratings)

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Discover the truth he wants you to know! The man in your life is keeping secrets. They’re so deep inside he barely knows they're there, much less how to talk to you about them. Yet he genuinely wants you to "get" him - to understand his inner life, his fears, his needs.... In her landmark best seller For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman - single or married - needs to know. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including:

  • Why your respect means more to him than your love
  • How he feels deep inside about his role as provider
  • What it means for a man to be so visually "wired"
  • Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical
  • What he most wishes he could say to you

Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you'll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what’s really going on when he seems to "check out". (You’ll be surprised and pleased.) Millions worldwide have already experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the "aha!" moments and practical ideas in this little audiobook. Discover how to love your man for who he really is - not who you think he is.

©2013 Multnomah Books; Rev Upd edition (P)2013 Oasis Audio

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Wow, I Didn't Know

This book had great insight on theories I've heard before. This included practical insight that brought those theories home. The author was funny and real. I highly recommend this book.

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Hit the Nail on the head

Wow, amazing job hitting a moving target. I was asked by my wife to validate and I have to say spot on.

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I had no idea!!!

Wow! I had no idea most men felt this way. I now view my husband in a whole new light. I have more compassion for him now and a better idea of what I can do to encourage and support him as a wife.
Great job Shaunti!!!

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Best book covering the real issues

I've read a lot of relationship books and books about men, this is the best and most helpful book out of all. Thank you for dealing with the real issues, I'm excited to go on in my marriage understanding what my husband needs from me

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wonderful book... such truth...

loved this book. it was hard to listen to some of this. We woman need to wake up. Pray that we can be the Godly wife's our husbands need us to be. Marriage can be so beautiful and happy if we wife's and husbands truly long to be Christ like. then it all falls into place. But God gives grace to a spouse that is the only one truly desiring to be like Jesus and love their spouse. if you are one of those. Pray for your spouse continually. be an example and believe...

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Until I read this book, I didn't know ! *A Gift*

This book is truly heart-opening. Every woman must get thier hands on this God-given gift and start doing relationships wholeheartedly! Now I know! In my 15 years of dating, I had no idea what I was doing. This book is packed with research-backed information on what men truly need and desire of their wives. This book LOVINGLY calls women to action, even in some hard-to-accept areas. I love this book and I am grateful that it's now in my possession. I'll share it with the women in my life and will be coming back for refreshers. This is a true gift beautifully narrated by the author. Couldn't imagine it being read by anyone else. Her tone is respectful, loving, humorous and very warm. I felt safe and honorable just listening to her.

I am happy and blessed to have this book, I just finished listening and already want to re-listen. I'm considering getting the hardcopy in the near future. Stop scrolling and just get the book. :-)

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Light Bulb On Doesn't begin to express my shock...

This book and it's companion book, For Woman Only" was completely mind blowing! Had I known this is what was going on in my husband's mind, and he known what was going on in mine, I KNOW our marriage would have been completely different and would not have ended in divorce. We simply just didn't know. I hope to take this new found knowledge and apply it to any future relationship I have with the opposite sex. Thank you for opening my eyes and mind!!!

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So helpful!

It was very eye opening for me. I went in with a prayerfully open mind and was desperate for change. little did I know it was me who needed to change.

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Read this before your marriage is over

I wish I would have read this book before I was asked for a divorce. However it has provided me with some good insight on how to understand my ending and be more graceful about it. This book has also provided me with the much needed information on how to be a the wife I want to be for the future partner provides me with.

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A must for healthy relationship

I loved it. I have been married for 12 and still there were so many things I didn't understand about my man. This book is an eye opener.

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