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The Rational Male is a rational and pragmatic approach to intergender dynamics and the social and psychological underpinnings of intergender relations. The book is the compiled, 10-year core writing of author/blogger Rollo Tomassi from therationalmale.com.

Rollo Tomassi is one of the leading voices in the globally growing, male-focused online consortium known as the "Manosphere". Outlined are the concepts of positive masculinity, the feminine imperative, plate theory, operative social conventions, and the core psychological theory behind game awareness and "red pill" ideology. Tomassi explains and outlines the principles of intergender social dynamics and foundational reasoning behind them.

©2013 George W. Miller (P)2016 George W. Miller

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Highly, highly recommend!

This book describes and helps you understand the sociological and psychological reason behind much of what is embedded in our culture in terms of masculinity and feminism.

I am a 22 year old male, in shape, single, and on a successful path in life, therefore I thought I was a prize to women but for some reason, the most of the women I was trying to get with "didn't see it" or I was (in my head) "too mature for they're linear cognitive functioning for our age". There are a few things I was completely missing. Half way through the book I felt my actions changing, mindset changing, and sure enough I have had positive results (I'll save the dirty details). I believe the main reason was that this book gave me the edge of confidence and slight change in mindset that I needed to make it work better for me.

I lacked the understanding of how women worked psychologically, and based my "game" off of the wrong concepts to appeal to women. I already had most of the characteristics necessary to appeal to women, however this book allowed me to do some necessary fine tuning to my 'game'. This book will make you look back and realize where you went wrong in past relations, and why women make the decisions they do, and take the actions they do; even if it seems it makes no since on a functional level.

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Must read for any man

A must read for any man whether single, divorced, or married. Learn the reasoning behind masculinity being viewed as negative, and how to combat this social dilemma.

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Good shit

A little too conspiratorial but he makes good points. I think he tries to make sense of many unconscious behaviors displayed. by women but at the same time can be argued in multiple ways

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Every man MUST read this book, several times over.

What did you love best about The Rational Male?

It helped me realize, why as a man I have suffered so much in my life. It was nothing I was doing, I was following all the advice women gave, all the ideas you see in movies, music, I thought women wanted a man who was caring and affectionate, this book helped me realize.. That all my suffering was due from the identification with feminist ideals. The line:A Man's love is unconditional and loves simply for love, a woman's love on the other hand is opportunistic, there's a condition to receiving it. Cut me like a knife....

What did you like best about this story?

The analogy with the matrix, first made me laugh and then question the validity of this book. But as Rollo continues explaining throughout the book and referencing the similarities, that laughter soon turned into a complex set of a emotions that I cannot describe, you realize.. It's true.. We men have been made victims and no one will believe you because, they're part of the system, and just like the matrix, they will fight to preserve it..

What did you learn from The Rational Male that you would use in your daily life?

Once you know this truth.... You cannot go back. You cannot look at women the same and you realize, just how fucked up it is that your needs as a man,were never important to the world, yet your accomplishments is what everyone will relish in..

Any additional comments?

Thank you for this insight..... Thank you for unplugging me from this matrix..

5 of 5 people found this review helpful

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This should be required for all males to read

This book should be a required read for all boys/men to graduate high school. Mind blowing truth is spoken in this book.

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Exceptional.

Thoroughly thought provoking. Needs to be better edited. -1 star for editing only. Excellent otherwise.

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Will change your life

This book is terribly organized but it is the best book on the market on the topic of understanding women

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Essential to understand love and women

I'd recommend the written version since the narrator doesn't do the book justice, but every male should buy both.

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Masculinity in a Feminized World

With wonderful narration by Sam Botta, Rollo Tomassi discusses inter-gender dynamics from a masculine perspective in the modern world. If you've ever wanted to try and wrap your head around the intricacies of behavior psychology between men and women, this book provides a sufficient introductory text.

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Mispronounce words

The narrator mispronounces the word "hypergamy" over and over for the entire book which is very annoying.

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  • URBANSMASH
  • 09-02-17

Required Reading for All Males

This should be a standard and basic text for all males who are conscious, aware and awoke to the modern day gender dynamics. I have friends coming up to me asking why I'm so good with women. I refer them to this text as a starting point. A pleasure to listen to in audiobook format. Share with your dad, son, best man and become the fully realised and actualised men you were intended to be.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 02-20-17

Every man must read this

This is truly an indispensable book for every man to read. Getting involved with someone in a relationship can have life changing implications for the better or for the worse. The knowledge in this book can help men to avoid many of the pitfalls that can befall the unsuspecting man

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  • AlphaSeed
  • 04-17-16

Life changing work on Relationships

What did you like most about The Rational Male?

The Idea of the red pill and blue pill.
Realising why past relationships failed.
How in depth the books goes and the links to psychology.

What other book might you compare The Rational Male to, and why?

The Game by Neil Strauss which was also a book that opened my eyes.

Have you listened to any of Sam Botta’s other performances? How does this one compare?

There are slight errors with audio where a take wasn't edited out, nothing that ruins it fortunately. The narration is great.

If you made a film of this book, what would be the tag line be?

The Rational Male

Any additional comments?

Check it out!

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  • mr moses m ngotho
  • 02-01-18

Love every bit of it.

It is a well delivered powerful message, that every man ought to listen to.well done Sam Botta. you did the book justice.

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  • J Westwood
  • 01-20-18

Mediocre book

This book has mediocre content which could have been condensed into about a third of the size. The readers voice is too slow (I had to speed it up) and very much robot like.

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  • M. Ellis
  • 12-29-17

Interesting

Male and female social dynamics. Lots of food for thought. The author is trying to protect men from potential out falls with women and it's very ballsey to say the least. I enjoyed this thoroughly though.

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  • Filippo
  • 11-20-17

Every Man Needs To Listen To This Audio Book!

That's right... you heard me! Every man needs to listen to this audio book!

This audiobook can literally change your life if you will really take the time to listen to it. I've got the Kindle book. However when I listened to the audio book I gained more understanding. It may be a little difficult to swallow at first because their are certain concepts and ideas which could be seen as 'outside the norm'. However please listen to it in it's entirety.

A Word of Warning: Don't purchase this audio book if you get easily offended by foul language. The author does use a lot of the 'f' word, so be warned. Happy listening.

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  • Selly belly
  • 08-12-17

Insightful book

I am a female reading this book as I am fully aware my ex is pursuing e covertly and I wanted to understand him better, so I decided to purchase this book. As I knew he had/was reading it. Although I do not agree with all teachings of this book, as I do not fit most of the views in this book. Such as having a lot of sexual partners and using my sexuality to get what I want from men. I will say this book is very insightful, I am 31 years of age and this book gave me understandings of a lot of men/woman especially from the heavy view of Americans. This is definitely a book I will pass on to my son and Godson so they too will have more insight to inter gender relationships.

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  • akin
  • 08-03-17

As important as the 48 Laws of Power

Very good read and very informative. Every man must read this what are you long we have been in the dark

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  • D.Fitzmaurice
  • 06-30-17

Every man should listen to this audible book!

Sam Botta does a brilliant job of reading this book. He captures the storytelling so well. It's very humorous at times, but obviously very eye opening as well. I fallen victim to some of the things talked about in the book. Looking forward to the next instalment.

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  • michael
  • 02-11-18

Amazing book for men !

I wish i had this book 10-20 years ago, boy... I was really clueless. While being into learning more about interacting with females fot the past years, this book is a great way to understand why "bad boys" are a magnet for girls , the concept of abundance, the dynamics of relationships etc. Thank you Rollo !

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  • Don
  • 02-10-18

Listened to this entire book overnight - riveting

Must read prior to marriage and dating women. Completely demystifies why many women cheat with bad alpha types and marry nice guys or use them shamelessly as placeholders and why many women have no remorse in dumping a nice guy who invested all his time and recources thinking authentic sex and affection can be bargained for with a woman. Why women can become completely unreasonable/heartless and how the governments and courts have become completely gynocentric and support injustice towarda men

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-23-18

Don't buy this if you're not open minded.

First off, there are some good points in here. I wouldn't call them facts, but for the sake of gender based debates they provide interesting arguments and I'd agree with a lot of the points to a degree.

However based on the language and concepts, I'd say the book/this guy's whole deal takes advantage of the "betas". The whole philosophy of it seems to mainly apply to guys who have trouble with girls/relationships and it picks on their insecurities - providing the "solution". Afterall, that would be the majority market for this kind of stuff.

Nothing wrong with that, but I just think the target audience is a vulnerable one. Guys buy into the whole - "I have to be an alpha shit" pretty easily without even considering that behaviour is exactly the opposite of how an "alpha" should act.

Overall there's many flaws in the arguments and it makes a bit of a joke of science at some points and you probably won't be too impressed with the author. BUT equally it's worth a read for men and women regardless of political views and relationships - assuming you aren't quick to join or oppose the opinions.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 01-07-18

Unplug your life!

The bible for the modern man.
Take the red pill and never look back!
Thank you Richard Cooper (Entrepreneurs In Cars).

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  • Dan Toland
  • 05-13-17

It's all so obvious now...

Couldn't stop listening, light bulbs illuminating throughout the entire book...

I've studied "game" since "the game" came out but it has never totally clicked until after this book, I have one divorce under my belt and I'm glad I had a clean break with no attachment. I don't wish I'd gotten this book prior to my marriage but I'm glad I got out of it at 30 where I am finally mature enough to see the world for what it is. Every guy over 15 should have this book and never stop reading/listening to it as the world has a way of comforting you with lies.

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  • Jack
  • 04-06-17

Good stuff

If this wasn't a god dam audiobook I'd probably share it with my mates. 10/10 would read again.

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  • Cameron
  • 08-30-16

Would recommend

Great concepts that make you rethink about how you should carry yourself, especially when around women.
Very interesting read. Would recommend.

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  • Brett
  • 08-06-16

Life changing book. Best narrating ever.

I wish I had read this much earlier in life. The knowledge and understanding of how relationships actually work has been changed for ever. If I was to have a son, and could only give him one thing, it would be this book.

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  • Sam
  • 07-01-16

Life changing

Life changing, eye opening, terrifyingly f***ing awesome. A must read for any man out there.

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  • Warren
  • 05-23-16

Loved it. It Really Opened my Eyes.

It was a real eye opening book. It confirms a lot of things I always sensed but articulates so well.