Atomic Attraction: The Psychology of Attraction

By: Christopher Canwell

Narrated by: Christopher Canwell, Jackson Parker

Length: 7 hrs and 7 mins

Publisher's Summary

"20 percent of men get 80 percent of women.” (Source: Medium | Data Science) 

If you want to be a man that 80 percent of women desire, this book is your key. Based on over 120 scientific studies, this book is the ultimate guide to creating and maintaining attraction with women. 

Attraction doesn’t grow in a warm, safe environment, it grows in a swamp of discomfort and anxiety. This is just one of many truths you’re about to discover. 

In Atomic Attraction Christopher Canwell takes us on a journey through the dark waters of attraction. What turns women on? What makes them choose one man over another? And how can you become truly desirable and attractive? 

This book answers these questions by combining the latest scientific research with real-life case studies to show you, the listener, how to ignite the fires of attraction and captivate those around you. 

From this audiobook, you'll discover:

• How to get more sex, love, and affection
• How to increase your sexual market value 
• How to use body language to attract women
• How to create instant attraction with women
• How to keep your girlfriend/wife interested in you
• How to maintain attraction in long-term relationships
• How to become the most attractive version of yourself
• How to build attraction online by text and social media 

Everything you need to know about creating, building, and maintaining attraction with women can be found within this audiobook.

*This book includes 40 real-life case studies.                              

©2017 Christopher Canwell (P)2019 Christopher Canwell

Disappointing.

Following this book will just keep you in the same cycle of anxious and avoidant behaviours that make up the majority of the people in the dating pool....and there's a reason those same people are all perpetually available and constantly in the dating pool. Spoiler alert....they're still in the dating pool because the "attraction" that comes from these behaviours doesn't last either.

I picked this book on a whim to see what information is out there for men. Having a degree in social and behavioural sciences and over 10 years of work in therapy leaves me extremely disappointed that people are being applying this information to their lives. This book is everything that is wrong with dating today.

About 1/3 of the information is correct and helpful. Basic, but valid. Take care of your self, groom yourself, smell good, dress well, etc. Behaviour wise, don't be too available, too pushy, too eager, too [insert anything]. Again, basic, but totally valid. And then some tips to boost confidence, assertiveness, etc. All helpful.

But there's also 1/3 of the book that, while factually correct, is completly misrepresented and used out of context. Laughable yet extremely sad that people will listen to these short term tricks and manipulations to encourage an unhealthy cycle of anxious/avoidant behaviour for the temporary spikes in "attraction".

Then the last 1/3 is information that is flat out incorrect. Do yourself a favor and go read Attached, Mating in Captivity, and How To Get The Guy (yes, guy, but it's an easy read/listen and actually helpful to both sexes. As a bonus, it will also give you some insite on what women are being taught).

18 people found this helpful

Best Practical and Theoretical Advice to Men

Worth reading/rereading/listening to for the best advice how to build attraction and what to stay away from. As a married men this is still in my top 3 of books I'd recommend upon building and maintaining attraction for married men.

8 people found this helpful

A true scientist's look on attracting women

I love self help audio books, but I'm also into the evidence based material rather than the spiritual or emotional lathered ones. It cites multiple studies on human psychology, economics, and evolution to show why women do what they do and why alpha males do what they do. Most importantly, it gives multiple hypothetical scenarios of men-women interactions to illustrate the ideas and make them easier to grasp. This is the other end of the spectrum compared to Way of the Superior Man, which describes human relationships in a spiritual way. Both are amazing books, but me being a scientist, I prefer the rational approach. I definitely recommend it for the thinking man.

7 people found this helpful

From a woman's point of view

I like to see what a man thinks will attract a woman, so I bought this audiobook. Must admit, I loved Christopher's accent in the sample. As an older woman, I have to agree with most of this book. Many interesting points were made. Not so sure a woman will stray because the sex is not up to par. Pay attention. You may learn something you didn't know. Jackson Parker did a good job.

13 people found this helpful

Learn to be a Man's Man

This book does an amazing job at quickly summarizing what other books take hours to do for individual topics. Best of all it has the science to support it. The book covers seduction, attraction, adult attachment, emotional intelligence, psychology, grooming, fashion, leadership, body language and sex.

Over the last four years I have read/heard well over 50 books on individual topics with many of them being upwards of 10 hours each. I have also read scientific case studies, visited online forums and seen hundreds of videos relating to leadership, communication, relationships, building attraction, seduction, getting over a break up, getting an ex back, relationships etc.

Simply put the book does a great job in condensing and explaining these various topics that I found in numerous books and media using simple terms and examples. I recommend hearing this book three to four times over as you will better understand the science and come to understand that each word or phrase is carefully crafted to give you valuable information.

Favorite Quote, "A man who fails with woman is a man who seeks out relationships to give his life meaning"

5 people found this helpful

why the fuck did I not find this sooner

so I picked up this book right after my break up the principals in this book showed me why my ex was attracted to me and what I did to lower her attraction to the point of us breaking up i highly recommend this book to every man

10 people found this helpful

For those who have a victims mentality

Parts 1, and 2 of the book were relatively solid and I would listen to that portion again. Letting you know how being a “nice guy” is truly a facade and how being more direct and confident will get you further in both romantic and non romantic relationships. Part 3 of the book was too specific in the case studies and really was contradicting itself a lot. In short this book tells you to be confident, easy going, and to show minimal emotion. I think this book is more for the single man than men in a committed relationship even though there are many references to relationships throughout the book. I liked the first half of the book because It let you know how small tweaks in your presentation and attitude changes your outcomes. The second half of the book felt like It was a guide for men with their balls tucked between their legs who always play the victim.

3 people found this helpful

This is the manual

This is a must for any guy looking to understand the basic laws of attraction and put them into practice; a culmination of the great works that came before it.

3 people found this helpful

BORING!

monotonous reading and ridiculously short chapters, coupled with a simple point-> case study -> example makes for a laborious read at best. interesting points, but not much else.

2 people found this helpful

Factually incorrect

This book woll teach you how to become an asshole. if that's a good thing, that's up to you. What does bother me is when facts are distorted or simply wrong. Propecia for instance does not reduce your total testosterone levels. It may in fact increase them. Only conversion to DHT is affected.

2 people found this helpful

Good advice

Great read & harshly true but I think it can be taken with an idea to adapt it to best suit you.

It makes sense that didn't at the time .

It joins the dots that make sense, we as men don't think the same, don't love the same .
what would make perfect sense to us as men goes contrary to women's thought process..
To top it off , not Engaging with women when they are in their Emotion with Logic of men, which we have all done but to step aside not to react but mirror and then move away .
Brilliant .
G.

It was great. Might read it again in the future.

I loved it, some case studies were bad and unrealistic, but thats like the only thing i could come up with if i had to say anything negative about the book.
Extremely great advices and narrator.
I recommend it to everyone who have problems with getting girls or making them stay with you.
Sadly it didnt save my own relationship, but now i know why it happened... I should have gotten this book earlier in my life.
Dont make the same mistake as i did, SO GET THIS BOOK RIGHT NOW AND READ IT IMMEDIATELY!

Very interesting

Has a lot of info on many different subjects and it can help you improve where you are lacking

Inspiring

Good ideas well presented. It opened my eyes to
where I was going wrong.

Amazing

this is the best book I have listened to on seduction and attraction. highly recommend, bought the paperback copy as well

Amazing

Brilliant information, well worth a listen. I’d go as far as to say ‘life changing’ for me

great read

brilliant book, people need to understand that attraction isnt the same as love, and its only part of the answer to relationships

very good book. I really enjoyed this book and wil

I really enjoyed this book and will listen again to it. thank you so very much appreciated

very insightfull

I definitely will Listen one more time and I would also recomend this book to any young men tying to navigate around relationships with woman.