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In the decades since the initial publication of The Way of the Superior Man, society has changed significantly. Issues of gender and sexuality long confined to secrecy have become part of everyday conversation, and rigid ideas about our societal roles have begun to dissolve.

And yet, perhaps now more than at any time, men of all ages still “tussle with the challenges of women, work, and sexual desire.” In this unabridged audiobook of the classic guide to masculine spirituality, David Deida encourages men and women to lean into the conversation and offer their most valuable assets to the world - their authentic heart and depth of presence.

More relevant than ever, The Way of the Superior Man offers a view of a more conscious and embodied masculinity. “It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart”, writes Deida. “It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine.”

Including a new preface written in celebration of the book’s 20th anniversary, The Way of the Superior Man presents the next generation of with the opportunity to grapple with fear, cultivate trust in the moment, and put forth the best versions of themselves in an ever-changing world.

Read by Cecil Archbold.

©2017 David Deida (P)2018 Sounds True

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Levels a man up to fucking god status

Yes at times it’s a bit heavy, and times it may be construed as “new-agey” but if you can pull your head out of your own ass little bit and hear the message for what a real MAN is supposed to be and his masculine role to his woman, career, life, trajectory, and energy you already half way they the application is little tricky but well worth the time to understand and implement the practices in this book.

ALL BOYS WHO WANT TO BE MEN AND MEN WHO WANT TO ASCEND NEED to read this book

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Everyman should read this book and I mean that every man

At the start it’s a little slow to get going and a little hum drum and then all the sudden for me to book a weekend taught me more about how I need to conduct myself with my woman in my inner thoughts into doing an outer doing how to react to a woman’s challenge because they always challenge and will forever challenge us as men to be who we are born to be this is one of the best books I’ve ever read for personal Development inner and outer it’s a must read gentleman don’t be a pussy. Read the book learn what you’re doing wrong or what you’re doing right and become better for it this book will get you there this book is very honest very to the point and once again I must read man up and do this for yourself and your woman

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unashamed, ancient wisdom of yin/yang energies

In a world where much of pop culture is trying to homogenize men and women, and we are reaching record levels of depression, dissatisfaction in life, and relationships, this book is filled with powerful knowledge that can change your life for the better. It is unashamedly open about the yin/yang polarity of the universe, and the driving forces of divine masculine and feminine.
It uses wisdom of tantra, yoga, and other ancient sources of wisdom that celebrate the essence of masculinity and femininity.
If you think people need to stop using age old expressions like "man up", then your feelings will probably get hurt by this book. If you want to learn the true essence of that expression, how to become a fully realized masculine person, and become powerfully attractive to the feminine, then buy this book.
If you want to understand why many men become angry, frustrated, and continue to be temperamental little boys in mens bodies, then read this book.
The masculine essence must not be repressed, punished, or in any way attempt to be conditioned out of us. Those with a masculine essence cannot be nurtured and fulfilled the way a feminine essence is. That only leads to countless imbalances and unhappiness for everyone. It must be understood, properly directed, and cultivated. This book has changed my life.

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too much theory.. too abstract. vague

the book is good but wish the author gave more examples and practical applications for the theory. examples and too little to grasp thr content.

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Very useful content

The content of this book is very useful, but this book is not well written. How much you'll get out of it will depend heavily on your background and patience. I only stuck to this book because I trust the friend who recommended it.

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Think of this book as a buffet

This book has a lot to offer. I did pick up some useful information, but it was a little too new-agey for me in parts. It vaguely speaks of reaching through a woman, to the source of her energy. Also, the author speaks as if everything he says is truth. I had trouble believing that ejaculation is bad and that I need to ejaculate up my spine into my brain. Still, I found it an interesting listen. I picked up some good insights and fastforwarded through some chapters that got too new-agey. I think without all the vague things about energy and gifts and reaching through women, it could have been a tighter book at a more concise 2 hours. Not a terrible book though and it did have insights. It's a buffet- pull from it what you like.

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Very good book. highly recommended

truly profound spiritual wisdom, the narrator i found isn't really fitting for these kind of teachings.

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interesting, but nothing that reaches out

Interesting guide book for those who never had parents to tell them how to love a woman, not to down play on the dudes who has never been told these simple things.

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A book every MAN needs to get

Certainly one of the best books I’ve gone through to bring out your best warrior side and appreciate fully your women

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A true guide to being a man

This is my book of the year...dick punches at every sentence. This book has answered and asked many questions for and of me that have moved me on some many levels it’s hard to articulate here...a true masterpiece for the modern man...

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  • Jay
  • 09-13-18

Poor David Deida!

I was first recommended this book by the most toxic, problematic women I’ve ever encountered face to face (she came into my life via work) as you can imagine, I was reluctant to read anything recommended by such an individual! However, fast forward a number of years to today and I noticed it was available on Audible. With a number of credits freshly credited to my account and safe in the knowledge I could return the book should it piece disappointing I decided to pull the trigger and see what it was all about, although I’m very much regretting that decision!

It would appear to me that David Deida is totally unaware of the many, many mental health issues that affect humans and in particular women.

I can’t help but think David Deida has only ever dated or come across women with notable mental problems for the type of women he consistently refers to are undoubtedly troubled!
Were he to have met some normal, non problematic women I’m sure this book would never have been written in the manner in which it was.

I got to chapter 15 where I felt like waving the white flag, surrendering and returning to normality by getting a swift refund.
In this chapter, he thinks it normal that a women would complain about her husband forgetting the milk after he’d just made 1 million and changing their life’s considerably, to a degree never before experienced! He then proceeds to rant about why a women would act in such a manner as if it was the behaviour of a normal, well functioning human, before going on to advise how a ‘superior man’ should respond, it’s ridiculous and would be laughable were it not for the frightening thought that some men are trapped in such a toxic relationship bubble and it’s further frightening that some men may believe his advice and accept such a dysfunctional, toxic, negative being in their life and all the unhappiness that will follow.

For anyone who is familiar with the traits and behaviours of the likes of depression, bi-polar, borderline personality, sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists etc you will quickly realise these are the type of behaviour the author has been exposed to and thinks are perfectly normal. For any true ‘superior man’ you will see these behaviours and people for what they truly are and not try to appease and accommodate them, you will instead keep your standards high, reject & remove such toxicity from your life and only seek out and accept a partner of equal standing whom you can trust, love, laugh and build something great with.

Do what truly feels right and makes you happy, without any sense of doubt & hesitation. When it’s right it’s right and you will know so. Such times certainly won’t see the prescribe of any of the toxic, dysfunctional behaviours and scenarios described in this book!

Best Wishes to one and all. :)

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  • Madison Paz
  • 01-15-19

a bit confusing

I didn't struggle to finish it but many statements the author gives we have no idea where they come from.
the idea of masculine and feminine energy send a little outdated

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  • Seb
  • 11-05-18

Awesome

Rarely do I really wish I had read a book a lifetime ago. This is one of those exceptions.

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  • Martin
  • 10-18-18

a Man's bible

I have now read few books on manhood, masculinity etc and from my perception, there is no other book outhere now that would cover sooo much and so clearly. I love the fact that Mr Deida doesn't look at human/man existence only from the standard 3D point of view and goes beyond. Thank you David!

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 12-11-18

This book should be mandatory reading

Sometimes a book comes along that just Changes Everything and explains it all this book should be mandatory reading for every teenager husband or man trying to be a better version of himself

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  • Anonymous User
  • 12-07-18

Best book for Men, how to behave.

Best book for Men, how to behave. How to live your life. Great read, just speed up the narrator.

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  • Matt
  • 11-03-18

Worth every minute

Clear insight, and advice for living well as a man. I’d recommend it to men at all stages of life. It’s never too late to live more fully.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 10-28-18

One of the Best Books I heard/read

love each sentence, every word made me vibrate. Its an amazing book.
I'm a woman and I benefited from this book.

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  • Claudia
  • 10-09-18

AMAZING BOOK BUT USELESS WEAK WIMPY READER

WEAK READER, WHY DID YOU CHOOSE A MAN THAT DID NOT FEEL WHAT HE WAS READING... A GIRL WOULD HAVE DONE BETTER...A LITTLE GIRL EVEN

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  • Jake
  • 01-06-19

A Must For Every Man

Direct and Powerful. A must read for everyone who identifies as a man (both masculine and feminine men)

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  • Anonymous User
  • 12-27-18

excellent

is a must read for any man. great insight into the differences between the masculine and feminine.

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  • Andrew
  • 10-28-18

Great book about finding one's purpuse

Great book about finding one's purpose, appreciateting women and their role in world's vitality. Intro to meditation

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  • Anonymous User
  • 10-24-18

Men - read this

Every man should have this as a mandatory read at their 18th birthday. and then as a remind each year