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How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

By: Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish
Narrated by: Susan Bennett
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Publisher's summary

“This parenting book actually made me a better parent.” (Lydia Kiesling, The New York Times)

From number-one New York Times best-selling authors, the ultimate “parenting bible” (The Boston Globe) - a timeless, beloved book on how to effectively communicate with your child.

This best-selling classic by internationally acclaimed experts on communication between parents and children includes fresh insights and suggestions, as well as the author’s time-tested methods to solve common problems and build foundations for lasting relationships, including innovative ways to:

  • Cope with your child’s negative feelings, such as frustration, anger, and disappointment
  • Express your strong feelings without being hurtful
  • Engage your child’s willing cooperation
  • Set firm limits and maintain goodwill
  • Use alternatives to punishment that promote self-discipline
  • Understand the difference between helpful and unhelpful praise
  • Resolve family conflicts peacefully

Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, Faber and Mazlish’s down-to-earth, respectful approach makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding.

©2012 Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish (P)2012 Simon & Schuster

Critic reviews

"Will bring about more cooperation from children than all the yelling and pleading in the world." (Christian Science Monitor)

"An excellent book that’s applicable to any relationship." (Washington Post)

"Practical, sensible, lucid... the approaches Faber and Mazlish lay out are so logical you wonder why you read them with such a burst of discovery." (Family Journal)

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I recommend this book for all walks of life. I will be replaying this book to get a full grasp of the information and put it into practice. I am already seeing a difference in our family life since listening to this book.

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💪🏽 thank you for this information I have been applying it to my life since I started reading and it’s working very well

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I love this audio book and I recommend to all new parents around me. I have listened to it over 10x. I listened to the moms book too. They are book great books. The narrator was absolutely delightful and relating.

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It makes it easier to learn strategies on how to become a better parent who can react to uncomfortable situations with a conscious mindset.

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Recommended to everyone

This is a great book not only for doing with situations with kids but also with everyone. It is Amazingly simple to use.

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Worth every moment

Every parent or teacher will benefit from the words written here. Treat yourself with grace and practice!

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I could benefit from notes accompanying the book. I don't think I will purchase the book, but given a choice, I would go with the book so that I could refer to it easily.

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Talk of punishment, how it works and doesn't work.

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I'm a first time parent looking to break the generational cycles of disrespectful parenting. Thank you to the author's for the tools and perspective change. I would highly recommend this book

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I absolutely loved this book. Listening to this book a little every day truly helped me stay calmer around my sons (4 and 2) and even around my husband! Reminding me that we all have struggles and that I’m reaching tears a better way to be the best mom for my sons.

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Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, it was easy to listen to and easy to apply to my current situation

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Susan Bennett has a very soothing and accurate voice. I purchased another book, just because she was narrating it.

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Unlike other parenting books, these techniques could be applied instantly to everyday situations. This is a recommended reading or listening material for any parent who wants a closer relationship with their child.

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