Peaceful Parent, Happy Kids

How to Stop Yelling and Start Connecting

De: Laura Markham

Narrado por: Xe Sands

Based on the latest research on brain development and extensive clinical experience with parents, Dr. Laura Markham's approach is as simple as it is effective. Her message: Fostering emotional connection with your child creates real and lasting change. When you have that vital connection, you don't need to threaten, nag, plead, bribe - or even punish.

This remarkable guide will help parents better understand their own emotions - and get them in check - so they can parent with healthy limits, empathy, and clear communication to raise a self-disciplined child. Step-by-step examples give solutions and kid-tested phrasing for parents of toddlers right through the elementary years.

If you're tired of power struggles, tantrums, and searching for the right "consequence", look no further. You're about to discover the practical tools you need to transform your parenting in a positive, proven way.

©2012 Laura Markham, Ph.D. (P)2013 Tantor

An excellent book on parenting.

There are several books on this topic and I'm not sure if this is the best, but it's the best one I've found so far. I am a social worker and part of my job is helping parents with their discipline methods. This book explains the topic clearly and the narration is excellent. The message is to change your own behavior to teach your child to behave. I completely agree with the author that the parent's emotional intelligence is extremely important. If you want to predict what kind of adult your child will be you only need to look inside yourself. He/She will most likely have all of your strengths and weaknesses. If you are prone to adult temper tantrums, then your child will copy you. If you are in control of your emotions and remain calm, your child will begin to copy that as well. It won't happen overnight mainly because the parent is going to mess it up and won't be able to maintain calm. The child will increase their testing behavior when the old methods stop working, but if the parent can truly change then the child will follow.

A good foundation

I think that this teaches the right way to think about parenting but needs to be combined with other books that teach skills more specifically. I think that the praising techniques from Kazdin (Yale parenting center) should be reviewed to improve one’s parenting techniques. “How to talk so little Kids will listen” should be read in conjunction with this.

Amazing!!!! You really need this book!

There are so many parenting books out there but this is truly one of the best. Dr. Markham has a captivating writing style that is easy to read/listen and even easier to understand. If you want to be happy as a parent and to have happy children, you should definitely consider reading this book (at least once!)

Eye opening

I really enjoyed this book. So many gems that forced me to connect and re-evaluate connections I made with my own childhood. This book is a great tool for any parent looking for a start on how to break the cycle of poor parenting choices that may negatively impact your child/children later. Start today to re-build or build a better relationship. Thank you.

Good advice, chapters don't match book layout

I will say it was OK. It definitely offers good techniques. The listening chapters do not match the book at all so it makes it very difficult to find particular points. I don't like that she says parents enjoy or get relief from beating or abusing their children. Those parents aren't reading this book. I can definitely relate my children's issues with the characteristics described in this book. I have started using the techniques and they are helping. Great book for the new parents or seasoned parents. I would read more books and not just stop here.