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A clinical neuropsychologist and test prep guru combine cutting-edge brain science with insights from their work with families to make a radical new case for giving kids more control if you want to unleash their full potential. 

Many of us know we're putting too much pressure on our kids - and on ourselves - but how do we get off this crazy train? We want our children to succeed, to be their best, and to do their best, but what if they are not on board? 

A few years ago, Ned Johnson and Bill Stixrud started noticing the same problem from different angles: even high-performing kids were coming to them acutely stressed and lacking any real motivation. Many complained that they had no real control over their lives. Johnson runs PrepMatters, an elite tutoring service that teaches teens how to perform better on standardized tests. Stixrud is a clinical neuropsychologist who helps patients suffering from ADHD, anxiety, eating disorders, and depression. Both have devoted their lives to coaching kids and they have hit on a counterintuitive solution to unlocking their full potential: even at a young age kids need to feel that their views matter. They need more agency. A healthy motivation hinges on having a strong sense of control. So how do you do that without giving up all authority as a parent? 

The Self-Driven Child offers a combination of brain science, the latest discoveries in behavioral therapy, case studies drawn from the thousands of children and teens Stixrud and Johnson have helped over the years, and concrete advice that you can act on tonight to teach you how to unlock your children's potential and set them on the real road to success. We can only drive our children so far. At some point, they have to take the wheel themselves. Those who have never been allowed to make meaningful decisions until then are likely to flounder. 

The Self-Driven Child will give you the tools to make sure your children navigate with confidence and determination and find their own path. 

©2018 William Stixrud and Ned Johnson (P)2018 Penguin Audio

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Worth a read.

Well written, advice backed by science and studies. Fantastic book on how to raise your children to succeed in an ever changing world.

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Get it. Practice it.

This is a very well written and informative book. I will revisit many times. Thank you!

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Practical, wise, and well researched

Having read a fair share if parenting books, thus is one of the better ones. IMO, it applies best to parents of children 8 and up. That's why you will find the greatest value in reading it while your kids are younger than that. Be ready with a prepared mindset.

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Wow!!!

After a few chapters I was hooked. So insightful and mind blowing. Not only has it helped me with my son, but has helped me to reflect on myself and the changes I need to make.

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Best parenting book I've ever read.<br />

Best parenting book I've ever read. I've been recommending it to everyone I know, whether or not they are a parent. Thank you!

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loved!

This will be a book that I read again and again! I highly recommend to anyone who works with,has, or is thinking about having kids.

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Great insight

A pleasant and scientific approach to parenting with real world examples and solid advice. Narration is very good. They address many popular misconceptions in parenting and a series of key points in child development. Useful for parents of children of all ages up to college.

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Very good information!

I listened to the book and liked it very much, some parts were more aligned to what I needed to learn than others but overall great book!

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Excellent up to date Positive Parenting book

I’m hard to impress and I was extremely impressed by this up to date parenting book. It’s a compilation of my favorite authors advice and brain science down to the importance of the parent taking care of their own stress first. I will recommend it to all my people!

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Really really good

I think this book is valuable for parents and non-parents. I found it to be really good content to think about and help me shift some of my own ways of thinking about learning and life. As a parent of 5, I am really grateful to have listened to this book and gained some perspective I was lacking. I’ve recommended this to a lot of people.