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Publisher's Summary

Finally, you can understand her! If you're like most men, you've burned up lots of energy trying to figure out what a woman wants, what makes her tick, and how to make her happy. The good news: success is simpler than you thought. In their groundbreaking classic, For Men Only, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn reveal the eye opening truths and simple acts that will radically improve your relationship with the woman you love.

For example:

  • Why she can’t "just not think about" something that's bothering her.
  • How to get her real answers without games.
  • How your provider instinct can actually cause her heartache - and what to do about it.
  • Why "not tonight, honey" may not mean what you think.
  • Why listening to her feelings is so hard for a guy, and a fix-it plan that works.
  • Why her "I do" at the altar will always mean, "do you?" and the answer that rocks her world.

Now updated with the latest scientific research to explain the fabulous female brain plus an all-new chapter that shows how to decode her most baffling behavior, For Men Only is your roadmap to making her happy.

©2013 Multnomah Books; Har/Bklt R edition (P)2013 Oasis Audio

Critic Reviews

"Shaunti and Jeff have unearthed a treasure chest of insights - eye opening and life changing." (Andy Stanley, Senior Pastor, North Point Community Church)

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Really helpfull!

Its,great to find a book that really tell how it is to men. I noticed changes in my husband already. Every man needs to read this.

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  • Courtney
  • Battle Creek, NE, United States
  • 11-21-13

Awesome!! Must read for all couples;)

Would you consider the audio edition of For Men Only (Revised and Updated Edition) to be better than the print version?

Yes, because most men do not want to sit down and read a book, ok I should not say most. But my man, is busy with work and is not the type to sit down and read a book. I suggest the audio version, for this reason. Plus I love the fact that we can listen together and talk about it as we are listening. I have owned the printed copy of both and I lost the for men only one, I still have the for women only, and we are both just starting to through the process of learning about each other again. I have to say that after a sneer peak at for men only it was like (OMG) if the for women only is only half this accurate we have hit gold... Thank you Jeff and Shaunti for the time and effort you both made to create such an important part of what I believe will save many marriage.. God bless

What did you like best about this story?

The FACTS! Everything is spot on!

What insight do you think you’ll apply from For Men Only (Revised and Updated Edition)?

I really think that the "window open" "window close" section was dead on.. Perfect chapter

Any additional comments?

Live it, love it, listen over and over! This is my suggestion! If your spouse cares about you and your relationship listening to this book will be very easy..

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  • Jill
  • United States
  • 10-19-13

Life changing

Have your husband read "For Men Only" and the wife reads "For Women Only" at the same time. These books do a fantastic job of telling us bluntly what we are not understanding about the opposite sex. You will have so many ah-ha! moments while reading this. It completely changed our marriage. My husband I have not fought since we read these books about 4 months ago because we have such a better understanding of eachother.

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wish I would've read it 16 years ago!!

Open my eyes to see her needs. Putting these principles to work how fast my wife has responded to me

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Awesome.

Wish I read this 20 years ago. I have many things to work on in my marriage based on this book. Exciting

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A read for all men!!

I would recommend it to all the men I know!! especially the ones in relationships!

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Must Read for Men

If you could sum up For Men Only (Revised and Updated Edition) in three words, what would they be?

more gradifing relationship

What did you like best about this story?

The book goes over all major problems that men have in a relationship with women.

Have you listened to any of Jeff Feldhahn’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

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If you were to make a film of this book, what would the tag line be?

Under standing how the women you love , LOVES you

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Great and valuable info

This book really helped me understand my wife better. The reason she acts the way she does and what she desires from me as her husband. I'm not only much more understanding and considerate to how she feels and behaves but I am also much more effective on how I respond and fulfill her needs.

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Right on the money

The way Jeff describes how women are is exactly how they feel and function daily. Just hug your porcupine!!

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Men. Listen to this book.

I really loved this book. Great timing in this season of my life.
I took good notes.
I am glad there was practical application to interpret the survey data.

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  • Lynford Cooper
  • 02-23-17

Really good advice+

very very informative... learned so much on how to understand my woman and how to please her mentally and also learned plenty about myself.