Life Bite Series. We need to take ownership of our lives otherwise life will literally drag us where it wants to go which is more likely nowwhere near where we want to go. We don't need to let others decide for us what we want either just because they think it is a good idea or things to do.
You don't have to be loud or bombastic, just be yourself with a clear and straightforward resolve as to what you want to do, or if you don't know at least you know what you don't want to do. Taking ownership removes a lot of the uncertainty on life, it removes the conflict that outside forces can put up and it gives you a better feel of what is available for you and the ability to do it too.