Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed
Help and Hope for Adults in the Family Scapegoat Role
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Patricia Burgos
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Family scapegoating is an insidious form of "invisible" abuse that is difficult to recognize. It is therefore critical that adult survivors of dysfunctional or narcissistic family systems understand what type of abuse they are trying to recover from. In Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed, licensed psychotherapist and family systems expert Rebecca C. Mandeville uses her research findings on what she named "Family Scapegoating Abuse" (FSA) to help survivors recognize and release the damaging "scapegoat" narrative associated with the family "identified patient" role. This second revision includes additional recovery suggestions, and updated resources.
In this book you'll discover:
● How to recognize and identify family scapegoating abuse (FSA) signs and symptoms
● Why scapegoated individuals have difficulty recognizing they are being abused
● How complex trauma (C-PTSD), betrayal trauma, and toxic shame impede FSA recovery
● Strategies to reduce fawn/submit behaviors and realign with your "true self"
● Recommended resources and therapy modalities for FSA recovery
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My second purchase! Well done!
- By Shenandoah Titus, Esq., Author of Bullies, Bosses & Betrayal: Overcoming Workplace Abuse on 08-27-20
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Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents
- How to Heal, Cultivate Emotional Resilience, and Build the Life and Love You Deserve
- By: Sherrie Campbell PhD
- Narrated by: Sherrie Campbell
- Length: 6 hrs and 9 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 42
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 41
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Story5 out of 5 stars 41
When your parents are pathologically self-centered, manipulative, or emotionally abusive, the pain they cause is deep and often difficult to put into words. You may experience anxiety, depression, complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD), low self-esteem, addiction, or other mental health conditions as an adult. But it was not your fault, and there are tools you can use to heal the trauma caused by your childhood.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Felt words were given to my experiences
- By Britney on 07-02-24
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How Scapegoats Can Heal from Narcissistic Abuse
- 3 Steps Towards Compassion, Protection & Freedom
- By: Jay Reid
- Narrated by: Todd Lewandowski
- Length: 8 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 1
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 1
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Story5 out of 5 stars 1
Are you afraid to feel good? Do you see everyone else pursuing their right to happiness yet feel held back? Do you feel alone, strange or that there’s something wrong with you? Here’s the good news: None of these feelings are true! This is how people feel after a childhood as the scapegoat to a narcissistic parent. These parents require this child to feel bad so that they don’t have to. Scapegoat children learn it is psychologically dangerous to feel good about who they are. This book lays out three steps to finally make it safe to feel good about yourself.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Read/listen this if you want to feel heard and seen. Incredible.
- By Haiden on 05-30-25
By: Jay Reid
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When Parents Hurt
- Compassionate Strategies When You and Your Grown Child Don't Get Along
- By: Joshua Coleman PhD
- Narrated by: Paul Boehmer
- Length: 8 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 105
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 86
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 85
This unique book supports parents who are struggling with the heartache of having a teenager or an adult child who is troubled, angry, or distant. Such rifts can cause unspeakable sorrow that parents too often must bear alone. Psychologist and parent Joshua Coleman, PhD, offers insight, empathy, and perspective to those who have lost the opportunity to be the parents they desperately wanted to be and who are mourning the loss of a harmonious relationship with their child.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Not worth tour time...
- By TMT on 12-12-16
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Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members
- Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut
- By: Sherrie Campbell PhD, Wendy T. Behary LCSW - foreword
- Narrated by: Sherrie Campbell
- Length: 7 hrs and 13 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 275
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 243
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 243
Do you have a toxic family member? Do you feel like cutting ties with this person—even as painful and scary as that may sound—would dramatically increase your well-being and improve your life? You're not alone. In Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, psychologist and toxic family survivor Sherrie Campbell offers effective strategies for setting strong boundaries after ending contact with a toxic family member, and provides powerful tools to help you heal from shame, self-doubt, and stigma. You'll find the validation you need to embrace your decision with pride.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Taking my power back
- By INDIGENOUSLY EDS on 04-13-24
By: Sherrie Campbell PhD, and others
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Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD (4 Books in 1)
- Workbook and Guide to Overcome Trauma, Toxic Relationships, ... and Recover from Unhealthy Relationships)
- By: Linda Hill
- Narrated by: S. L. Albert, Vicky David, Alene Sorensen
- Length: 12 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 74
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 65
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 65
This groundbreaking book includes four books that will teach you from start to finish, everything you need to know about Narcissistic Abuse, Gaslighting, Codependency and Complex PTSD, as well as how to recover from each one of them.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Better understanding and clarity
- By Amber Glover on 02-15-23
By: Linda Hill
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The Power of Parting
- Finding Peace and Freedom Through Family Estrangement
- By: Eamon Dolan
- Narrated by: Eamon Dolan
- Length: 8 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 10
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 10
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Story5 out of 5 stars 10
In The Power of Parting, Dolan has written the book he wishes he’d had when he was struggling to free himself from his mother’s abuse. In the process, he discovered how widespread estrangement really is. At least 27 percent of Americans are estranged from a parent, sibling, or other family member. He also learned why so much stigma surrounds this common—and often lifesaving—phenomenon.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Illuminating!
- By Anonymous on 04-30-25
By: Eamon Dolan
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The Good Daughter Syndrome
- Help for Empathic Daughters of Narcissistic, Borderline, or Difficult Mothers Trapped in the Role of the Good Daughter
- By: Katherine K Fabrizio
- Narrated by: Colleen Weaver
- Length: 10 hrs and 12 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 18
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 18
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 18
You love your mother, but she drives you crazy. She controls, criticizes, and butts into your life constantly. Then when you try and set boundaries, the pushback and resulting guilt are so bad you tell yourself...it's just not worth it. Is your mother narcissistic, borderline, or just plain difficult? Are you empathetic, sensitive, and kind? If so, chances are you have fallen into one or all of the hidden psychological traps that constitute the Good Daughter Syndrome.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Decent primer if your mom is still in your life
- By Twin of Eyegone on 07-01-24
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Making Sense of Toxic Abusive People
- Dealing With, & Understanding Abuse & Bullying, Liars Toxic Personalities Partners & Narcissists, Manipulation & Gaslighting. "Understand to Let Go & Find Peace"
- By: Syl Sabastian, Elevia DeNobelia
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 5 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 25
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 25
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 25
THIS BOOK IS NOT FOR EVERYONE! Making Sense of Toxic Abusive People is a must-read for anyone looking to understand and make sense of the dynamics between abusive people and those they abuse. Written from a lifetime’s worth of experience and involvement this book provides insights into how abusers manipulate their victims and keep them under control through lies, corruption, and deceit. Who this book IS for: - Honest and Real people - Willing to face and deal with the awful-truth - Those who truly want to understand - Earnest individuals seeking freedom - Courageous persons looking to ...
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5 out of 5 stars
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A go-to tool box for dealing with narcissistic personality disorder.
- By Keith Johnson on 05-15-25
By: Syl Sabastian, and others
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Recovery Solutions
- Overcome Narcissistic Abuse, Codependency, Gaslighting & Toxic Family Relationships (4 Books in 1): Your Workbook & Guide to Boundaries, Letting Go, Trauma & Better Mental Health
- By: Cassandra McBride
- Narrated by: Alyssa Marie
- Length: 23 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 25
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 25
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Story5 out of 5 stars 25
Are you ready to recover from toxic relationships, heal from past trauma, and reclaim your life? Drawing from personal experience and extensive research, author Cassandra McBride offers a transformative journey through four essential guides.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Nice audiobook.
- By Anonymous User on 06-16-25
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Treating Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- A Clinician's Guide
- By: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrated by: Ann Sprinkle
- Length: 12 hrs and 15 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 1
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 1
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Story4 out of 5 stars 1
Psychologist and New York Times bestselling author Lindsay C. Gibson draws on more than thirty years of clinical experience as a psychotherapist and outlines a unique approach to treating a common syndrome that shapes the lives of so many people seeking therapy. Gibson shares her perspectives on the goals of therapy, and what therapists need to know in order to provide the most effective interventions.
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Will the Drama Ever End?
- Untangling and Healing from the Harmful Effects of Parental Narcissism
- By: Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.
- Length: 9 hrs and 14 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 21
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 19
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 19
A pioneer on the devastating effects of narcissistic abuse, Karyl McBride, PhD, has the answer for anyone desperate for help in overcoming the damage of being raised in a family headed by a narcissistic parent. Divided into three sections, McBride explores the insidious way a narcissistic environment is developed in a family, how a narcissistic parent damages a child’s emotional growth and ability to trust, and finally, how to not only move on but become truly free.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Great book but worksheet?
- By Amazon Customer on 05-02-23
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Mothers Who Can't Love
- A Healing Guide for Daughters
- By: Susan Forward, Donna Frazier Glynn
- Narrated by: Susan Forward, Kathleen Gati, Julia Whelan, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 28 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 948
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 819
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Story5 out of 5 stars 820
With Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters, Susan Forward, Ph.D., author of the smash #1 best-seller Toxic Parents, offers a powerful look at the devastating impact unloving mothers have on their daughters - and provides clear, effective techniques for overcoming that painful legacy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very Powerful. Deserves 6 stars!
- By wendy on 03-25-15
By: Susan Forward, and others
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Done with the Crying
- Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children
- By: Sheri McGregor
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 12 hrs and 6 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 284
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 239
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 238
In Done with the Crying: Help and Healing for Mothers of Estranged Adult Children, Sheri McGregor, MA, helps parents break free from emotional pain - and move forward in their own lives. As a loving mother to whom the unthinkable happened, McGregor knows the horrible shock that wrings a parent dry, triggers denial, blame, anger, and shame. With empathy and understanding, as well as tools, the latest research, and insight from more than 9,000 parents of estranged adult children, McGregor helps parents of estranged adults plan, prepare for emotional triggers, and prevail over pain.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Take your life back and let healing begin
- By Jennifer Gill on 05-26-18
By: Sheri McGregor
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Estranged Parents Guide to Resilience
- Achieving a Brighter Future
- By: Joanne Harvey MSW
- Narrated by: Heather Dzielinski
- Length: 4 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 6
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 6
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Story5 out of 5 stars 6
Joanne Harvey MSW, a seasoned professional in social work and personal development, draws upon her extensive background to offer profound insights in "Estranged Parents Guide to Resilience." Having worked with hundreds of clients suffering from estrangement, Joanne deeply understands the profound, heartbreaking pain estranged parents endure. As a Pro EFT Master and Certified Havening Practitioner, her gentle guidance and empathetic understanding illuminate a path for readers navigating these difficult times.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A Hopeful Resource for Healing
- By SCOTT D SCHEPPMANN on 11-25-24
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Healing the Adult Children of Narcissists
- Essays on the Invisible War Zone and Exercises for Recovery and Reflection
- By: Shahida Arabi
- Narrated by: Soneela Nankani
- Length: 12 hrs and 1 min
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 16
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 15
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 15
Those who have had a narcissistic parent can testify to how damaging it can be to one's psyche. Narcissistic parents lack empathy, show a severe sense of entitlement to micromanage the lives of their children, and often subject their children to neglect, as well as emotional, psychological, and physical abuse. From the unique challenges daughters of narcissistic fathers face to the ways in which adverse childhood experiences affect our brains, Shahida Arabi's insightful essays resonate deeply with those who have been raised by narcissistic parents.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Incredibly helpful book for survivors of narcissistic abuse
- By Alison Wacter on 12-11-23
By: Shahida Arabi
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Walking on Eggshells
- Navigating the Delicate Relationship Between Adult Children and Parents
- By: Jane Isay
- Narrated by: Ann Marie Lee
- Length: 7 hrs and 31 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 142
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 121
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Story4 out of 5 stars 121
We raise our children to be independent and lead fulfilling lives, but when they finally do, staying close becomes more complicated than ever. And for every bewildered mother who wonders why her children don't call, there is a frustrated son or daughter who just wants to be treated like a grownup. Now, renowned editor Jane Isay delivers the perfect gift to both parents and their adult children-real-life wisdom and advice on how to stay together without falling apart.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Disappointed
- By tammy alvarez on 01-13-19
By: Jane Isay
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