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- How We Use Dysfunctional Relationships to Hide from Intimacy
- Narrated by: Aaron Welch
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Publisher's Summary
An important and transformative guide that addresses the protective, yet dysfunctional dynamic where couples avoid genuine connection with an unsatisfying pattern of false intimacy. Drawing on their extensive clinical experience, the authors look at "song and dance" behavioral routines repeatedly performed by couples in irrelationships and delve into the most difficult emotions and actions to help listeners achieve personal breakthroughs.
Written for anyone who wants to understand unhealthy patterns and how to change them, Irrelationships will help listeners develop interpersonal skills, creating a new opportunity to heal and restore loving relationships.
Mark B. Borg, Jr., PhD, is a community psychologist and psychoanalyst, and a supervisor of psychotherapy at the William Alanson White Institute.
Grant H. Brenner, MD, is a board-certified psychiatrist in private practice, specializing in treating mood and anxiety disorders and the complex problems that may arise in adulthood from childhood trauma and loss.
Daniel Berry, RN, MHA, has practiced as a Registered Nurse in New York City since 1987 and has worked for almost two decades in community-based programs.
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- L.L.
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Great book -poorly edited audio/voice recording
Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?
I would recommend the content of the book, which is great! But I would not recommend the audiobook as there were many errors in the recording and it was poorly done. Too bad, because it's a great book.
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A final edit.
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- Randal Weidenaar
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insightful about the workings of relationship
This book helps us to understand the complexities of our relationships and how we play games that we're not even really aware of sometimes. By helping us identify the unhealthy ways we've been relating, it opens up new frontiers for healthy relationships.
1 person found this helpful
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A must read
The recording seems to be not the final draft. Once you hear the narrator flub a words and say, "Ah, I need to take that again." There are also weird audio discrepancies with the word, oxytocin. Other than that though, the performance is solid. Weird.
Anyways, fantastic book, very helpful. I'm a licensed therapist and psychoanalyst in training and I have learned a lot reading this.
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- How to Get the Most Out of Pyschotherapy
- By: Gary Trosclair
- Narrated by: Chris Kayser
- Length: 7 hrs and 39 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 70
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 58
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 58
Learn to get the most out of therapy to unlock your best self. Millions of Americans will go to therapy this year, but veteran psychotherapist Gary Trosclair believes the vast majority of them will start the process with little to no sense of how to best use their sessions to achieve their goals. Recent research has identified effective client participation as one of the most crucial factors in successful therapy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Insightful and helpful infor for seeking therapy
- By Keisha B on 01-30-22
By: Gary Trosclair
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Receiving Love
- Transform Your Relationship by Letting Yourself Be Loved
- By: Harville Hendrix Ph.D., Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Harville Hendrix Ph.D., Helen LaKelly Hunt Ph.D.
- Length: 3 hrs and 42 mins
- Abridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 198
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 126
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 125
This groundbreaking audiobook from the best-selling authors of Getting the Love You Want and co-authors of Giving the Love that Heals is the first to address the biggest unexplored issue facing couples today: Most of us are better at giving love than accepting it.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Food for those in the world starving.
- By Thomas on 01-30-11
By: Harville Hendrix Ph.D., and others
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Daughter Detox
- Recovering from an Unloving Mother and Reclaiming Your Life
- By: Peg Streep
- Narrated by: Callie Beaulieu
- Length: 10 hrs and 34 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 176
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 147
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 147
Writer Peg Streep lays out seven distinct but interconnected stages on the path to reclaim your life from the effects of a toxic childhood: "discover", "discernment", "distinguish", "disarm", "reclaim", "redirect", and "recover". Each step is clearly explained and richly detailed with the stories of other women. With approaches drawn from psychology and other disciplines and with unique exercises, the book will help the listener tackle her own self-doubt and become consciously aware of how her mother's treatment continues to shape her behavior.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Hits the nail on the head
- By Amber Zeeff on 09-21-18
By: Peg Streep
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The Journey from Abandonment to Healing
- Surviving Through and Recovering from the Five Stages That Accompany the Loss of Love
- By: Susan Anderson
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 476
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 386
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 378
The Journey from Abandonment to Healing is designed to help all victims of emotional breakups-whether they are suffering from a recent loss or a lingering wound from the past; whether they are caught up in patterns that sabotage their own relationships or they are in a relationship where they no longer feel loved. From the first stunning blow to starting over, this book provides a complete program for abandonment recovery.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Amazing Book
- By Dan on 03-16-16
By: Susan Anderson
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Anxious to Please: 7 Revolutionary Practices for the Chronically Nice
- By: Craig English, James Rapson
- Narrated by: Arika Escalona
- Length: 6 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 115
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 100
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Story4 out of 5 stars 99
Chronic Niceness affects multitudes, causing severe anxiety and depression, crippling self-esteem, and undermining and destroying relationships. Anxious to Please reveals the primary psychological cause of Chronic Niceness: Anxious Attachment. Anxious Attachment drives the Nice Person to accommodate, acquiesce, and avoid conflict. Nice People take what they're given rather than asking for what they want, often sacrificing relationship, careers and their own integrity.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Help for the "chronically nice"
- By lisa on 01-02-13
By: Craig English, and others
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Relationship Breakthrough
- How to Create Outstanding Relationships in Every Area of Your Life
- By: Cloe Madanes, Anthony Robbins
- Narrated by: Aimee Jolson
- Length: 6 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 396
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 337
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 338
Everyone faces the challenges of making relationships work. Whether with spouses, family members, friends, lovers, or colleagues, relationships have the power to make one feel happy, frustrated, or miserable. In Relationship Breakthrough, Cloe Madanes - an expert in creating healing, empowering relationships - gives listeners vital tools to transform their relationships and their lives. Madanes's cutting-edge methods produce real results and create rewarding, sustainable relationships.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Disappointed
- By Dee on 01-10-16
By: Cloe Madanes, and others
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When It's Never About You
- By: Ilene S. Cohen Ph.D.
- Narrated by: Reba Thomas
- Length: 6 hrs and 18 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 69
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 57
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 57
Everyone loves a people-pleaser. They're always willing to help, to stay late, to fill in, to go along. But if you're one of them, you often end up feeling violated, ignored, disrespected, and disconnected from life and others. Silently enduring the ongoing and relentless invalidation of who you are and what you want will reliably wreak havoc on your health and the health of your relationships.
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5 out of 5 stars
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A different perspective that’s worth listening to
- By Lisa F. on 10-11-19
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The Rough Patch
- Marriage and the Art of Living Together
- By: Daphne de Marneffe PhD
- Narrated by: Daphne de Marneffe PhD
- Length: 13 hrs and 23 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 74
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 59
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 59
From a leading clinical psychologist who has counseled couples and individuals for decades, a wise, radical, and optimistic approach to marriage that promises compatibility between an individual's development and the often relentless demands of a relationship.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Required reading prior to attending marriage therapy: to avoid wasting both time, money, and even your soul
- By Steve Senatori on 08-12-19
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Ghosted and Breadcrumbed
- Stop Falling for Unavailable Men and Get Smart About Healthy Relationships
- By: Dr. Marni Feuerman
- Narrated by: Devon Sorvari
- Length: 6 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 94
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 76
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 76
Time and again, some women fall for someone who for one reason or another will never return their feelings. The object of their affection may be emotionally unavailable, married, or even pathologically cruel. The woman who routinely finds herself in this situation suffers mightily, feeling rejected, unloved, undesirable. With empathy and compassion, Dr. Marni Feuerman helps women see their situations clearly, understand the historical, emotional, and psychological reasons behind their actions, and most importantly, make better choices for themselves.
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3 out of 5 stars
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For Woman who have affairs w/Married Men
- By Sassylady on 08-03-21
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The Undervalued Self
- By: Elaine N. Aron
- Narrated by: Marguerite Gavin
- Length: 7 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 148
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 109
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 108
Elaine Aron follows up her best sellers on the highly sensitive person with a groundbreaking new book on the undervalued self. She explains that self-esteem results from having a healthy balance of love and power in our lives. Readers will learn to incorporate love into situations that seem to require power and deal with power struggles that mask themselves as issues of love.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Life Changing!
- By Dawn Mitchell on 09-20-15
By: Elaine N. Aron
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The Stories We Tell Ourselves
- Stop Jumping to Conclusions. Free Yourself from Anxiety. Transform Your Relationships.
- By: R. Scott Gornto
- Narrated by: R. Scott Gornto
- Length: 5 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 57
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 40
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 39
In The Stories We Tell Ourselves, author and therapist Scott Gornto shows us how to break the cycle of false assumptions that lead to unnecessary anxiety. By taking control of our reactions to the people around us, we can learn how to be truly present in our lives as we nurture the relationships that matter most.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Good content, poor writing
- By Oliver Nielsen on 12-25-15
By: R. Scott Gornto
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Loving Bravely
- 20 Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want
- By: Alexandra H. Solomon PhD
- Narrated by: Vanessa Daniels
- Length: 7 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 202
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 170
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 167
Real love starts with you. Loving someone else requires courage and vulnerability. And in order to create deep and authentic relationships that really go the distance, it's important to develop self-awareness and a willingness to take responsibility for your experiences. You've heard the saying, "You can't love anyone unless you love yourself first." But in the midst of life's distractions and society's myths of flawless romance, how exactly do you do that?
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5 out of 5 stars
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Did not enjoy the narration
- By Darcy on 07-23-17
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Getting the Love You Want
- A Guide for Couples: Third Edition
- By: Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
- Narrated by: Harville Hendrix, Helen LaKelly Hunt
- Length: 10 hrs and 11 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 694
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 568
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 559
The New York Times best-selling guide to transforming an intimate relationship into a lasting source of love and companionship, now fully revised with a new foreword and a brand-new chapter.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Terrible narration
- By Nancy on 04-30-19
By: Harville Hendrix, and others
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Stop Overreacting
- Effective Strategies for Calming Your Emotions
- By: Judith Siegel
- Narrated by: Margo Trueblood
- Length: 5 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 146
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 125
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 122
When you are criticized or rejected, do you have a tendency to lash out or withdraw entirely? Both types of kneejerk reactions can have lasting and unintended consequences, affecting our friendships, careers, families, and romantic relationships. The truth is, overreacting hurts us as much as it hurts the people around us. You may see overreacting as an unchangeable part of your personality, but in reality, this tendency, like any other, can be unlearned.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Not many books I give 5 starts
- By Mari M. on 07-12-17
By: Judith Siegel
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We Do
- Saying Yes to a Relationship of Depth, True Connection, and Enduring Love
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Matthew Boston
- Length: 7 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 115
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 97
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Story5 out of 5 stars 96
In We Do, Tatkin provides a groundbreaking guide for couples. You'll figure out whether you and your partner are right for each other in the long term, and if so, give your relationship a strong foundation so you can enjoy a secure and lasting love.
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2 out of 5 stars
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Info great but awful narration
- By Sharleen on 03-28-19
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Beyond Boundaries
- Learning to Trust Again in Relationships
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: John Townsend
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 506
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 431
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 423
For when your trust has been broken: Discover how to set firm boundaries again, how to connect deeply without being hurt, and how to safely grow your most intimate relationships. Painful relationships violate our trust, causing us to close our hearts. But to experience the freedom and love God designed us for, we eventually have to take another risk.
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2 out of 5 stars
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VERY Christian oriented
- By KK on 06-30-12
By: John Townsend
