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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,190
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,016
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In this breakthrough book, clinical psychologist Lindsay Gibson exposes the destructive nature of parents who are emotionally immature or unavailable. You will see how these parents create a sense of neglect and discover ways to heal from the pain and confusion caused by your childhood. By freeing yourself from your parents' emotional immaturity, you can recover your true nature, control how you react to them, and avoid disappointment. Finally, you'll learn how to create positive new relationships so you can build a better life.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Astonishing information.
- By K_Scofield on 07-20-16
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Insecure in Love
- How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
- By: Leslie Becker-Phelps PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 458
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In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellent book
- By Danika on 01-28-17
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The Tactical Guide to Women
- How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage
- By: Shawn Smith
- Narrated by: Chris Abell
- Length: 6 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 1,021
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 882
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Story5 out of 5 stars 879
For men, love is a high-stakes gamble. The right woman can be the best part of a man's life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. In today's climate, no man should venture into romance without a reliable risk-management strategy. The Tactical Guide to Women delivers a solid plan for allowing the right women into your life, and keeping the wrong ones at a safe distance. This is not another book about getting laid. This book is about not getting screwed.
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5 out of 5 stars
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a book that is as important as the rational male.
- By Chris on 12-26-17
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Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
- By: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Length: 10 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 413
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 363
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Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Wake up call !
- By sashy on 08-18-16
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Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist
- How to End the Drama and Get On with Life
- By: Margalis Fjelstad
- Narrated by: Dawn McKelvie Cyr
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 843
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 743
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Story5 out of 5 stars 720
People with borderline or narcissistic personality disorders have a serious mental illness that primarily affects their intimate, personal, and family relationships. Often they appear to be normally functioning at work and in public interactions, and narcissists may even be highly effective, in the short term, in some work or social situations. However, in intimate relationships, they can be emotional, aggressive, demeaning, illogical, paranoid, accusing, and controlling - in the extreme.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Very Helpful
- By AutumnDawn on 07-09-16
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Empath: Emotional Abuse
- How to Stop Emotional Abuse from Ruining Your Life and a Powerful Program to Help You Break Free from Narcissistic Abuse Forever
- By: Naomi McCullough
- Narrated by: Vianna Vigneau
- Length: 3 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 53
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 53
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 53
The only emotional-abuse audiobook you'll ever need. This audiobook is your primer if you simply can’t understand why your partner or friend continually hurts you and makes you feel unlovable. You are not to blame, and there is nothing wrong with you - they are a psychopath or narcissist, specific personality types that aren’t in relationships out of love.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Great book
- By Caldwell on 11-19-19
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Anxious to Please: 7 Revolutionary Practices for the Chronically Nice
- By: Craig English, James Rapson
- Narrated by: Arika Escalona
- Length: 6 hrs and 45 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 91
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 78
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Story4 out of 5 stars 78
Chronic Niceness affects multitudes, causing severe anxiety and depression, crippling self-esteem, and undermining and destroying relationships. Anxious to Please reveals the primary psychological cause of Chronic Niceness: Anxious Attachment. Anxious Attachment drives the Nice Person to accommodate, acquiesce, and avoid conflict. Nice People take what they're given rather than asking for what they want, often sacrificing relationship, careers and their own integrity.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Help for the "chronically nice"
- By lisa on 01-02-13
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If He's So Great, Why Do I Feel So Bad?
- Recognizing and Overcoming Subtle Abuse
- By: Avery Neal
- Narrated by: Virginia Wolf
- Length: 7 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 27
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 22
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 22
In this groundbreaking audiobook, Avery Neal, founder of the Women's Therapy Clinic, helps you recognize the warning signs of subtle abuse. As you are able to identify patterns that have never made sense before, you are better equipped to make changes. An expert in the field, Neal has guided countless individuals to regain their self-esteem, their joy, and their lives. From letting go of fear to setting boundaries, If He's So Great, Why Do I Feel So Bad? will help you enjoy a happy, healthy, fulfilling life, free of shame or blame.
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How to Do No Contact Like a Boss!
- The Woman's Guide to Implementing No Contact & Detaching from Toxic Relationships
- By: Kim Saeed
- Narrated by: Stephanie Murphy
- Length: 3 hrs and 30 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 295
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 245
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 240
How to Do No Contact like a Boss explains the reasons for going No Contact and takes the listener through the initial planning stages, exit strategies, the moment of No Contact, what to expect in the days that follow, and how to deal with a persistent and/or abusive ex who refuses to respect one's request for No Contact. Also included are alternative healing methods that address what traditional therapy often overlooks.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very helpful. I dont feel so alone anymore.<br />
- By Rhonda on 12-15-16
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Beyond Boundaries
- Learning to Trust Again in Relationships
- By: John Townsend
- Narrated by: John Townsend
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 375
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 328
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 322
How do you know you're ready to trust again ... and what does it take to be ready? Painful relationships violate our trust, causing us to close our hearts. But to experience the freedom and love God designed us for, we eventually have to take another risk.In this breakthrough book, bestselling author Dr. John Townsend takes you beyond the pain of the past to discover how to re-enter a life of intimate relationships. Whether you're trying to restore a current relationship or begin a new one, Townsend gives practical tools for establishing trust and finding the intimacy you long for.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Wonderful Guidance & Clarity for Healing Relationships
- By Jackie K. Jacobs on 10-28-15
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Narcissist: How to Handle a Narcissist, Survive from Emotional Abuse, Set Boundaries and Control Your Relationship
- By: Rina Mcnally
- Narrated by: Janelle Bigham
- Length: 3 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 36
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 34
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 34
What is Narcissism? The word has traditionally been associated with a harmless love for one’s self, very rarely being used to describe a destructive abuse mechanism. When mainstream society thinks of narcissism, I get the feeling it’s not looked at with disdain, but rather as an off-the-cuff petty character trait. How wrong could it be? The world we live in has become narcissistic. Driven by materialism and superficial goals, no longer does humanity wish to work in communities, but rather to bring people down....
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2 out of 5 stars
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I'm not sure I'd recommend this but please read my review
- By dillweed on 01-18-20
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Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship
- A Caretaker's Guide to Recovery, Empowerment, and Transformation
- By: Margalis Fjelstad
- Narrated by: Sally Vahle
- Length: 7 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 310
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Performance5 out of 5 stars 270
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Story5 out of 5 stars 266
When a relationship with a narcissist ends, the caretaking partner is often left confused, deeply hurt, and often still emotionally connected, while the narcissist seems to easily move on to the next relationship. Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship offers guidance about what to expect as the relationship unravels and how to cope with the fallout. It also helps the reader learn to truly disengage and move through the grief process.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Finally...
- By megan on 01-16-18
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Marriage: Help for Marriage Restoration
- By: Timothy Gray
- Narrated by: Andrew L. Barnes
- Length: 5 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 44
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 39
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Story4 out of 5 stars 38
If you're struggling in your marriage, you are not alone. One in two marriages will end in divorce. This was where my marriage was heading a few years after I got married, until I put the principles of this book into practice. Whatever you are feeling right now, I can promise you one thing. If you ever truly loved your partner, then what you will learn and put into practice will help save your marriage. There is no marriage that's beyond saving, and this book will help you save your marriage.
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1 out of 5 stars
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What year was this written????
- By Christine Mac Lochlainn on 04-19-18
Publisher's Summary
The lure of the unavailable man is a mystery to many. Why is she wasting her time? But for many others, it is a deep-seated pattern. Time and again, they fall for someone who for one reason or another will never return their feelings. The object of their affection may be emotionally unavailable, married, or even pathologically cruel. The woman who routinely finds herself in this situation suffers mightily, feeling rejected, unloved, undesirable. She wonders what is wrong with her.
With empathy and compassion, Dr. Marni Feuerman helps women see their situations clearly, understand the historical, emotional, and psychological reasons behind their actions, and most importantly, make better choices for themselves. Feuerman unpacks the cliche about not being able to control the other's behavior, only one's own, with clear exercises and action steps.
While the emphasis is on understanding and changing one's own behavior, profiles of the reliably unreliable/unavailable are given to make "red flags" undeniable. And while the subject of unfulfilling relationships is not a happy one, Feuerman has positive messages for sufferers. Initially painful insights breed clarity and confidence. The end of a destructive relationship clears the way for a positive one. And being "in love" means not just loving, but being loved.
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- 12-30-19
Not just about Ghosting gives actual dating advise
This book has already helped my dating life already. I look at things differently and I feel better about how I date now. Feels good. Originally just looked for something to soothe my fear of getting ghosted but it ended up being really helpful in dating overall. Has actual examples and suggestions.