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The Girls Who Went Away Audiobook

The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade

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Publisher's Summary

In this deeply moving and myth-shattering work, Ann Fessler brings out into the open for the first time the astonishing untold history of the million and a half women who surrendered children for adoption due to enormous family and social pressure in the decades before Roe v. Wade. An adoptee who was herself surrendered during those years and recently made contact with her mother, Fessler brilliantly brings to life the voices of more than 100 women as well as the spirit of those times, allowing the women to tell their stories in gripping and intimate detail.

©2006 Ann H. Fessler (P)2016 Tantor

What the Critics Say

"Fessler recounts her own journey to find and reunite with her birth mother in this heartrending look at the untold story of American women compelled to surrender their children." (Booklist)

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    Kim Kavanagh 01-05-17 Member Since 2016
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    What did you love best about The Girls Who Went Away?

    The stories were heartwrenching. Each of them different but all connected in the heartache. I have my own story, and it's different and yet the same. It was healing for me and I recommend, HIGHLY recommend this book to anyone who has given up and I use 'given up' purposefully, their baby for adoption.


    What did you like best about this story?

    The honesty. The chance for a happy ending.


    What does Coleen Marlo bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

    This was my first audio book so it's hard for me to answer, but I enjoyed the listening.


    What’s the most interesting tidbit you’ve picked up from this book?

    There are a lot of secrets out there. A lot of young girls being shamed and traumatized by the way society views teen pregnancy and it's so unfair. These girls were just the ones who got found out, all the girls, or most of them anyway were having sex.


    Any additional comments?

    I read this book as recommended by my social worker as I was working on finding my son. It was like I had a friend and I highly recommend it. P.S. I found my son and life is good. Next week for the first time in 40 years I get to wish him a happy birthday. Can not wait!!

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    Lavon 10-03-16
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    "Great book"

    Great book. It is detailed in the accounts and life style of the era of the time. It gave me a better understanding of why children were given up

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    STT Kate 08-17-16
    STT Kate 08-17-16
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    "Healing - cathartic"

    I highly recommend this book to adoptees, birthmothers and anyone who knows someone in the adoption triangle. Without any exaggeration As a birthmother myself it has changed if not saved my life.

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    iraida 04-05-16
    iraida 04-05-16 Member Since 2015
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    "Haunting and heartfelt"

    I loved this documentary. Opened my eyes to the harsh realities faced by women of past generations and gave me a new perspective on adoption!

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    Kris Kietzman 03-31-17 Member Since 2017
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    "This is a good book to read if you are adopted."

    I am glad I read this. I'm adopted. I hope to find my biological mother.

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    Sean 02-20-17
    Sean 02-20-17 Member Since 2010
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    "wow....I am an adoptee and a birthmom"

    it was an intense emotional book. it put words to some of the struggles I had in my heart that I didn't have words for before. it opened my heart to the women who suffer in silence. it gave me a new perspective on my birthmom and my brothers birthmom.

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    Laura B Boulder, CO 01-26-17
    Laura B Boulder, CO 01-26-17 Member Since 2016
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    "Great Book"

    These true stories were difficult to hear at times. But everybody should know what these women went through. I am an adoptee and I am so glad I read this book.

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    Sarah 07-04-16
    Sarah 07-04-16 Member Since 2013
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    "Amazingly heart wrenching"

    This book should be read by every birth mother adoptee and adopter. I'm appalled at what was done to these women and how not much has changed when it comes to the responsibility or lack thereof on the part of the males Thanks for a wonderful read!

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    Lisa 06-08-16
    Lisa 06-08-16
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    "A must read for birth moms and adoptees!"

    As an adoptee, currently searching for my birth mother, this was an invaluable resource to help me prepare for whatever I find. I am overwhelmed with sadness of how cruel and insensitive the treatment of unwed mothers was during this era. I had no idea. Thank you Ms Fessler for shedding the light on this important topic and for the women having the willingness to tell their stories. I hope and pray women who endured this travesty find some sense of solace in knowing their story is finally being told!

    Thank you!


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    KJFDDS Bradenton, FL 10-03-17
    KJFDDS Bradenton, FL 10-03-17 Member Since 2013
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    "A Most Vital Collection of Women's Stories"

    Ann Fessler has produced a heartfelt and beautiful body of work that clearly defines what many of us observed from a distance or experienced in secrecy during the 1950's and 1960's in America. Ann covers all perspectives to include young women who were coerced or forced to surrender their babies, parents of the girls, the unwed mother facilities, the agencies that managed the adoptions, the adoptive parents, and the estranged young fathers. This history is essential reading for all who value, and also for all who question, the reproductive freedom that teeters on a wobbly base in American politics. This book provides the voices, tears, and despair that policy does not convey. I loved listening to this book and honor all who contributed.

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