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Bailing Out on the Borderline
- A Memoir of Loving and Leaving a Spouse with Borderline Personality Disorder
- Narrated by: Effie Bradley
- Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins
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Publisher's Summary
At the age of 23 and fresh out of college, Julia fell head over heels for Randy, a charming coworker who swooped in with flowers, romantic dates, and conversations about their beautiful future together. As far as Julia was concerned, there was no looking back.
Unfortunately, along with Randy’s affectionate behaviors came his highly dramatic, violent episodes. Having come from a similar home life, however, Julia didn’t blink an eye. It wasn’t until a grand finale abandonment that she recognized even her love wouldn’t be able to fix his issues.
Against the wishes of her own parents and her husband, Julia struggled to understand her abusive relationship and the right actions to take. When is it right to leave a spouse who you promised to stay with for life?
It would be another 20 years before she would learn about the final, horrific consequences of Randy’s actions and begin to understand the dangerous mental condition she had seen in him - borderline personality disorder.
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- N. Chaudhuri
- 01-18-21
Great insight
I did love this book! Coming out of a borderline marriage and having a violent childhood, I really resonated with the things she spoke about. I do wish that she spent more time talking about her relationship and the hot and cold behaviors. Overall, great book. I especially loved the last 6 chapters!
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- Massachusetts
- 05-07-20
An Incredibly Real and Frightening Experience
This book illustrates the real life experience of a woman who married a guy with serious borderline personality disorder - however, she was oblivious to what it looked like in the beginning. What looked like a sweet guy with some jealousy issues was actually a very sick man who eventually murdered.
Almost everyone can identify with this author and the book shows you how what looked normal at first slyly turned the corner to abnormal and then eventually into murder. This book is a great warning.
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