Bailing Out on the Borderline
A Memoir of Loving and Leaving a Spouse with Borderline Personality Disorder
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Effie Bradley
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Julia Sinclair
About this listen
At the age of 23 and fresh out of college, Julia fell head over heels for Randy, a charming coworker who swooped in with flowers, romantic dates, and conversations about their beautiful future together. As far as Julia was concerned, there was no looking back.
Unfortunately, along with Randy’s affectionate behaviors came his highly dramatic, violent episodes. Having come from a similar home life, however, Julia didn’t blink an eye. It wasn’t until a grand finale abandonment that she recognized even her love wouldn’t be able to fix his issues.
Against the wishes of her own parents and her husband, Julia struggled to understand her abusive relationship and the right actions to take. When is it right to leave a spouse who you promised to stay with for life?
It would be another 20 years before she would learn about the final, horrific consequences of Randy’s actions and begin to understand the dangerous mental condition she had seen in him - borderline personality disorder.
For anyone who questions whether they have been in an emotionally abusive relationship and where it could possibly lead, this audiobook is a must-listen. It may even save your life.
©2019 Julia Sinclair (P)2020 Julia SinclairListeners also enjoyed...
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