You're a single girl who is independent and carefree. Maybe you've just gotten out of a divorce or it's been awhile since your break-up with your boyfriend. You've gotten over the relationship ending and you are comfortable and actually happy being single. Sure, there are times when you wish you had someone to cuddle with on those cold and rainy nights, but you have learned to compensate and be good to yourself, instead of worrying about how to please the other person.
Your happiness as a single girl depends on how you deal with it. There are many things you can do to celebrate your shackles being unlocked. One of them is not sitting at home moping around wishing you had someone to share your life with. With that attitude, you exude desperation and loneliness and ask any guy, that is a major turn off, even other girls will tell you that a desperate guy isn't attractive at all. Men love confident women, not to be confused with cocky or arrogant. But, a woman with a certain independent flair about herself and an air of confidence will attract the men like bees to honey.
But, right now, you prefer to be alone and enjoy your "me" time. Because that is exactly what it is. This is your time to rediscover yourself, maybe find yourself again if you had been married or in a long-term relationship where you lost your identity. Maybe you need some soul searching and to make changes in your life. Or maybe it's just your time to celebrate being single and have fun in the process!