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Stories I Only Tell My Friends Audiobook

Stories I Only Tell My Friends: An Autobiography

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Audible Editor Reviews

Prepare to be amazed by the many ways this book and its author are better than you thought they would be. Everybody knows that Rob Lowe is very handsome, and that he spent a long time being a Hollywood wild child. Now in his 40s, Lowe’s reflections on his life thus far demonstrate a remarkably responsible perspective and a refreshingly self-deprecating look at how he ended up in the better state of mind he inhabits today. While the headlines and high notes may come and go, Lowe remains a devoted husband and proud father.

This listen is a small miracle for many reasons. It’s not simply the fact that Lowe reveals himself as capable of compelling writing, which he certainly does. It’s also not merely the path of the narrative that’s intriguing, though that’s definitely the case. Whether he is spending several chapters thoroughly reminiscing about the many lessons he learned during The Outsiders or sharing a quick anecdote about trying to meet Liza Minnelli when he was a little kid, Lowe indeed offers up a terrific set of insights about both life and stardom. He proves himself as a generous spirit, with strong thanks for Martin Sheen and solid praise for Patrick Swayze.

His narration is clearly heartfelt, and never comes across as phony or acted. This listen feels like a casual dinner conversation, minus the slick descent into rumor-mongering that usually rears its ugly head in memoirs of this variety. Lowe manages to steer clear of the blame game when analyzing the simultaneous blessing and curse of the Brat Pack label or his decision to leave The West Wing, and even finds some gracious adjectives for Tom Cruise. Be on the lookout for eerily spot-on impersonations of many stars, including a particularly good Christopher Walken and Matt Dillon.

In the end, it’s hard to put a finger on what makes this book so utterly fascinating. There isn’t anything shocking in the subject matter; there isn’t any mud-flinging in the tone; there is very little that stands out as an exclamation point. Yet the total package undeniably and irresistibly triumphs at being genuinely charming. This is ironic, because the book then actually sort of mirrors Lowe’s career. He’s spent the last two decades trying to upend the idea that he is simply a pretty face. The book succeeds in that endeavor, just as his several iconic film roles have done, and yet the shallow type-casting of Rob Lowe somehow too frequently persists. It’s true that he is a very dreamy guy, but this memoir absolutely proves that he is also intelligent, worldly, witty, and political. It’s an excellent listen that ought to once and for all put an end to the notion the Rob Lowe’s charisma is only skin deep. —Megan Volpert

Publisher's Summary

A wryly funny and surprisingly moving account of an extraordinary life lived almost entirely in the public eye. A teen idol at 15, an international icon and founder of the Brat Pack at 20, and one of Hollywood's top stars to this day, Rob Lowe chronicles his experiences as a painfully misunderstood child actor in Ohio who was uprooted to the wild counterculture of mid-70s Malibu, where he embarked on his unrelenting pursuit of a career in Hollywood. The Outsiders placed Lowe at the birth of the modern youth movement in the entertainment industry. During his time on The West Wing, he witnessed the surreal nexus of show business and politics, both on the set and in the actual White House. And in between are deft and humorous stories of the wild excesses that marked the 80s, leading to his quest for family and sobriety.

Never mean-spirited or salacious, Lowe delivers unexpected glimpses into his successes, disappointments, relationships, and one-of-a-kind encounters with people who shaped our world over the last 25 years. These stories are as entertaining as they are unforgettable.

©2011 Robert Lowe (P)2011 Macmillan Audio

What the Critics Say

"[Lowe] writes viscerally and insightfully...He looks back at the aberrant highs of his heart-throb days, the changing nature of stardom in Hollywood, the trade-off he has made between high life and home life, and the step-by-step effort behind his show business survival. He looked like the callowest kid in the "Outsiders" crew. Now he looks like the sturdiest of them all" (The New York Times)

"A fresh pop-culture history of Hollywood in the ’70s and ’80s from the point of view of the man who lived it…[Lowe] is as funny as he is thoughtful. This is the best type of celeb memoir, because its author is as interested in the world as the world is interested in him." (People Magazine)

"A lovely autobiography, equal parts dish and pathos.” (Vanity Fair)

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    Amy Sara Baltajian 09-14-15 Member Since 2012
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    "Thumbs up."

    I enjoyed this book immeasurably. Especially Rob's spot on impersonations. I highly recommend it to biography lovers.

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    R. Caven Jax, FL 09-11-15
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    "An engaging conversation you won't want to end"

    I am just slightly older then Rob so the cultural references were spot on to my own experiences. This story will make anyone who believes show business is easy to think twice and really appreciate being raised in a stable household. I have always been a big fan and loved listening to this book - the writing is so beautiful and heartfelt, I'm sure I will revisit it and plan on checking out his follow on book.

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    Jason C Walker Toronto, ON Canada 09-10-15
    Jason C Walker Toronto, ON Canada 09-10-15 Member Since 2015
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    "Fantastic"

    Well written and well read story. Kept my interest from beginning to end. Thanks Bob for sharing your stories, one of the few books I will consider listening to again.

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    "Well written and narrated; interesting"

    While only familiar with Rob Lowe from Parks and Rec., I found his memoir a book that I wanted to get back to for listening as it was well written, detailed without oversharing others lives; he seems like a sincere, thoughtful person who has worked hard for his successful acting career. Always the best when the author narrates their own story.

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    Listened to it a few times! and never got bored. His impersonations are amazing! Great insight into life in the Bu

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    It kept my attention and inspired me to live my life with passion and meaning.

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    LJ Ducharme Victoria, British Columbia, Canada 09-03-15
    LJ Ducharme Victoria, British Columbia, Canada 09-03-15 Member Since 2015

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    I enjoyed this book immensely. I grew up in the same generation as Mr. Lowe, and appreciated so many touch points. in this audio book his voice draws you in, but his writing g keeps you there.

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    Amazon Customer Maryland 09-03-15
    Amazon Customer Maryland 09-03-15 Member Since 2015

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    I would recommend to a friend. Faster paced than other biographies, but I liked the compilation of stories rather than a detailed history. The ending was nice too.

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    Wayne pleasant grove, UT, United States 09-03-15
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    If you liked Arnold's Total Recall you will love this book.
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    I'll be looking forward someday for Tom Cruises book as well....

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    "Simply captivating."
    What made the experience of listening to Stories I Only Tell My Friends the most enjoyable?

    Rob Lowe has lived an intriguing life, and has incredible insight into his adventure into Hollywood is detailed, and he is eloquent in his recounts of early experiences. Most amazingly, he came across so many famous people also trying to navigate acting and performing like himself! Simply great.


    What other book might you compare Stories I Only Tell My Friends to and why?

    Tina Fey's Bossy Pants, but even more detailed.


    Have you listened to any of Rob Lowe’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    Does he have other audios? This is well worth the purchasing price.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    Each chapter is a different story. It took me many instances to finish it!


    Any additional comments?

    BUY IT if you are interested in personal stories that recount growing up, mid-70's southern Californian lifestyle, Hollywood in the mid 70's to current day, and self-reflection.

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