• Unf*ck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs

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  • By: Faith G. Harper PhD LPC-S ACS ACN
  • Narrated by: Erin Bennett
  • Length: 2 hrs and 48 mins
  • 4.5 out of 5 stars (3,038 ratings)

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Unf*ck Your Boundaries: Build Better Relationships Through Consent, Communication, and Expressing Your Needs

By: Faith G. Harper PhD LPC-S ACS ACN
Narrated by: Erin Bennett
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Boundaries are the ways we communicate our needs. They are what allow us to feel safe among strangers, in everyday interactions, and in our closest relationships. When we have healthy boundaries, we have a strong foundation in an uncertain world. And when someone crosses your boundaries, or you cross someone else’s, the result range from unsettling to catastrophic.

In this audiobook, best-selling author Dr. Faith Harper offers a full understanding of issues of boundaries and consent, how we can communicate and listen more effectively, and how to survive and move on from situations where our boundaries are violated.

Along the way, you’ll learn when and how to effectively say “no” (and “yes”), troubleshoot conflict, and respect your own and others’ boundaries like a pro. You’ll be amazed at how much these skills improve your relationships with friends, strangers, coworkers, and loved ones.

©2016 Dr. Faith Harper (P)2020 Blackstone Publishing

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Hilarious and no sugar coating!

This writer and narrator are hilarious and this book gets to the point without using the fluffy psych language......now, I get it! Therapist says I have to set boundaries, I did, all 300ft of electric fence! Ugh!

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Short and packed with goodies

A masterclass in respecting yourself and others. I'm looking forward to rereading and taking notes. Dr. Faith is clear, gives good examples and excellent reflecting questions for growth. Plus, I love the shortness of each chapter, grabbing only one concept at a time and completely unfolding it.

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wow

I recommend this book to anyone who struggles with the word no. she's spot on and speaks the truth about how boundaries can affect you in everything.

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yay

I enjoyed it. refresher needed for sure.
It was good to hear it again. yep

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Short and powerful book to help with boundaries

If you struggling with your boundaries this book is for you. The book reminds me of books from Bene Brown. Great ideas and tips for those who need help with setting boundaries.

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Needed to hear this

straight to the point, little fluff, and on repeat currently as great, in point above

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Amazing

She is amazing. I love her. I had no idea about all the types of boundaries or the connection to attachment but it makes perfect sense. Fantastic, concise and extremely helpful. I got the workbook too!

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Therapist to therapist

This was an amazing book. I didn’t know how f*cked my boundaries were until I read this. I’m excited to do this work and to pass it along to my clients.

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Well Said

The author concisely explains boundaries and why they are so important and basic to all interpersonal relations.

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A++

Highly recommend. This has improved all of my relationships in every setting - including my relationship to my own thinking.

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