• Discover DBT Create a Life Worth Living

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy Is the Proven 6-Month Solution to Escape Negativity
  • By: Peggy Darling
  • Narrated by: Peggy Darling
  • Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (25 ratings)

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Discover DBT Create a Life Worth Living

By: Peggy Darling
Narrated by: Peggy Darling
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Create a Life Worth Living, no matter what hurdles you face. If you are:

  • Depressed, harming yourself, or even having suicidal thoughts.
  • Distracted, afraid, worried, and anxious.
  • Have trouble with relationships (partners, family, school, work, your neighbors).
  • Overreacting or letting your emotions dominate your rational thinking.
  • Sabotaging your long-term peace of mind by making poor short-term decisions.
  • Distressed to the point of misery about all kinds of situations in your life.

These solutions are effective and based on rigorous clinical evidence researched for over 30 years all over the globe. In this book, you can learn to overcome challenging obstacles:

  • How to recognize, accurately identify, and deal with the emotions causing you problems.
  • Discover and master ways to bring calm and peace to your mind.
  • Use your wise mind to know the difference between distress you can change and distress you must learn to accept and tolerate.
  • How to build, maintain, and sustain your meaningful relationships.
  • Discover and practice 20 techniques of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT).

  1. Wise mind
  2. Observe: just notice (urge surfing)
  3. Describe: put words on
  4. Participate: enter the experience
  5. Nonjudgmental stance
  6. One-mindfully: in the moment
  7. Effectiveness: focus on what works
  8. Objective effectiveness: DEAR MAN
  9. Relationship effectiveness: GIVE
  10. Self-respect effectiveness: FAST
  11. Reduce vulnerability: PLEASE
  12. Build mastery
  13. Build positive experiences
  14. Opposite-to-emotion action (alternative to rebellion)
  15. Distract (adaptive denial)
  16. Self soothe
  17. Improve the moment
  18. Pros and cons
  19. Radical acceptance
  20. Building structure

Nobody gets out of this life alive, and nobody's life is perfect. Everybody faces their measure of grief. You may be the survivor of abuse or feel traumatized by events from your past. You may encounter the agony of knowing you've deeply hurt others or not accepting yourself and moving forward after making big mistakes.

In this book, you'll learn about difficult subjects in an easy-to-understand manner. You can learn to transform a life of hardship into one full of promise and significance. DBT can teach new methods to reverse and actively take control of self-destructive habits and negative thought patterns.

When you use the skills and methods in this book, you will better manage emotions, communicate successfully with others, cope with difficult and stressful circumstances, and apply mindfulness regularly. You will discover how to change your life.

As you practice what you learn, it becomes simpler to appreciate what's lovely within yourself and the world when you put what you've learned into practice and then act on it.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2022 Peggy Jean Darling (P)2022 Peggy Jean Darling

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Build positive experiences with this audiobook

This is a wonderful audiobook as it explains how being mindful can help one move to a more positive future and outlook on life. This is a great book that you can learn a great deal from and apply what you hear and incorporate in your daily life. A must listen to!!!

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Great resource!

I am excited to begin this journey with my therapist. I listened to this book over one week via Audible while on my daily walk. It was not the correct way to use this resource but I’m grateful I did it my way, because now I can really dig into it, exercise-by-exercise with my therapist. Thank you for this excellent work!

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Great job!

The methods taught in this book are easily taken away and applied to your real-world daily life. We all have negativity that appears in our life daily, but it's how we approach that negativity to reach a point of healthiness. This book is key to finding the ways out of those "negative" moments.

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Great introduction to DBT

I personally was not familiar with DBT but a very close friend recommended it to me as I love any kind of self-development therapies. This audiobook is perfect for anyone wanting to learn in depth what DBT is and how to apply it in their lives. I really enjoyed the Chapter about mindfulness as this is something I thought I knew a lot about. However, seeing Mindfulness in relation with DBT has brought way more meaning to this concept. There is a sentence that really sticked to me "just because you have an idea it does not mean is true". I recommend this audiobook to anyone wanting to dig a bit deeper in their self-development.

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Extremely in-depth book on DBT

If you are struggling with difficult times, depression, handling your emotions, self-sabotage, or other issues then this may be the right book for you. Peggy Darling does a deep dive into the science and methods of DBT and how it can help you overcome these negative issues. By recognizing the problem and mastering your mind, you can begin to heal yourself and rebuild yourself and relationships in a healthy manner. This audiobook is packed full of content and by the end of it you will have a full grasp on DBT and how you can apply it to your own life!

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Worthy Living

It is one of the best book I have read. I think now a days, almost everybody need some therapy to keep going on and DBT is the best solution to it. It is important for us to realise that life is worthy living and we need to takecare of it. We need to identify our inner disorders. In this regard, this book is guiding us 20 techniques to set ourselves free from all type of issues.

It is a worthy reading and a good recommendation for everyone.

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Highly Recommend to Improve Mental Health

This is a long read but good for the soul. The pandemic has brought so much mental health and anxiety issues that books such as this is important and relevant more than ever. Author has a deep knowledge and background on this topic which makes this a very credible resource.

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This could be life changing!

As a person diagnosed with BPD, I am thrilled to find this book!

The author is clearly very knowledgeable and experienced in treating this disorder and for the first time I’m feeling hopeful for my future. I appreciate the techniques for bringing forth awareness through DBT and practicing mindfulness. I feel that she helps to remove the stigma around BPD and I can let myself off the hook more, understanding that my “differentness” is just the way I’m wired and I can learn to better manage my emotions.

I highly recommend this audiobook for anyone struggling with BPD or loves someone who is.

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Such a great resource for DBT

I had been talking to a friend of mine who is undergoing Dialectic Behavior Therapy, and I became really curious. This audiobook gave such a fantastic foundation for understanding the concepts. It's well-researched - like, really well-researched - and also has tons of anecdotal examples.
There's also a lot of compassion in this book; you don't always get that from these kinds of books. I believe the author really wants to help people, and this book is a passion project. It's even better with the author as the narrator.
This is a strong book for anyone who wants to learn more about DBT. I'm really glad I found it!

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Outstanding and very thorough!

Wonderfully done by the author. Escaping negativity is not easy. We can be our own worst enemy. That's why its so important to have reliable resources like this to help us. I definitely recommend this book!

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