It's a Selfish Program
Experience, Strength & Hope for Recovering Addicts, Book 1
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Steven C
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It's a Selfish Program provides an introduction to the issues of self, selfishness, and self-care in healing from addiction. Steven C. begins by candidly sharing what brought him to Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous, followed by his three-stage view of how our "self" can evolve from a mortal enemy to a beloved friend. This booklet is intended to help anyone in search of a clear sense of self mark the pathway to a place of safety, peace, joy, and love.
Selfishness gets a bad name in addiction...and with good reason. But until we can truly understand what this "self" is and how to prioritize it, recovery from addiction can be a very rough road.
Do you forget about your own needs and wants in your primary relationships? Do you have trouble setting and holding boundaries? Do you determine your "okay-ness" by how other people in your life feel? If any of these are true for you, listen to this audiobook.
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