
Find Love: How to Navigate Modern Love and Discover the Right Partner for You
The Fundamentals of Love, Book 1
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Choosing a healthy relationship is one of the most significant decisions in life and it's crucial to get it right from the start.
Changes to the modern dating landscape have flooded us with questions about the best pathway to find love. How do you improve your chances when there are so many elements - and people - to consider? From red to green flags, the best apps, attachment styles, trauma, dealbreakers, compromises and surviving the first date, we are swarmed with options with no clear guide.
In Find Love, world renowned relationship expert and Head of Global Research for Tinder Paul Brunson provides you with vital advice for navigating and securing real connections. Whether you're single and looking for love or in a relationship and wondering if your partner is 'the one', this book will arm you with the information, skills, and tools you need to make an informed decision on how to simultaneously love yourself and find the perfect partner.
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I will be basing my next long term relationship on the guidance provided in this book along with the foundation I’ve already built for creating conscious relationships!
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comprehensive and insightful
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Such great advice and things to work on.
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The author was extremely well-versed in the topic. I plan to listen again.
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It was not a book on ‘finding’ love
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