How to Not Die Alone

The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

By: Logan Ury

Narrated by: Logan Ury

A “must-read” (The Washington Post) funny and practical guide to help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams—from the Harvard-trained behavioral scientist and featured dating coach on Netflix’s The Later Daters.

Have you ever looked around and wondered, “Why has everyone found love except me?” You’re not the only one. Great relationships don’t just appear in our lives—they’re the culmination of a series of decisions, including whom to date, how to end it with the wrong person, and when to commit to the right one. But our brains often get in the way. We make poor decisions, which thwart us on our quest to find lasting love.

Drawing from years of research, behavioral scientist turned dating coach Logan Ury reveals the hidden forces that cause those mistakes. But awareness on its own doesn’t lead to results. You have to actually change your behavior. Ury shows you how.

This “simple-to-use guide” (Lori Gottlieb, New York Times bestselling author of Maybe You Should Talk to Someone) focuses on a different decision in each chapter, incorporating insights from behavioral science, original research, and real-life stories.

You’ll learn:
-What’s holding you back in dating (and how to break the pattern)
-What really matters in a long-term partner (and what really doesn’t)
-How to overcome the perils of online dating (and make the apps work for you)
-How to meet more people in real life (while doing activities you love)
-How to make dates fun again (so they stop feeling like job interviews)
-Why “the spark” is a myth (but you’ll find love anyway)

This “data-driven” (Time), step-by-step guide to relationships, complete with hands-on exercises, is designed to transform your life. How to Not Die Alone will help you find, build, and keep the relationship of your dreams.

READ THIS BOOK

I recommend this book to ANYONE. You can always learn to improve yourself, your relationships, and your knowledge when others ask for advice from you. This is an incredibly eye-opening book. 10/10. I will be reading this book again in due time.

Incredible. Must listen

As a 50 year old cis-het male, I found this book completely relatable. It is based on very sound, up-to-date behavioral psychology and has empowered me to move through the modern dating scene with courage and authenticity, and much better results. Wish I had had the guidance of this book 30 years ago. Thank you Logan!

Excellent Relationship guide

I honestly bought this book because i liked the title, but this book is something that should be assigned reading in high school. I have ordered multiple copies for my kids as well as some friends. The advice is practical for all aspects of relationship stages. Thank you for writing this book!

very well written

loved it. I a therapist and this is such a hot topic right now. I have referred this book to clients because this book is based on science, funny and interactive

Amazing book

This is one of the books that I would recommend to read (and reread again in future) to everyone