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Publisher's Summary

This book began as an attempt to hold on to my witty, storytelling mother with the one thing I had to hand. Words. Then, as the enormity of the social crisis my family was part of began to dawn, I wrote with the thought that other forgotten lives might be nudged into the light along with hers.

Dementia is one of the greatest social, medical, economic, scientific, philosophical, and moral challenges of our times. I am a reporter. It became the biggest story of my life. (Sally Magnusson)

Regarded as one of the finest journalists of her generation, Mamie Baird Magnusson's whole life was a celebration of words - words that she fought to retain in the grip of a disease which is fast becoming the scourge of the 21st century. Married to writer and broadcaster Magnus Magnusson, they had five children of whom Sally is the eldest.

As well as chronicling the anguish, the frustrations and the unexpected laughs and joys that she and her sisters experienced while accompanying their beloved mother on the long dementia road for eight years until her death in 2012, Sally Magnusson seeks understanding from a range of experts and asks penetrating questions about how we treat older people; how we can face one of the greatest social, medical, economic, and moral challenges of our times; and what it means to be human.

An extraordinary and deeply personal memoir, a manifesto and a call to arms, in one searingly beautiful narrative.

©2014 Sally Magnusson (P)2014 John Murray Press

Critic Reviews

"Touching... There are many moments of heartwarming sentiment. Literary snowdrops grow out of the barren earth.... This book is the constant, tenuous, but vital reconnection between a child and its mother.... A fine book." ( The Sunday Times)

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Very much appreciated.

Would you consider the audio edition of Where Memories Go to be better than the print version?

I am sure the book is just as good.

What was one of the most memorable moments of Where Memories Go?

Hard to pick - so many.

What about Sally Magnusson’s performance did you like?

Knowing it was the author narrating such a personal story made it more compelling and enjoyable.

Did you have an extreme reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

As our family is on the same journey - it did both ... and more.

Any additional comments?

Very helpful story and resource for those families on the same journey. Thank you Sally.

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What a captivating audio book

I thought this was a beautiful, informative, thought-provoking and tear-jerking look at what it was like for the author to care for her parent with dementia. I am at the very beginning of this journey with a family member so I have been trying to consume all the information I can find in an effort to prepare myself for what's ahead, and this book has been my favorite by far. I appreciated Sally's honesty about her frustrations with her mother and about her mother's denials and minimizations of her memory lapses in the early days - these things felt relatable and seemed like a sign that she wasn't trying to sugarcoat the past. I thought Where Memories Go did an excellent job of combining good scientific, social and economic information related to dementia that isn't widely known/publicized/ thought about, with a warm, relatable tale of the enduring relationship between a mother and daughter. The fact that Sally Magnusson, with her Scottish burr and great storytelling abilities, narrated the audio book herself added to my enjoyment of this book. I have already recommended this to several people.

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  • Vicuña
  • 07-03-14

Compassionate, dispassionate and groundbreaking

Would you listen to Where Memories Go again? Why?

Yes, to consider some of the philosophical issues raised about the nature of being and the role of memory in defining a person.

What did you like best about this story?

The love, warmth and intelligence.

Which character – as performed by Sally Magnusson – was your favourite?

Not relevant.

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I listened to an Audible version of this book, narrated by Sally Magnusson. In addition to enjoying her excellent narration, I admire her courage in reading this deeply affecting and personal account.

Dementia is a difficult and poorly understood subject, but one increasingly likely to touch many of us one way or another. Sally Magnusson's account is a touching tribute to her vibrant and vivacious mother whose descent into this disease is meticulously recorded. It's heartwarming, occasionally heartbreaking but filled with warmth, insight and humour. The narrative flows seamlessly back and forth between time and people, with a richly detailed look at both her mother and father, the family background and relationships. We learn a great deal about Scottish and Icelandic influences and Maimie Magnusson's skill with words. I was unaware of her journalistic background and she was clearly held in high regard by press magnates in her early career. Her love of language appears to be something that remained with her, even during darker moments when other parts of her mind had unravelled. Those moments often provided humour but also insight into the person a d her probable awareness. A fitting and memorable tribute to a remarkable lady.

Sally Magnusson's research is extensive. The narrative is filled with fact and figures. Much of it is stark food for thought. But she also raises some challenging philosophical questions about the essence of being; the role of memory and the extent to which it defines 'being'. For that alone, I'm recommending it to everyone. It's a truly remarkable narrative.

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  • Wendy
  • 07-02-14

It made me cry

What did you like most about Where Memories Go?

Combination of genuine honest emotion and we'll researched facts

What did you like best about this story?

The insight into the family relationships and the beautiful narration by Sally Magnusson

Which scene did you most enjoy?

The description of family togetherness and mutual support at the time of Magnus's illness

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Yes

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It was both beautiful and heartbreaking. A real triumph to so sensitively capture the essence of Mamie through the dramatic and frightening changes. Sally your mum would be proud !

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  • helenjalal
  • 01-04-17

Exceptional

A book I will never forget with such eloquence and feeling Sally kindly and honestly shares her experience of caring for her who has dementia
Terrific insight
Thank you the Magnusson family , it will teach others so much !










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  • Jilly C
  • 03-07-16

A Story of Love

This story of a wonderfully bright and intelligent Mother read beautifully by her daughter could show so many people in the Healthcare profession and outside how precious life is even when a loved one has become almost unrecognisable. Memories of music and songs can keep those threads alive almost to the last when every other contact seems to be lost. Please read this book to be reassured how strong a force love is.

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  • Rachel
  • 01-02-15

Heart warming and breaking

This was a wonderfully entertaining and yet heart breaking story of Mamie Magnusson's struggle with dementia. It is beautifully written and read and has inspired me in so many ways. It is well worth listening to

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  • Anonymous User
  • 04-23-18

Amazingly humbling to be a part of Sallys journey.

Heartbreaking, yet honest. A huge support to anyone caring for a loved one. Highly Recommend.

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  • kf
  • 01-31-18

Totally lovely thought provoking listen.

I thoroughly enjoyed listening to this. Such a touching tale of love, laughter and typical family hardships. I feel I know the family and it’s certainly made me think of my own family values and the important things in life

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  • Tessa Hancock
  • 10-25-17

Tears of Emotion

About the most beautifully written book I have ever known. I am just overcome with the emotion of having heard it read in Sally's own mellifluous voice.

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  • Kevin
  • 02-11-17

Invaluable to me and others.

Thank you for the great work and time taken to produce this amazing insight to what lies ahead for my mother and our family.

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  • Fiona
  • 01-31-17

A brilliant book. Thank you .

Given me an insight of what to expect. Sad reading at times but worth every penny.