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From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Superb!
- By Matt on 12-05-17
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People in relationships with avoidants struggle with their lack of responsiveness and inability to tolerate real intimacy. Relationships between an avoidant and a partner of another attachment type are the largest group of unhappy relationships, and people who love their partners and who may have started families and had children with an avoidant will work very hard to try to make their relationships work better, out of love for their partner and children as well as their own happiness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Worth a listen!
- By Jolene Monheim on 04-10-15
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Bad Boyfriends
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- By: Jeb Kinnison
- Narrated by: Steve Toner
- Length: 3 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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If you were brought up in the Western world, you've been trained on fairy tales of love and relationships that are misleading at best, and at worst have you making mistake after mistake in starting relationships with the wrong kinds of people who will waste your time and keep you from finding a loyal partner. Science has the answer! Or at least a guide to save you the time and effort of discovering for yourself how many wrong types of romantic partners there are.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great book to understand attachment styles
- By Karen on 12-31-17
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Dismissive Avoidant in Love
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- By: Johanna Sparrow
- Narrated by: Erica Hazelton
- Length: 1 hr and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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More people are starting to identify the negative attachments that were developed during childhood and the impact they’re having during adulthood. My goal is to help you understand the four types of attachments and how they can either hinder or improve your relationships.
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Attachment in Psychotherapy
- By: David J. Wallin
- Narrated by: Bob Souer
- Length: 15 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 123
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 112
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This eloquent book translates attachment theory and research into an innovative framework that grounds adult psychotherapy in the facts of childhood development. Advancing a model of treatment as transformation through relationship, the author integrates attachment theory with neuroscience, trauma studies, relational psychotherapy, and the psychology of mindfulness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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An inspiration for a psychotherapist
- By T. D. Howell on 12-17-17
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Created for Connection
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- Length: 10 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 83
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The message of Created for Connection is simple: Forget about learning how to argue better, analyzing your early childhood, or making grand romantic gestures. Instead, get to the emotional underpinnings of your relationship by recognizing that you are attached to and dependent on your partner in much the same way that a child is on a parent and we are on the Heavenly Father for nurturing, soothing, and protection.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Enlightening
- By Amazon Customer on 12-07-16
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Healing Your Attachment Wounds
- How to Create Deep and Lasting Intimate Relationships
- By: Diane Poole Heller
- Narrated by: Diane Poole Heller
- Length: 6 hrs and 6 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 175
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From our earliest years, teaches Diane Poole Heller, we develop an attachment style that follows us through life, replaying in our intimate relationships, with our children, and at work. And traumatic events can deeply affect that core relational blueprint. With Healing Your Attachment Wounds, a pioneer in attachment theory and trauma resolution brings together these two fields to help us understand and benefit from their complementary principles and methods.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Superb!
- By Matt on 12-05-17
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Avoidant
- How to Love (or Leave) a Dismissive Partner
- By: Jeb Kinnison
- Narrated by: Joe Farinacci
- Length: 5 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 232
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 191
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 192
People in relationships with avoidants struggle with their lack of responsiveness and inability to tolerate real intimacy. Relationships between an avoidant and a partner of another attachment type are the largest group of unhappy relationships, and people who love their partners and who may have started families and had children with an avoidant will work very hard to try to make their relationships work better, out of love for their partner and children as well as their own happiness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Worth a listen!
- By Jolene Monheim on 04-10-15
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Bad Boyfriends
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- By: Jeb Kinnison
- Narrated by: Steve Toner
- Length: 3 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 88
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 75
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 73
If you were brought up in the Western world, you've been trained on fairy tales of love and relationships that are misleading at best, and at worst have you making mistake after mistake in starting relationships with the wrong kinds of people who will waste your time and keep you from finding a loyal partner. Science has the answer! Or at least a guide to save you the time and effort of discovering for yourself how many wrong types of romantic partners there are.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Great book to understand attachment styles
- By Karen on 12-31-17
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Dismissive Avoidant in Love
- How Understanding the Four Main Styles of Attachment Can Impact Your Relationship
- By: Johanna Sparrow
- Narrated by: Erica Hazelton
- Length: 1 hr and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4 out of 5 stars 1
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Performance4 out of 5 stars 1
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Story3 out of 5 stars 1
More people are starting to identify the negative attachments that were developed during childhood and the impact they’re having during adulthood. My goal is to help you understand the four types of attachments and how they can either hinder or improve your relationships.
-
Attachment in Psychotherapy
- By: David J. Wallin
- Narrated by: Bob Souer
- Length: 15 hrs and 25 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 123
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 112
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 107
This eloquent book translates attachment theory and research into an innovative framework that grounds adult psychotherapy in the facts of childhood development. Advancing a model of treatment as transformation through relationship, the author integrates attachment theory with neuroscience, trauma studies, relational psychotherapy, and the psychology of mindfulness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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An inspiration for a psychotherapist
- By T. D. Howell on 12-17-17
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Created for Connection
- The "Hold Me Tight" Guide for Christian Couples
- By: Sue Johnson, Kenneth Sanderfer
- Narrated by: Sarah Mollo-Christensen
- Length: 10 hrs and 16 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 83
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 76
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Story4.5 out of 5 stars 73
The message of Created for Connection is simple: Forget about learning how to argue better, analyzing your early childhood, or making grand romantic gestures. Instead, get to the emotional underpinnings of your relationship by recognizing that you are attached to and dependent on your partner in much the same way that a child is on a parent and we are on the Heavenly Father for nurturing, soothing, and protection.
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Enlightening
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Healing Developmental Trauma
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- Narrated by: Tom Perkins
- Length: 10 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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Explaining that an impaired capacity for connection to self and to others underlies most psychological and many physiological problems, clinicians Laurence Heller, PhD, and Aline LaPierre, PsyD, introduce the NeuroAffective Relational Model™ (NARM), a unified approach to developmental, attachment, and shock trauma that emphasizes working in the present moment. NARM is a somatically based psychotherapy that helps bring into awareness the parts of self that are disorganized and dysfunctional.
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5 out of 5 stars
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very good
- By Amazon Customer on 11-07-15
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Love Sense
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- By: Sue Johnson
- Narrated by: Sue Johnson
- Length: 12 hrs and 22 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 444
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Every day, we hear of relationships failing and questions of whether humans are meant to be monogamous. Love Sense presents new scientific evidence that tells us that humans are meant to mate for life. Dr. Johnson explains that romantic love is an attachment bond, just like that between mother and child, and shows us how to develop our "love sense" - our ability to develop long-lasting relationships. Love is not the least bit illogical or random, but actually an ordered and wise recipe for survival.
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2 out of 5 stars
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No real tips on HOW to become more securely attach
- By Sophia in SF on 11-10-15
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Wired for Love
- How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Michael Hinton
- Length: 7 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.
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1 out of 5 stars
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No PDF = 1 star
- By Maker on 04-08-18
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Insecure in Love
- How Anxious Attachment Can Make You Feel Jealous, Needy, and Worried and What You Can Do About It
- By: Leslie Becker-Phelps PhD
- Narrated by: Susan Boyce
- Length: 6 hrs and 19 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 305
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In Insecure in Love, you'll learn how to overcome attachment anxiety using compassionate self-awareness, a technique that can help you recognize your negative thoughts or unhealthy behavior patterns and respond to them in a nurturing way - rather than beating yourself up. You'll also learn how insecurity can negatively affect healthy dialog between you and your partner (or potential partners) and develop the skills needed to stop you from reverting back to old patterns of neediness and possessiveness.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellent book
- By Danika on 01-28-17
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Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find - And Keep - Love
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- Narrated by: Walter Dixon
- Length: 7 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 4,685
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Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 3,824
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Is there a science to love? In this groundbreaking audiobook, psychiatrist and neuroscientist Amir Levine and psychologist Rachel S. F. Heller reveal how an understanding of attachment theory - the most advanced relationship science in existence today - can help us find and sustain love. Attachment theory forms the basis for many best-selling books on the parent/child relationship, but there has yet to be an accessible guide to what this fascinating science has to tell us about adult romantic relationships - until now.
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4 out of 5 stars
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Do not buy the audible version.
- By Tamara on 09-14-17
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Raising a Secure Child
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- By: Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, Bert Powell, and others
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- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 65
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Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time. Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach - self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes.
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5 out of 5 stars
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life changing approach to child care/relationships
- By Amazon Customer on 11-12-17
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Love Me, Don't Leave Me
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Everyone thrives on love, comfort, and the safety of family, friends, and community. But if you are denied these basic comforts early in life through a lack of physical affection or emotional bonding, you may develop intense fears of abandonment that can last well into adulthood - fears so powerful that they can actually cause you to push people away. If you suffer from fears of abandonment, you may have underlying feelings of anger, shame, fear, anxiety, depression, and grief.
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3 out of 5 stars
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<br />30% is in workbook format, not ideal for reading
- By Karen Y Lin on 03-14-18
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Building the Bonds of Attachment
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- By: Daniel A. Hughes
- Narrated by: Kirby Heyborne
- Length: 14 hrs and 52 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 92
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Building the Bonds of Attachment is the third edition of a critically acclaimed book for social workers, therapists, and parents who strive to assist children with reactive attachment disorder. This work is a composite case study of the developmental course of one child following years of abuse and neglect.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Don't waste your time
- By John on 05-26-18
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Greater Than the Sum of Our Parts
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- By: Richard C. Schwartz PhD
- Narrated by: Richard C. Schwartz PhD
- Length: 6 hrs and 54 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 69
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Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy is a revolutionary method that allows us to meet and ally with the many distinct parts of our psyche. With Greater Than the Sum of Our Parts, IFS founder Dr. Richard Schwartz reveals how this powerful system can serve us on the spiritual journey. In this six-session audio course, he offers innovative practices to help you heal and harmonize the wounded facets of your self - and in doing so, reconnect with the greater Self that is your true, divine nature.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Exceptional
- By Yanina Sarquis Adamson on 11-19-18
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Relationship Rx
- By: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Narrated by: Stan Tatkin PsyD MFT
- Length: 8 hrs and 28 mins
- Original Recording
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Overall5 out of 5 stars 50
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Why do couples fight? With Relationship Rx, renowned psychotherapist Stan Tatkin offers couples in crisis a prescription for understanding the deeper issues underlying their conflicts. Drawing from his Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT), Tatkin unpacks common causes of relationship challenges with humor and compassion. Filled with practical tools, insightful commentary on sample conflict dialogues, and an in-depth exploration of what really makes for a secure relationship, this program will help couples restore and sustain the love that brought them together.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Excellently balanced for both the avid learner, unsuspecting dunce
- By James Bush on 07-18-18
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Why Do I Do That?
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- By: Joseph Burgo PhD
- Narrated by: John Raines
- Length: 7 hrs and 8 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 79
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This is a self-help book for people who don't usually buy self-help books. Instead of offering cognitive-behavioral techniques for dealing with anger, or affirming strategies to boost self-esteem, this self-help book adapts the basic methods of psychodynamic psychotherapy to a guided course in self-exploration, highlighting the universal role of defense mechanisms in warding off emotional pain.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Eye-opening information
- By Amazon Customer on 08-30-16
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The Attachment Effect
- Exploring the Powerful Ways Our Earliest Bond Shapes Our Relationships and Lives
- By: Peter Lovenheim
- Narrated by: Graham Winton
- Length: 8 hrs and 36 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3
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Attachment theory is having a moment. Recently covered in the New York Times Magazine, New York magazine, and elsewhere, it's also the subject of popular relationship guides. Why is this 60-year-old theory, widely accepted in psychological circles, suddenly in vogue? Because people are discovering how powerfully it sheds light on who we love - and how. Fascinated by the subject, award-winning journalist and author Peter Lovenheim went on a years-long journey to understand it from the inside out.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Insightful Reading
- By Delphine M Ruiz on 02-11-19
Publisher's Summary
The answer to why people feel and act the way they do lies in the profound effect of a child's bonding process with his or her parents. How successfully we form and maintain relationships throughout life is related to those early issues of "attachment". The author has cited four primary bonding styles that explain why people love, feel, and act the way they do.
This book is for anyone who desires closeness, especially in the most intimate relationships: marriage, parenting, close friends, and ultimately God.
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- Scott
- Duclos, QC, Canada
- 11-06-17
Dreadful
Narrator makes the book impossible to listen to. Might be some good info, but I gave up after an hour.
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- PATRICE E CHRISTIE
- 11-02-17
extremely robotic narrator<br />
I really wanted to listen to this book. But I discontinued it after a chapter or two because the extremely robotic voice of the narrator was very distracting from any kind of content assimilation. that's a shame... having read the book it really is pretty good but this narrator makes it impossible to listen to.
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- PattiBee
- 01-15-19
Buy the Book... Skip Audio Version
This book provides a nice summary of attachment theory from Christian therapists' experience and perspective. Examples of the Ambivalent, Avoidant, Disorganized, and Secure attachment styles as well as case studies are abundant and allow one to self-identify one's personal style. The theory is presented within a spiritual framework with scripture to help readers integrate faith-based precepts with concepts historically presented only from a secular perspective. The authors conclude with practices and spiritual disciplines for those actively pursuing a Christ-led life to counter-balance attachment style based challenges. That being said, the presenter's style of the audio version is distracting with emotional inflections tightly limited within each word, annunciations so precisely delivered, and diction paced such that it often sounds automated rather than read by a person. To overcome the tedious pace, consider turning up the speed (1.5 speed made it less obvious).
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- Amazon Customer
- 12-25-18
This book needs a live reader.
Could. not bare to listen to the computer voice. I had to purchase a hard copy of the book. This book needs a person reading.
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- Jr1234
- 11-23-18
Religion based.
Very religious based and quoting of scripture. There are some good things to take away from it.