How We Love

Discover Your Love Style, Enhance Your Marriage

By: Milan Yerkovich, Kay Yerkovich

Narrated by: Adam Verner, Sarah Zimmerman

Length: 10 hrs and 56 mins

Publisher's Summary

Identify the source of missteps in your marriage - and learn exactly what you can do about them!

Tired of arguing with your spouse over the same old issues? Longing for a marriage with less conflict and more intimacy? Struggling under a load of resentment? In How We Love, relationship experts Milan and Kay Yerkovich draw on the powerful tool of attachment theory to show how your early life experiences created an "intimacy imprint" - an underlying blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs, and expectations of all relationships, especially your marriage. They identify four types of injured imprints that combine in marriage to trap couples in a repetitive dance of pain. The groundbreaking principles and practical, solution-focused tools in this book will equip you to...

• Identify the imprints disrupting your marriage
• Understand how your love style impacts your mate
• Break free of negative patterns that hinder your relationship
• Enhance your sexual intimacy
• Create the deeper, richer marriage of your dreams

Discover the truths that have transformed countless relationships - including the authors' marriage - so you can stop stepping on each other's toes and instead be swept along by the music of a richer, more passionate relationship.

©2016 eChristian (P)2016 eChristian

loved it

not only improved how I look at him and my marriage but myself..... love this boom

Finally on audiobook

This is a really helpful book. It is the kind you can reread/re-listen-to and get something new out of it each time. Should definitely be on every pre-marital reading list.

great for healing marriages

When you are struggling in your relationship you want blame someone, it's usually your partner. The path to a strong and healthy relationship starts with a look at yourself first. this book helps you and your relationship.

More than I was expecting

I read this book thinking of my significant other and the issues of his childhood. I didn't expect to find so much more about myself. I wish I would have read this book years ago. It has helped me so much. Everyone needs to read this.

how we love

Loved the book. good information and very helpful. easy to follow. Will look for more books by this couple.

life changing

Never compared my past and how my wife and my feelings sometimes were related or mostly were brought from childhood. this book is amazing and im putting into practice what ive learned now.

So helpful!

Great book with lots of revealing information to glean. I cried a lot (maybe not a great selling point for men, however it does touch on how to improve the sexual relationship), but it opened my eyes and gave me hope for a closer relationship with my husband. It is a must for any marriage and I'm looking forward to getting the workbook and even signing up for one of their seminars!

Getting to know me

This book really helped me to get to know me and why I behave the way I did. By “did”, I mean my blinders have come off and I know why I react the way I did and why my wife reacts the way she does and why my parents behave the way they do. I know now that there are many definitions of normal and many times it is not what is right, it is what is comfortable. I am a work in progress. Thank you Mr. and Mrs. Yerkovich.

Amazing content; excellent performance

Amazing content! I learned so much about myself, my family of origin, my husband and my children. I will definitely listen again and purchase the accompanying workbook.
The readers are GREAT! I loved their voices.

life changing!

this book is absolutely amazing! It will give you so much more compassion and empathy towards the people in your life!

Excellent Read

This book has been helpful to me during a difficult period. It is very clear and to the point. The various anecdotes makes it easier to relate and understand the various themes been explored.

So good I bought the Kindle version and workbook

found this really insightful to help with seeing the different styles and patterns we both bring into our marriage and why we can get stuck in repeated patterns.

My wife also thinks it is an interesting book, so she and I will work through the book and workbook.