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60+ quotes to help you make peace with—and take charge of—change

60+ quotes to help you make peace with—and take charge of—change

"The only constant in life is change," the ancient Greek philosopher Heraclitus famously observed. Dealing with change is nothing new; it comes with the territory of being human. Yet, in the midst of 21st-century upheavals and uncertainties, change can often feel overwhelming.

Fortunately, Heraclitus isn't the only deep thinker who had something memorable to say on the subject. Below are 60+ quotes about change from a wide range of authors. Their words reflect the nature of change and the swirl of feelings surrounding it, from fear to exhilaration. In this collection, you'll find gentle reminders that change will keep happening and reassurance that you can handle it.

On the nature of change

  • "What she had learned was that life, any life, was death and rebirth, death and rebirth. Everything always changed." -Nana Kwame Adjei-Brenyah, Chain-Gang All-Stars

  • "All that you touch you change. All that you change changes you. The only lasting truth is change." -Octavia E. Butler, Parable of the Sower

  • "You're always you, and that don't change, and you're always changing, and there's nothing you can do about it." -Neil Gaiman, The Graveyard Book

  • "Change is freedom, change is life." -Ursula K. Le Guin, The Dispossessed

  • "And all the lives we ever lived and all the lives to be are full of trees and changing leaves." -Virginia Woolf, To the Lighthouse

  • "Now I think it’s one of the most useless questions an adult can ask a child—What do you want to be when you grow up? As if growing up is finite. As if at some point you become something and that’s the end." -Michelle Obama, Becoming

  • "Things change. And friends leave. Life doesn't stop for anybody." -Stephen Chbosky, The Perks of Being a Wallflower

  • "I don’t like knowing people in the context of things. 'Oh, that’s the person I work out with. That’s the person I’m in a book club with. That’s the person I did that show with.' Because once the context ends, so does the friendship." -Jennette McCurdy, I'm Glad My Mom Died

  • "Unexpected goodness is as large and overwhelming as unexpected tragedy." -Nora McInerny, No Happy Endings

  • "When we least expect it, life sets us a challenge to test our courage and willingness to change; at such a moment, there is no point in pretending that nothing has happened or in saying that we are not yet ready. The challenge will not wait. Life does not look back." -Paulo Coelho, The Devil and Miss Prym

  • "The world doesn't change in front of your eyes, it changes behind your back." -Terry Hayes, I Am Pilgrim

  • "Nothing changes instantaneously: in a gradually heating bathtub you’d be boiled to death before you knew it." -Margaret Atwood, The Handmaid's Tale

  • "I've tried in this telling, time and time again, to pinpoint the moment where everything starts to fall apart. Everything, meaning me. But there's also the opposite, where some little nut cracks open inside you and a tree starts to grow. Even harder to nail. Because that thing's going to be growing a long time before you notice. Years maybe. then one day you say, Huh, that little crack between my ears has turned into this whole damn tree of wonderful." -Barbara Kingsolver, Demon Copperhead

  • "Some changes happen deep down inside of you. And the truth is, only you know about them. Maybe that’s the way it’s supposed to be." -Judy Blume, Tiger Eyes

  • "It may be unfair, but what happens in a few days, sometimes even a single day, can change the course of a whole lifetime." -Khaled Hosseini, The Kite Runner

  • "She was no longer who she used to be, and she wasn't yet whoever she was becoming." -Ann Napolitano, Hello Beautiful

On fear of change

On making change happen

On changing your mindset

On embracing change