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The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures | [Janet W. Hardy, Dossie Easton]

The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, & Other Adventures

For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle - from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and to define relationships on their own terms.
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Publisher's Summary

For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle - from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and to define relationships on their own terms.

©1994 Celestial Arts (P)2012 Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy

What the Critics Say

"I couldn't stop reading it, and I for one identify as an ethical slut. This is a book for anyone interested in creating more pleasure in their lives...a complete guide to improving any style of relating, from going steady to having an extended family of sexual friends." (Betty Dodson, PhD, author of Sex for One)

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    Chris FORT WAYNE, IN, United States 07-16-13
    Chris FORT WAYNE, IN, United States 07-16-13 Member Since 2010

    Avid Audio Book listener. Usual suspects are Leadership, Business, Philosophy, Biographies, and Random Fiction. But once every couple of months I choose a book I might not have picked...ever...but with good reviews.

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    "Well written, dense book"

    "The Ethical Slut" is an excellent, well written book to learn about different relationship types outside of monogamy while also respecting monogamy.

    If you are looking at this book, you are probably curious about the many topics of relationships. You will find a lot of good tips in this book whether monogamous or considering open, polyamory, or more. This book can actually help enforce a lot of positive communication techniques for yourself and your partner(s). At its center, the book is all about honesty and trust which is the building blocks of every relationship.

    The book is also extends the idea of what sex really is. If you think you know, listen to the first half of this book and see if you still define it the same way.

    The authors read the book and they do an earnest job. The fact that they switch between the authors to accent parts is nice. Also it helps that they both practice what they are explaining so can provide personal experiences, emotions, and really relate the content.

    The book gets a few down sides that keeps it from a 5 star.

    The book feels it is geared largely to women and couples even though they try to cover all sexualities and relationship types. Single men can get quite a lot but some examples or exercises are difficult to relate to.

    Also the second half of the book drags a little and the dual voice use takes a little bit of a hit that kept it moving so well the first half.

    Finally, it can almost be an overload of information. You might need a few listens to get the full use of the book.

    Overall, for anyone who ever "what ifed" or want to consider a different type of relationship in an open and honest way, this well written and dense book is for you!

    2 of 2 people found this review helpful
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    val Indiana, USA 06-04-14
    val Indiana, USA 06-04-14 Member Since 2010
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    "Great Book! Must read!"
    What made the experience of listening to The Ethical Slut the most enjoyable?

    highly releatable !


    What about Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton ’s performance did you like?

    I liked hearing the book in the writers voice. it was great.


    Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

    yes


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    jon Meridian, ID, United States 08-20-13
    jon Meridian, ID, United States 08-20-13 Member Since 2009
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    "A book about sexuality needs a sexy narrator"
    Is there anything you would change about this book?

    The book was interesting, but a bit repetitive. I seemed to plow the same ground (no pun intended) over and over again.


    What aspect of Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton ’s performance would you have changed?

    Very few authors are gifted narrators. These authors are now elderly women, whose voices sound like they belong to old women in Florida or Arizona retirement communities talking about golf. If you are narrating a book about sex, a voice that matches the topic is necessary. I was kind of annoyed by a grandmotherly voice talking about swinging and multiple sex partners.


    1 of 1 people found this review helpful
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    Stephen Bloomington, IN, United States 03-08-14
    Stephen Bloomington, IN, United States 03-08-14 Member Since 2011
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    "Useful insight on alternatives to monogamy"
    What did you love best about The Ethical Slut?

    I liked that the exercises throughout that helped the readers put the material into practice in their lives. I also appreciated hearing different lifestyles and what works for other people.


    Have you listened to any of Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton ’s other performances before? How does this one compare?

    I have not listed to any others, but I would be open to the experience.


    Any additional comments?

    I've never considered myself an orthodox monogamist and this book provides a lot of information on how to handle that lifestyle.

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    "A wonderful book - and perfect as an audiobook"
    What did you like most about The Ethical Slut?

    Much of the writing is done as if you were being spoken to. So naturally, when narrated as an audiobook, you often are being spoken to directly. A wonderful book and the perfect subject of an audiobook.


    What was one of the most memorable moments of The Ethical Slut?

    Listening to the narrator describe how she fell in love with a woman who at first intimidated her.


    Did you have an emotional reaction to this book? Did it make you laugh or cry?

    I very often laughed out loud in public. Quite embarrassing.


    Any additional comments?

    A great book. Even though it may be targetted at women, there is no reason a man cannot enjoy it and glean a great deal of wisdom from it.

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