For anyone who has ever dreamed of love, sex, and companionship beyond the limits of traditional monogamy, this groundbreaking guide navigates the infinite possibilities that open relationships can offer. Experienced ethical sluts Dossie Easton and Janet W. Hardy dispel myths and cover all the skills necessary to maintain a successful and responsible polyamorous lifestyle - from self-reflection and honest communication to practicing safe sex and raising a family. Individuals and their partners will learn how to discuss and honor boundaries, resolve conflicts, and to define relationships on their own terms.
©1994 Celestial Arts (P)2012 Dossie Easton & Janet W. Hardy
"I couldn't stop reading it, and I for one identify as an ethical slut. This is a book for anyone interested in creating more pleasure in their lives...a complete guide to improving any style of relating, from going steady to having an extended family of sexual friends." (Betty Dodson, PhD, author of Sex for One)
Avid Audio Book listener. Usual suspects are Leadership, Business, Philosophy, Biographies, and Random Fiction. But once every couple of months I choose a book I might not have picked...ever...but with good reviews.
"The Ethical Slut" is an excellent, well written book to learn about different relationship types outside of monogamy while also respecting monogamy.
If you are looking at this book, you are probably curious about the many topics of relationships. You will find a lot of good tips in this book whether monogamous or considering open, polyamory, or more. This book can actually help enforce a lot of positive communication techniques for yourself and your partner(s). At its center, the book is all about honesty and trust which is the building blocks of every relationship.
The book is also extends the idea of what sex really is. If you think you know, listen to the first half of this book and see if you still define it the same way.
The authors read the book and they do an earnest job. The fact that they switch between the authors to accent parts is nice. Also it helps that they both practice what they are explaining so can provide personal experiences, emotions, and really relate the content.
The book gets a few down sides that keeps it from a 5 star.
The book feels it is geared largely to women and couples even though they try to cover all sexualities and relationship types. Single men can get quite a lot but some examples or exercises are difficult to relate to.
Also the second half of the book drags a little and the dual voice use takes a little bit of a hit that kept it moving so well the first half.
Finally, it can almost be an overload of information. You might need a few listens to get the full use of the book.
Overall, for anyone who ever "what ifed" or want to consider a different type of relationship in an open and honest way, this well written and dense book is for you!
highly releatable !
I liked hearing the book in the writers voice. it was great.
There are not enough words in the English language to share what this book means to me. To have someone tell me that my life-long feelings are valid; that it is "normal" to love more than one person at a time; that feelings of wanting to see your partner love another - is not strange, it's wonderful!!!!
I am going to listen to this atleast three more times in the near future. This is a great read for so many then just people interested in polyamory. BRAVO!!
Single mom of two active boys. My guilty pleasure is listening to audio books on road trips and to work or soccer practice. Love Chick Lit!
No. I think the content is probably great, but I felt like I was in graduate school in philosophy class all over again. Only this time, I did not agree with the questions posed and I wasn't wiling to be open to the logic of the author. Probably a great book. Just not for me.
Too educational -- It was like listening to a PBS documentary rather than watching one.
I really liked the book. It was a little long winded for my taste but over all it was worth it.
This was a great book to read for anyone that is interested in opening their mind, expanding their consciousness, and learning and different types of relationships that can work. Great guide to polygamy, what to expect, common questions and concerns, real life experiences...it has it all!
my favourite part was about developing emotional maturity. this is a great reference book, for everyone, not only the ethical sluts amongst us. I don't think i'm one, but the book was still very relevant to me.
This has opened my mind and changed my perspectives. My sincere thanks to the authors and the brave pioneers of open sexuality.
"A wonderful book - and perfect as an audiobook"
Much of the writing is done as if you were being spoken to. So naturally, when narrated as an audiobook, you often are being spoken to directly. A wonderful book and the perfect subject of an audiobook.
Listening to the narrator describe how she fell in love with a woman who at first intimidated her.
I very often laughed out loud in public. Quite embarrassing.
A great book. Even though it may be targetted at women, there is no reason a man cannot enjoy it and glean a great deal of wisdom from it.
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