TW: Abuse/domestic violence, divorce

Overview:

- Sarah and host served together in the Navy at Whidbey Island

- Sarah was a single parent for much of her time in the military

- Sarah had a difficult childhood and past abusive relationship that led her to join the military

Key Events:

- Got married quickly after meeting husband in the Navy - Has two children

- Experienced a divorce after getting out of the military - Struggled as a single parent and changed rates in the Navy

- Moved to locations like San Diego and Jacksonville, dealt with relationship issues and considered divorce

- Felt overwhelmed with changes happening in her life after moving to Whidbey Island

- Got pregnant after getting married, was pulled off her boat and did not go on deployments

- Marriage remained rocky, eventually decided to get divorced, difficult co-parenting while divorced

- Stopped medication and therapy after getting out due to lack of support

- Felt everyone turned their back on her without military support system

Current Life:

- Lives in California

- Exploring creative passions in music and arts

- Working full-time and attending school ________________________________________________

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Host, Rachel Oswalt discusses her personal journey with the 75 Hard challenge and how it is helping her improve self-discipline. She reflects on struggles with self-doubt and finding purpose after the military. Updates are also provided on ongoing work in the Oak Harbor community to establish resources for veterans and increase support for military mental health.

Episode timestamps:

[0:00] Introduction and background on starting 75 Hard challenge

[0:09] Discussion of book "Psycho Cybernetics" and impact on self-image

[0:18] Reflections on purpose, career pivots, and broadening mindset after military service

[0:30] Updates on initiatives in Oak Harbor community around military mental health and resources

[0:45] Gratitude for listeners and importance of ongoing conversations around military experiences

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Host, Rachel, deep dives into her story of getting in trouble and going through the non-judicial punishment process her first year in the Navy at her training command. She traces that situation back to feelings rooted deep into childhood of questioning whether or not she is a "good person".

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