• Toxic Magnetism: How and Why Empaths Attract Narcissists

  • Discover the One Reason You Keep Attracting Narcissistic People. A True Survival Guide for the Highly Sensitive Person Dating an Energy Vampire, with Abuse Healing and Dodging Narcissism in Future Relationships
  • By: Kara Lawrence
  • Narrated by: HotGhost Productions
  • Length: 3 hrs and 6 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (199 ratings)

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Toxic Magnetism: How and Why Empaths Attract Narcissists

By: Kara Lawrence
Narrated by: HotGhost Productions
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Publisher's Summary

Are you caught in an exhausting, repeating cycle of bad relationships that always turn out the same, and suspect there must be some root cause driving your attraction to the wrong people, and them to you?

Are you naturally giving and constantly find yourself being taken advantage of by chronic takers?

Have you ever noticed that you attract the same type of person again and again and wonder why? Would you like to understand the elements that are driving this attraction and fueling this frustrating, toxic cycle? If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, keep reading!

Hoping that a new relationship will turn out different than the last, and then being disappointed by not only the same result, but arriving there through the same familiar negative patterns along the way can be discouraging. It can leave you wondering if there is a way out of this cycle.

Explore this groundbreaking audiobook that finally uncovers the reasons why empaths and narcissists are so irresistibly drawn to each other, and the ways that, armed with the truth, you and others can finally break the cycle and avoid these relationships in the future so you can finally meet the person you were meant for!

You'll discover:

  • The single, harmless-seeming trait that draws in narcissists like moths to flame
  • 15 must-know warning signs of a toxic relationship
  • The true reason behind why empaths often feel compelled to “fix” broken partners
  • The 7 recognizable stages of a toxic relationship (see if you relate!)
  • How toxic relationships are preventing you from meeting the one you were meant to be with, and the ultimate tool to break free from the cycle for good
  • And much more...

Even with a track record a mile long of toxic, unhealthy, and even abusive relationships, there is a way to empower yourself to break the cycle.

If you are ready to never deal with another dead end, hurtful relationship again, start listening today!

©2019 Kara Lawrence (P)2020 Kara Lawrence

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Seriously bad narration job.

Started ok but would get to close to the mic and you can hear them breath directly on the mic and especially whenever there is a P word it’s awful.
The book seemed like an interesting psychology like book.

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Illuminating

I learned a lot about my relationship cycles from this, about how and WHY many of my relationships follow some of the same patterns. Also, even though this is about dating, I actually related some things to my relationship with my mom and my old boss. I think the most important aspect is understanding ourselves so that we are enabled to change these patterns, and I would say this book helped me understand a lot that will help me.

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Just what I needed!

Loved it!! Provided valuable insight on everything that I've been dealing with in my marriage...just didn't know what it was until now, Thank you!!!

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eye opening

very clear and concise information and great narration. thank you! Not only informative but helps to set personal goals.

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it was ok.

I got out of a toxic relationship recently and got this book to help me break the cycle once and for all. I was looking for something more advanced and this seemed a little more beginner level, but there were some good advice in there I could apply that helped me journal . I was expecting a little more advanced from this book but overall it was okay read

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Excellent info and scenarios

I really enjoyed this book. The scenarios provided detailed examples to really make it clean how interactions between empaths and narcissists work. This helped me to understand so much about myself and my past relationships.

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Loved listening!

Loved listening! Definitely helped in my healing! Very clear understanding and worth having a pad of paper and pen to take notes or listen again!

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Thank you would be an understatement here. I gained so much insight listening to this book! Looking forward to your other books

I really liked the neutrality of this book. Im not very religious but felt very welcome here. The information and insight will forever be treasured and, I can’t wait to listen to more of your books

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recommend this if your an empath or even a narciss

This is helping me get through the 8 year toxic unhealthy relationship I was in I love deeply with all my heart and I always want to help people and fix them and do anything to make them happy and I lost who iam in this relationship im broken so I'm definitely an empath for sure and need help to get through this

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Great book!

This book gave me so much validation and assurance after a break up. Also gave advice on healing, warning signs of a narcissist and toxic relationships.

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  • Selah
  • 07-08-20

Thanks for sharing your knowledge

I feel re-born, 15 years ago I read lots about HSP after my divorce. This book made me realize how much I have grown. I needed that feeling. thanks

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-11-23

Exactly what I needed

I just wanted to say a massive thank you to the author for sharing this. The whole way through it was entirely relatable and healing for me. The story reassured me throughout; reassured me that I wasn’t imagining it and that I had just escaped something truly toxic.

I’ve been hurting for some time since our breakup, wondering where it went wrong and whether it truly was me. This book has just helped me reconfirm my self-worth and realise that it really was him that was the problem throughout the relationship.

I’m looking forward to reading your next book. Thank-you for all your support in this one.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 09-09-21

Excellent

So interesting! Felt like the author was talking right to me with everything I’m going through. Thank you for this

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  • William Anderson
  • 05-15-20
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The only audible on this subject!

This was an easy listen. There were some grammatical errors towards the end of the audible but it was composed well and casual enough to move through the work quickly. The content is very supportive.

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  • Catherine Magnani
  • 04-25-20

Interesting but not long enough!

It is definitely worth a read and has a lot of interesting points and observations . However, I would have liked for it to have delved a bit deeper as I feel I'm still left with questions. It feels like an introduction to the subject, and now I'm ready to read the next part!

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  • 08-08-20

Sexist Victim Blaming

I was hopeful when I found this book, believing it would offer tools to assist analysis, methods for rebuttal and strategy for overcoming difficult resolutions. However I was left feeling like I shouldn't trust anyone, especially men. The book's content has left me deflated in my time of need. The narrator's adversarial pias tone didn't help, lacking sympathy, empathy, rhythm and stoicism.

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  • Karen Mazur
  • 06-14-20

Helpful, Informative

It helped me to understand the how's and why's of such relationships, it's an excellent resource