The Boundary Is You

A Guide to Creating Boundaries in Your Relationships by Loving Yourself More

De: Chany G. Rosengarten

Narrado por: Chany G. Rosengarten

As seen in the New York Times International Edition, USA Today, and featured on iHeartRadio, internationally acclaimed best-selling author Chany Rosengarten gives us the next Brené Brown-esque easy-to-follow, self-help book, to give you boundaries in a fast and simple way.

The Boundary Is You will teach you how to create boundaries by becoming the boundary yourself. If you’ve tried making boundaries with others, you already know the process is painful, difficult, or impossible.

Making boundaries leaves you in the vulnerable position of either needing to fight hard for your rights to establish boundaries or be trampled. If the people you need to make boundaries with were the most accommodating people, chances are you wouldn’t need to make boundaries with them at all.

But there’s a better way.

If you are ready to establish boundaries, and you want to do it in an easy, pain-free way, this book is for you.

If you are ready for relationships that respect and support you, this book will be your guide.

You’ll learn how to understand the power you have in every relationship. You’ll discover how to love and accept yourself even if you’re not perfect or have made mistakes.

You will take back your authority to make important choices in your life. You will gain a clear method for getting your needs met. You’ll have direction in your life, knowing what you want and getting it.

Chany Rosengarten, a mother of four children, doesn’t have the time or energy to waste on fixing people by making their boundaries for them. Chany experienced the pain of being in boundary-less relationships, which was decidedly unpleasant. She wanted a way to create boundaries that worked for everyone, and has since researched, applied, and taught this method to hundreds of women.

If you are ready to make boundaries as immovable as a mountain, and as clearly demarked as the land is to the sea, this book is your way forward.

©2020 Chany G. Rosengarten (P)2020-2090 Chany G. Rosengarten

Highly recommend this book to everyone

If you're struggling with self sacrifice, wrapping your head around the novel concept of boundaries, have trouble sticking up for yourself and/or saying no; then I highly recommend you read or listen to this book. The author speaks from the heart as she shares personal and highly relatable stories tackling these monumental life changing concepts in simple easy to understand terms. Very enjoyable listening to such an important message: Choose your own life, starting right now. You are worth it.

legit self help book

No fluff, just clear tips and ideas to help you live a full happy life. Chany is very real and makes you feel normal about your everyday challenges. A great read.

Self reflection

This book made me take a look inside of myself and definitely opened my eyes. Thank you, Chany!

Terrible narration gets in the way of the content. Almost unlistenable.

The author really, really should have hired a professional narrator.

First of all it sounds like this was recorded on a phone or laptop in a room with no sound treatment. In addition, the author has a strong regional accent, which I’m sorry, but an accent like that can get between the work and the audience. There are lots of non-standard pronunciations of words. And her cadence is that of someone reading from a page without practice. You can hear her pause and flip a page sometimes. This is just not a professional reading.

Trying to look past the presentation, the content is ok. Kind of a mixed bag for me. The first few chapters are pretty squishy, metaphorical, almost metaphysical stuff. The last few chapters are stronger, so I’m glad I stuck it out. Though with narration this bad it wasn’t easy. And those chapters could be reasonably summarized as, “ask for what you want and don’t apologize for it.”

I almost feel mean criticizing a book about someone learning to love themself but hey, I have to review honestly.