-
The Human Magnet Syndrome
- The Codependent Narcissist Trap
- Narrated by: Roy Worley
- Length: 10 hrs and 7 mins
- Unabridged Audiobook
- Release date: 04-05-18
- Language: English
- Publisher: Self-Love Recovery Institute
Regular price: $19.95
People who bought this also bought...
-
The Drama of the Gifted Child
- The Search for the True Self
- By: Alice Miller
- Narrated by: Suzanne Toren
- Length: 3 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 19
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 16
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 16
The best-selling guide on childhood trauma and the enduring effects of repressed anger and pain. Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound audiobook has provided millions of people with an answer - and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Learn Your Truth
- By Jennifer Lowinger on 10-18-18
-
Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship
- By: Adelyn Birch
- Narrated by: Kitty Hendrix
- Length: 1 hr and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 68
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 51
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 48
If you were involved in a pathological relationship - or you want to prevent it from happening in the first place - this book is for you. It gets to the heart of the matter of personal boundaries. Identifying and setting clear boundaries is vital for survivors and for anyone who wants to become more confident, improve relationships, and prevent victimization. When you create boundaries you take a stand for yourself and your life, and you communicate your worth to others in a real and practical way. This concise and powerful book is filled with practical wisdom and useful tips.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
short but great information
- By Renita S. Creasy on 06-01-18
-
The Codependent User's Manual: A Handbook for the Narcissistic Abuser
- By: Jon Bet
- Narrated by: Daniel Hawking
- Length: 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 264
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 219
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 219
This is not a satire, but it takes a satirical approach to shedding light upon a very dark subject: narcissistic abuse. It is intended to demonstrate to those struggling with codependency just how narcissists actually view them. By listening to their "play book", codependents should be able to recognize covert abuse and avoid its pernicious effects.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
This audio download put me in control of my life!
- By cheyenne overman on 08-20-16
-
Psychopath Free: Expanded Edition
- Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Sociopaths & Other Toxic People
- By: Jackson MacKenzie
- Narrated by: Shaun Grindell
- Length: 7 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,210
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,065
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,054
The psychopath carefully selects the most indifferent and heartbreaking way imaginable to abandon you. They destroy you as a way to reassure themselves. Psychopath Free will help you out of the darkness so that you can begin making better choices that will forever alter the course of your life. So say farewell to love triangles, cryptic letters, self-doubt, and manufactured anxiety. You are no longer a pawn in the mind games of a psychopath. You are free.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Time you cut yourself some slack
- By Elizabeth on 11-19-15
-
Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare
- How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself
- By: Shahida Arabi
- Narrated by: Julie McKay
- Length: 19 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 333
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 290
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 294
Although clinical research has been conducted on narcissism as a disorder, less is known about its effects on victims who are in toxic relationships with partners with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Individuals with this disorder engage in chronic devaluation and manipulation of their partners, a psychological and emotional phenomenon known as "narcissistic abuse". Unfortunately, the full extent of what narcissistic abuse entails is not taught in any psychology class or diagnostic manual.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Finally
- By zero on 12-08-16
-
The Road Back to Me
- Healing and Recovering from Co-Dependency, Addiction, Enabling, and Low Self Esteem
- By: Lisa A. Romano
- Narrated by: Gina E. Manegio
- Length: 5 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 487
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 419
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 416
This story is told through the jagged peephole of the author's awareness, examining her formative wounds and influences from the perspective of a woman who has now gained experience and wisdom. As she peers over her soul's shoulder, she recalls the chaos of her once-fragile childhood mind. She shudders as she is reminded of the sting of her lonely childhood, her feelings of abandonment, and her painful memories of being bullied.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
what a drag!
- By k71 on 06-06-18
-
The Drama of the Gifted Child
- The Search for the True Self
- By: Alice Miller
- Narrated by: Suzanne Toren
- Length: 3 hrs and 51 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 19
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 16
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 16
The best-selling guide on childhood trauma and the enduring effects of repressed anger and pain. Why are many of the most successful people plagued by feelings of emptiness and alienation? This wise and profound audiobook has provided millions of people with an answer - and has helped them to apply it to their own lives.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Learn Your Truth
- By Jennifer Lowinger on 10-18-18
-
Boundaries After a Pathological Relationship
- By: Adelyn Birch
- Narrated by: Kitty Hendrix
- Length: 1 hr and 15 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 68
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 51
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 48
If you were involved in a pathological relationship - or you want to prevent it from happening in the first place - this book is for you. It gets to the heart of the matter of personal boundaries. Identifying and setting clear boundaries is vital for survivors and for anyone who wants to become more confident, improve relationships, and prevent victimization. When you create boundaries you take a stand for yourself and your life, and you communicate your worth to others in a real and practical way. This concise and powerful book is filled with practical wisdom and useful tips.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
short but great information
- By Renita S. Creasy on 06-01-18
-
The Codependent User's Manual: A Handbook for the Narcissistic Abuser
- By: Jon Bet
- Narrated by: Daniel Hawking
- Length: 54 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 264
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 219
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 219
This is not a satire, but it takes a satirical approach to shedding light upon a very dark subject: narcissistic abuse. It is intended to demonstrate to those struggling with codependency just how narcissists actually view them. By listening to their "play book", codependents should be able to recognize covert abuse and avoid its pernicious effects.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
This audio download put me in control of my life!
- By cheyenne overman on 08-20-16
-
Psychopath Free: Expanded Edition
- Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships with Narcissists, Sociopaths & Other Toxic People
- By: Jackson MacKenzie
- Narrated by: Shaun Grindell
- Length: 7 hrs and 57 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 1,210
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 1,065
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 1,054
The psychopath carefully selects the most indifferent and heartbreaking way imaginable to abandon you. They destroy you as a way to reassure themselves. Psychopath Free will help you out of the darkness so that you can begin making better choices that will forever alter the course of your life. So say farewell to love triangles, cryptic letters, self-doubt, and manufactured anxiety. You are no longer a pawn in the mind games of a psychopath. You are free.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Time you cut yourself some slack
- By Elizabeth on 11-19-15
-
Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare
- How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself
- By: Shahida Arabi
- Narrated by: Julie McKay
- Length: 19 hrs and 10 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 333
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 290
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 294
Although clinical research has been conducted on narcissism as a disorder, less is known about its effects on victims who are in toxic relationships with partners with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Individuals with this disorder engage in chronic devaluation and manipulation of their partners, a psychological and emotional phenomenon known as "narcissistic abuse". Unfortunately, the full extent of what narcissistic abuse entails is not taught in any psychology class or diagnostic manual.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Finally
- By zero on 12-08-16
-
The Road Back to Me
- Healing and Recovering from Co-Dependency, Addiction, Enabling, and Low Self Esteem
- By: Lisa A. Romano
- Narrated by: Gina E. Manegio
- Length: 5 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 487
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 419
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 416
This story is told through the jagged peephole of the author's awareness, examining her formative wounds and influences from the perspective of a woman who has now gained experience and wisdom. As she peers over her soul's shoulder, she recalls the chaos of her once-fragile childhood mind. She shudders as she is reminded of the sting of her lonely childhood, her feelings of abandonment, and her painful memories of being bullied.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
what a drag!
- By k71 on 06-06-18
-
Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship
- A Caretaker's Guide to Recovery, Empowerment, and Transformation
- By: Margalis Fjelstad
- Narrated by: Sally Vahle
- Length: 7 hrs and 53 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars 144
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars 127
-
Story5 out of 5 stars 125
When a relationship with a narcissist ends, the caretaking partner is often left confused, deeply hurt, and often still emotionally connected, while the narcissist seems to easily move on to the next relationship. Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship offers guidance about what to expect as the relationship unravels and how to cope with the fallout. It also helps the reader learn to truly disengage and move through the grief process.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Finally...
- By megan on 01-16-18
-
In Sheep's Clothing
- Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People
- By: George K. Simon
- Narrated by: Kevin Foley
- Length: 4 hrs and 43 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 948
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 814
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 804
Dr. George K. Simon knows how people push your buttons: your children---especially teens---are experts at it, as is your mate. A coworker may quietly undermine your efforts while professing to be helpful, or your boss may prey on your weaknesses. Manipulative people have two goals: to win and to look good doing it.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Great enlightenment for confused codependents
- By Darcy on 05-20-14
-
Codependent No More
- How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 8 hrs and 24 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 3,214
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 2,503
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 2,474
A source of healing and inspiration for millions, this modern classic spent over three years on the New York Times best seller list and made codependency a household word. Codependent No More contains dozens of real-life examples, personal reflections, exercises, and self-tests to help you along the road to recovering your own life. For anyone struggling with a relationship involving alchoholism or other compulsive behaviors, this program points the way to healing and the renewal of hope.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Life changing perspective
- By Tracy Perkins on 05-12-16
-
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
- By: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Narrated by: Ramani Durvasula PhD
- Length: 10 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 170
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 149
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 148
Should I Stay or Should I Go? is a survival manual, a guidebook, and a shot of reality. Some people will never change, and kissing frogs is the stuff of fairy tales, not real life. The Beast never turns out to be a nice guy (or gal). This is a book that breaks down what mean people do to us, how they do it, and what we can do to survive.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
This should be your Primary Guide dealing with a Narcissistic Relationship
- By Darren E from Toronto on 06-06-16
-
Codependent - Now What?
- It's Not You - It's Your Programming
- By: Lisa A. Romano
- Narrated by: Gina E. Manegio
- Length: 6 hrs and 44 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 102
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 90
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 89
This book is about codependent recovery.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
A New Perception
- By Lori on 04-19-17
-
Beyond Codependency
- And Getting Better All the Time
- By: Melody Beattie
- Narrated by: Christina Moore
- Length: 7 hrs and 4 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 209
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 180
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 174
Alcoholism, drug abuse, and similar destructive practices can render families dysfunctional. When the children of these families become adults, they sometimes develop self-defeating survival tactics, such as low self-esteem or an obsession with controlling another person's behavior. To help those stuck in codependent cycles identify and eliminate such troubling issues from their relationships, Beattie shares wisdom gained from years of experience.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Thank you Melody, again.
- By Megan Rutter on 11-17-17
-
Power
- Surviving & Thriving After Narcissistic Abuse
- By: Shahida Arabi
- Narrated by: Julie McKay
- Length: 9 hrs and 48 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 112
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 99
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 100
Pathological mind games. Covert and overt put-downs. Triangulation. Gaslighting. Projection. These are the manipulative tactics survivors of malignant narcissists are unfortunately all too familiar with. As victims of silent crimes where the perpetrators are rarely held accountable, survivors of narcissistic abuse have lived in a war zone of epic proportions, enduring an abuse cycle of love-bombing and devaluation - psychological violence on steroids.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
A “Powerful” book
- By Avid reader on 10-16-17
-
Quantum Tools to Help You Heal Your Life Now
- Healing the Past Using the Secrets of the Law of Attraction
- By: Lisa A. Romano
- Narrated by: Allen Prohaska
- Length: 2 hrs and 47 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 126
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 109
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 106
Much like gravity, the law of attraction is a natural law of the universe, and one that governs every interaction you ever have. You can only attract into your experience those things that resonate with you on an emotional and or vibrational level. It is no coincidence that women who marry alcoholics had alcoholic fathers, grandfathers or uncles. What a child experiences in childhood determines that beings emotional set point; their point of attraction.
-
4 out of 5 stars
-
happy with book content, not happy with narration
- By Gaby8a on 02-24-15
-
9 Covert Ways to Outsmart a Narcissist
- Beat the Tools He Uses to Mind Control You
- By: Jamie Keller
- Narrated by: Pete Beretta
- Length: 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars 196
-
Performance4 out of 5 stars 170
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 166
If you downloaded this book, it is no doubt that you are dealing with a narcissist on a regular basis. He or she is probably driving you crazy. They gaslight you and try to make you believe that you're crazy. They blame and shame you for everything that goes wrong in their lives. They destroy and damage everything that others have because of their constant envy. They want to always be on top, and they don't care who they step on to get there.
-
1 out of 5 stars
-
Really Unhealthy Advice
- By Isabelle on 01-22-16
-
When Love Is a Lie
- Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda
- By: Zari L Ballard
- Narrated by: Lisa Bunting
- Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 228
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 209
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 208
When our partner is a narcissist, only those who've actually experienced the madness will ever understand what we're going through. When Love Is a Lie is a straight-up, tell-all book about narcissism in relationships that skips the clinical bullshit to focus solely on the personal experience. A narrative that holds nothing back, Zari Ballard's story will educate, enlighten, and empower you to evaluate (and fully understand) the mind-boggling dysfunction in your own relationship.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Greatfull to have found this!
- By Joy on 03-13-17
-
Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist
- How to End the Drama and Get On with Life
- By: Margalis Fjelstad
- Narrated by: Dawn McKelvie Cyr
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 554
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 488
-
Story4.5 out of 5 stars 473
People with borderline or narcissistic personality disorders have a serious mental illness that primarily affects their intimate, personal, and family relationships. Often they appear to be normally functioning at work and in public interactions, and narcissists may even be highly effective, in the short term, in some work or social situations. However, in intimate relationships, they can be emotional, aggressive, demeaning, illogical, paranoid, accusing, and controlling - in the extreme.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Want to help someone change? This is for you.
- By Jesus I. Ramirez on 01-20-17
-
Gaslighting: The Ultimate Narcissistic Mind Control
- Transcend Mediocrity, Book 131
- By: J.B. Snow
- Narrated by: Melissa Williams
- Length: 31 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall4.5 out of 5 stars 190
-
Performance4.5 out of 5 stars 152
-
Story4 out of 5 stars 148
If you are feeling this way, my friend, there is a simple explanation. You may be dating or married to a narcissist. Your self-absorbed partner may be gaslighting and manipulating you. He may cycle between love-bombing and distancing himself from you. He seems to be a nice guy to your face sometimes, but then you find out that he is talking bad about you to others. He seems to triangulate you with other women or family members in order to make you jealous and boost his own ego.
-
5 out of 5 stars
-
Short but packed with examples and advice
- By Practy Cal on 11-29-16
Publisher's Summary
The Human Magnet Syndrome: The Codependent Narcissist Trap is a complete rewrite of Ross's first book. Ross provides a more explicit rendering of The Human Magnet Syndrome, that includes new theories, explanations, and concepts. The information on Gaslighting and The Narcissistic Abuse Syndrome, like the rest of the information, is cutting edge and completely original. This audiobook contains many more case examples and stories of Ross's own codependency recovery. Like its predecessor, it is written for both the layman and professional. Men and women have been magnetically and irresistibly drawn together into romantic relationships, not so much by what they see, feel and think, but more by invisible forces.
Codependents and pathological narcissists are enveloped in a seductive dreamlike state; however, it will later unfold into a painful “seesaw” of love, pain, hope, and disappointment. The soul mate of the codependent's dreams will become the narcissist of their nightmares. Fans of The Human Magnet Syndrome will better understand why they, despite their dreams for true love, find themselves hopelessly and painfully in love with partners who hurt them.
What members say
Average Customer Ratings
Overall
-
4.5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars39
-
4 Stars8
-
3 Stars1
-
2 Stars3
-
1 Stars1
Performance
-
4.5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars32
-
4 Stars10
-
3 Stars4
-
2 Stars2
-
1 Stars1
Story
-
4.5 out of 5 stars
-
5 Stars38
-
4 Stars7
-
3 Stars2
-
2 Stars2
-
1 Stars1
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- sarah
- las vegas, nevada, Vereinigte Staaten
- 05-04-18
this is the ultimate book of revelations.
i never had this many AHA moments reading or listening to a book in my entire life and i won't tell how old im but i will tell you my audible library holds 900 books.. my amazon kindle 400 my itune audiobooks lib 315....this book is a must listen too every single day of your life... every time you re-listen you find more insights and more brilliant treasure.. literally..!.Sarah gath.
4 of 4 people found this review helpful
-
Overall1 out of 5 stars
-
Performance1 out of 5 stars
-
Story1 out of 5 stars
- Liz Linder
- 10-01-18
This book would not download at chapter 7
I was enjoying Ross Rosenberg s explanations and writing style but unfortunately it stopped at chapter 7 . This was very frustrating
1 of 1 people found this review helpful
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- CaraQuin
- 04-16-18
Love this book....
What made the experience of listening to The Human Magnet Syndrome the most enjoyable?
I love the voice of the Narrator and the information is PRICELESS! Thank you Ross Rosenberg for writing this book!
What did you learn from The Human Magnet Syndrome that you would use in your daily life?
How to retrain my 'human magnet' and how to make sure my child has a 'healthy magnet' now and in his future!
1 of 1 people found this review helpful
-
Overall4 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story4 out of 5 stars
- Anonymous User
- 09-29-18
Great but not what I expected.
The most helpful material I could find. It lacks the detailed instructions of how to go through the ten steps of recovery. I waited the whole book to get it but it was so brief. I still benefitted so much. Thank you Ross.
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Karen M Hartman
- Cashmere, WA United States
- 09-23-18
Can’t wait for his next book!
As a daughter, who was raised by a narcissist mother, and whose son has a narcissistic father, this book was a Godsend for understanding ourselves and our lives. Becoming self love abundant is the only cure, as Ross Rosenberg so clearly teaches us in this wonderful book.
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Simba
- Larkspur, CA
- 09-12-18
Loved it!
Super helpful and informative. In the middle gets a little dry with all the acronyms but excellent book! Will get his other and the new one next year!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- CHERYL J VEON
- 06-18-18
My experiences
Spot on! My experiences have been as this book describes! I am well on my way to getting past this horrific disorder!
-
Overall5 out of 5 stars
-
Performance5 out of 5 stars
-
Story5 out of 5 stars
- Peaceful
- 06-07-18
Encouraging
As a survivor of a lifetime of narcissistic abuse, I found in this book the encouragement, enlightenment, and desire to fully attain self love abundance. Im excited for this journey. Thank you for writing this Ross.
-
Overall2 out of 5 stars
-
Performance2 out of 5 stars
-
Story2 out of 5 stars
- T. Skippings
- 08-12-18
Expected more
Although this book brilliantly presents codepency and narcissism, (which can also be found with a proper Google Search) it does not provide a solution, instead, it directs the reader to another of the author's books which hasn't been written yet.
In my opinion, if you are looking for guidance on how to go about healing yourself (in the event that therapy isn't financially affordable) and get away from your abuser, this is the wrong book.
-
Overall1 out of 5 stars
-
Performance1 out of 5 stars
-
Story1 out of 5 stars
- Amazon Customer
- 07-20-18
unreadable .<br />
Toss totally disregard or ( don't care ) readers by putting all those terms. I find Ross a bit self centred.