The author explains that, although most people desire a wonderful relationship, too many of us don't really understand what love truly means. We say we love people in our lives, yet, too often, we don't act very lovingly. Nor do we choose our partners wisely. This lack of understanding about love is reflected in the ever-increasing divorce rate and the huge number of people who ask with a deep yearning in their hearts: Why is love so hard?
The Feel The Fear Guide To Lasting Love shows what real love actually looks like, how to learn the essentials for finding it, and how to make it last a lifetime. It also lays out solutions to common problems and explains the destructive power of fear. Full of Jeffers' own experiences, humour, and down-to-earth techniques, as well as the wisdom of others, this book will show us all how to enjoy the delight, satisfaction, peace, and caring that true love can bring us.
"Susan Jeffers, the queen of self-help, shares her secrets for a lasting love." (Daily Express)
I like many ideas in this book, especially the mirrow idea. The author gives Good advices which, I think, are useful as for married couples and as for single people, thinking about their future serious relationships.
I got the impression this was for single people, or at least was relevant to them too...so much of it refers to your partner, not if you have a partner! Exercises asking you to practice saying I love u to your partner or practice finding there good points amongst bad ones....I have got 3/4 way through and it's so irrelevant to me and if anything makes me feel slightly worse, lol!
Even for people in relationships-nothing I've heard has been very different to general relationship advice...
3 of 5 people found this review helpful
Very practical and straight forward. Objective, pleasent voice and funny author.
Highly recommended book to read.