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Publisher's Summary

"The narration by Wariner compliments the candid nature of her story...A captivating and emotional story delivered in a straightforward way without an ounce of self-pity." (Library Journal)

A riveting, deeply-affecting audiobook memoir of one girl's coming-of-age experiences in a polygamist cult.

Ruth Wariner was the 39th of her father's 42 children. Growing up on a farm in rural Mexico, where authorities turned a blind eye to the practices of her community, Ruth lives in a ramshackle house without indoor plumbing or electricity. At church, preachers teach that God will punish the wicked by destroying the world and that women can only ascend to Heaven by entering into polygamous marriages and giving birth to as many children as possible. After Ruth's father - the man who had been the founding prophet of the colony - is brutally murdered by his brother in a bid for church power, her mother remarries, becoming the second wife of another faithful congregant.

In need of government assistance and supplemental income, Ruth and her siblings are carted back and forth between Mexico and the United States, where her mother collects welfare and her step-father works a variety of odd jobs. Ruth comes to love the time she spends in the States, realizing that perhaps the community into which she was born is not the right one for her. As Ruth begins to doubt her family's beliefs and question her mother's choices, she struggles to balance her fierce love for her siblings with her determination to forge a better life for herself.

Recounted from the innocent and hopeful perspective of a child, The Sound of Gravel is the remarkable true story of a girl fighting for peace and love. This is an intimate, gripping audiobook resonant with triumph, courage, and resilience.

©2016 Ruth Wariner (P)2016 Macmillan Audio

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Unputdownable

The Sound of Gravel is truly a gripping story that has you invested in the storyline and the characters; angry, sad and joyous on their behalves. I LOVED hearing it in Ruth's own voice!

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Excellent read

The author read the book which made this story even better. What Ms Wariner went through was heart breaking but how she survived is inspirational. I listen to books while I walk. I found myself eager to get out for my walk so that I could listen to the story.

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Chilling

So chilling to hear the story from the mouth of the woman who lived and survived this horrible story.... Well written dialogue and attention to detail; it is loving, hopeful and maddeningly tragic..... Can't stop listening, be prepared to binge on it because you have to know what happens next.

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Excellent--such a common story among polygamist

Would you listen to The Sound of Gravel again? Why?

No, I would recommend it however

Who was your favorite character and why?

The main character Ruth--her perseverance and her voice

What about Ruth Wariner’s performance did you like?

Its her own account

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

Yes

Any additional comments?

Very insightful and sad at the same time. I'm glad that she escaped with some sense of normalcy

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How People Behave in th Name of Religion Floors Me

First of all I once I started this book I couldn't turn it off. Having said this, it was terribly disturbing but I had to hear how it turned out.
This young woman is absolutely amazing is so many ways. She lived under extremely horrible circumstances yet she is a survivor and a wonderful one at that.
She was basically robbed of a childhood. That's my first problem with this story. But as the narrative unfolded things just kept getting worse and worse until at the age of 19 she took charge of the direction of her life.
Throughout the book it seemed that she was really the only adult in the whole gang, with the exception of her grandmother, who had no say in anything because of Ruth's STEPFORD mother and her step-father.
I don't want to give any more away but this story is one I will never forget.
My daughter-in-law recommended this book to me and I'm glad she did.
I love everything about Ruth, including her sweet voice. I'm glad she narrated it. It was more real for me. I also think she's a very good writer.
I would love for her to write a sequel. I adored her brothers and sisters as well.
5 stars for sure!

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the sad truth of polygamy

Love it . I have been reading a ton of these polygamy book can't understand why these women stay. well I guess I can. fear and brain wash. I wish our government would do more to help these young girls

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Gripping....

A real page turner! This compelling story shares the life of the author, born and raised in a polygamist community. Her father was murdered when she was 3, and her mother married an abusing, neglectful man. Ruth's childhood was sapped in the toils of housework, raising her younger siblings and caring for her mother, a woman emotionally crippled by the neglect of her husband. But all was not dire, for Ruth found her way to extricate herself, raised her younger sisters, and completed college. I only wish she had gotten out sooner and filed charges against her abuser.

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Powerful reminder to listen to our children

Tragic story of what some of our most vulnerable must endure. Resilience and love matter!

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Captivating and Disturbing

I listened to this almost straight through. This book is Heartbreaking in detail and full of horrific events. G

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great book of one young girls courage

Awesome book which shows how some people live, but also the shows the courage of a young girl wanting what she deserved; a better life for herself. How sad when children are brought into to that sad and degrading type of life specially for girls. How can women what the same damage and horrible lifestyle they have for their own flesh and blood? Love the courage, strength and faith this woman had. Great! Definitely a must.

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  • Molly James
  • 01-29-16

Emotinal rollercoaster

What an amazing woman and story. Worth a listen, really makes you count your lucky stars.

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  • Rezz
  • 01-01-17

Very well written/read

I was instantly drawn to this book after listening to the preview. I loved Ruth's honesty and her voice brought the story to life. I felt as though I was there with her, through the happiness and sadness of her experiences. Thank you for sharing your story Ruth.

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  • Tessa
  • 02-15-16

The Sound of Gravel

Loved the book five stars for every category, sorry the story had to end. Tessa PERERA NSW Australia