Growing Up as the Scapegoat to Narcissistic Parents
A Guide to Healing
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Jay Reid
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This book is for those who suffered as the scapegoat child to a narcissistic parent. The scapegoat child is emotionally deprived, devalued and trapped by the parent. The child comes to believe they are defective and undeserving. These beliefs can plague the individual into adulthood.
Scapegoating reflects the narcissistic parent’s own emotional disturbance–not the child’s.
Healing is possible for scapegoat survivors! New healthy beliefs about oneself can be established. This book explains how to heal with the three pillars of recovery:
- Making sense of the narcissistic abuse so you know it was not your fault
- Creating distance from narcissistic abusers in your life today
- Living in defiance of the narcissist's rules
Listeners will learn to apply these pillars in their own lives and reclaim the quality of life they deserve.
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Family scapegoating is an insidious form of "invisible" abuse that is difficult to recognize. It is therefore critical that adult survivors of dysfunctional or narcissistic family systems understand what type of abuse they are trying to recover from. In Rejected, Shamed, and Blamed, licensed psychotherapist and family systems expert Rebecca C. Mandeville uses her research findings on what she named "Family Scapegoating Abuse" (FSA) to help survivors recognize and release the damaging "scapegoat" narrative associated with the family "identified patient" role.
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But It’s Your Family...
- Cutting Ties with Toxic Family Members and Loving Yourself in the Aftermath
- De: Dr. Sherrie Campbell
- Narrado por: Dr. Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 8 h y 25 m
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But It’s Your Family is a remarkable account of what it means to cut ties to toxic family abuse and thrive in the aftermath. Loving someone doesn’t always mean having a relationship with them, just like forgiveness doesn’t always mean reconciliation. Reconciling, in many cases, only sets people up for more abuse. A significant part of healing comes with accepting that this is a part of life; there are some relationships that are so poisonous that they destroy one’s ability to be healthy and function best.
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5 out of 5 stars
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My second purchase! Well done!
- De Attorney Shenandoah Titus - Author of THE WHISTLEBLOWER: Defeating Bullies, Harassers & Management Gang Retaliation (Amazon) en 08-27-20
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Adult Survivors of Emotionally Abusive Parents
- How to Heal, Cultivate Emotional Resilience, and Build the Life and Love You Deserve
- De: Sherrie Campbell PhD
- Narrado por: Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 6 h y 9 m
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When your parents are pathologically self-centered, manipulative, or emotionally abusive, the pain they cause is deep and often difficult to put into words. You may experience anxiety, depression, complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD), low self-esteem, addiction, or other mental health conditions as an adult. But it was not your fault, and there are tools you can use to heal the trauma caused by your childhood.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Felt words were given to my experiences
- De Britney en 07-02-24
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Healing the Adult Children of Narcissists
- Essays on the Invisible War Zone and Exercises for Recovery and Reflection
- De: Shahida Arabi
- Narrado por: Soneela Nankani
- Duración: 12 h y 1 m
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Those who have had a narcissistic parent can testify to how damaging it can be to one's psyche. Narcissistic parents lack empathy, show a severe sense of entitlement to micromanage the lives of their children, and often subject their children to neglect, as well as emotional, psychological, and physical abuse. From the unique challenges daughters of narcissistic fathers face to the ways in which adverse childhood experiences affect our brains, Shahida Arabi's insightful essays resonate deeply with those who have been raised by narcissistic parents.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Incredibly helpful book for survivors of narcissistic abuse
- De Alison Wacter en 12-11-23
De: Shahida Arabi
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Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
- Quiet the Critical Voice in Your Head, Heal Self-Doubt, and Live the Life You Deserve
- De: Stephanie M. Kriesberg PsyD, Wendy T. Behary LCSW - foreword
- Narrado por: Linda Jones
- Duración: 5 h y 47 m
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If you were raised by a narcissistic mother and are struggling with the lingering effects of a toxic upbringing, this is the road map you need to heal the past and thrive in the present and future.
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5 out of 5 stars
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I really needed this!
- De Rachael E en 01-28-23
De: Stephanie M. Kriesberg PsyD, y otros
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Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members
- Tools to Maintain Boundaries, Deal with Criticism, and Heal from Shame After Ties Have Been Cut
- De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, Wendy T. Behary LCSW - foreword
- Narrado por: Sherrie Campbell
- Duración: 7 h y 13 m
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Do you have a toxic family member? Do you feel like cutting ties with this person—even as painful and scary as that may sound—would dramatically increase your well-being and improve your life? You're not alone. In Adult Survivors of Toxic Family Members, psychologist and toxic family survivor Sherrie Campbell offers effective strategies for setting strong boundaries after ending contact with a toxic family member, and provides powerful tools to help you heal from shame, self-doubt, and stigma. You'll find the validation you need to embrace your decision with pride.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Taking my power back
- De INDIGENOUSLY EDS en 04-13-24
De: Sherrie Campbell PhD, y otros
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Will the Drama Ever End?
- Untangling and Healing from the Harmful Effects of Parental Narcissism
- De: Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.
- Narrado por: Dr. Karyl McBride Ph.D.
- Duración: 9 h y 14 m
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A pioneer on the devastating effects of narcissistic abuse, Karyl McBride, PhD, has the answer for anyone desperate for help in overcoming the damage of being raised in a family headed by a narcissistic parent. Divided into three sections, McBride explores the insidious way a narcissistic environment is developed in a family, how a narcissistic parent damages a child’s emotional growth and ability to trust, and finally, how to not only move on but become truly free.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Great book but worksheet?
- De Amazon Customer en 05-02-23
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Adult Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers, Empath & Narcissistic Abuse (2 in 1)
- Develop True Self Love, Understand Narcissists, Prevent Toxic Relationships, & Go Beyond Codependency
- De: Archer Miles
- Narrado por: Laila Ghazni
- Duración: 10 h
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Introducing a 10-hour blueprint to recovering from narcissistic abuse from your mother and avoiding toxic relationships and people as an empath moving forward. It's time for you to realize you are a beautiful person and a beautiful soul. It's time for you to break generational trauma and blossom into the incredible woman you are meant to be. You deserve to be happy. You deserve happy relationships, and to be confident, you can be an amazing partner, spouse, mother, sister, and friend.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Helpful Guide to Emotional Healing and Freedom
- De Eric Guild en 03-10-24
De: Archer Miles
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Believing Me
- Healing from Narcissistic Abuse and Complex Trauma
- De: Ingrid Clayton
- Narrado por: Ingrid Clayton PhD
- Duración: 7 h y 14 m
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What if emotional abuse is so hidden that its effects remain unchallenged for decades, masquerading as personal failings? Believing Me is an emotionally gripping memoir that gives language to the hidden and ineffable nature of childhood trauma and how it can imprint on a person, resulting in fractured self-esteem, addictions, perfectionism, and a string of abusive relationships.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Someone else caused all my problems
- De Searcy Custom Homes en 12-03-23
De: Ingrid Clayton
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The Good Daughter Syndrome
- Help for Empathic Daughters of Narcissistic, Borderline, or Difficult Mothers Trapped in the Role of the Good Daughter
- De: Katherine K Fabrizio
- Narrado por: Colleen Weaver
- Duración: 10 h y 12 m
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You love your mother, but she drives you crazy. She controls, criticizes, and butts into your life constantly. Then when you try and set boundaries, the pushback and resulting guilt are so bad you tell yourself...it's just not worth it. Is your mother narcissistic, borderline, or just plain difficult? Are you empathetic, sensitive, and kind? If so, chances are you have fallen into one or all of the hidden psychological traps that constitute the Good Daughter Syndrome.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Decent primer if your mom is still in your life
- De Twin of Eyegone en 07-01-24
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Toxic Parents
- Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life
- De: Craig Buck, Susan Forward
- Narrado por: Jo Anna Perrin
- Duración: 10 h y 32 m
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In this remarkable self-help guide, Dr. Susan Forward draws on case histories and the real-life voices of adult children of toxic parents to help you free yourself from the frustrating patterns of your relationship with your parents---and discover a new world of self-confidence, inner strength, and emotional independence.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Its worth a listen.
- De Amanda en 08-20-12
De: Craig Buck, y otros
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Covert Narcissist Mother
- An Adult Daughter’s Guide How to Recover after a Lifetime of Covert Abuse and Keep Your Children Safe from Their Toxic Grandmother
- De: Ella Lansville
- Narrado por: Farah D.
- Duración: 5 h y 25 m
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Ella Lansville is a scapegoat daughter of a covert narcissist mother who was able to recover after a lifetime of hidden abuse and ultimately get her life back from her mother’s clutches. You, too, can rediscover the beauty of life and everything it has to offer. If you’re ready to take a step towards healing, this book will be your comprehensive guide.
De: Ella Lansville
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The Emotionally Absent Mother
- How to Recognize and Heal the Invisible Effects of Childhood Emotional Neglect, Second Edition
- De: Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC
- Narrado por: Emily Durante
- Duración: 8 h y 49 m
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Was your mother preoccupied, distant, or even demeaning? Have you struggled with relationships - or with your own self-worth? Often, the grown children of emotionally absent mothers can't quite put a finger on what's missing from their lives. The children of abusive mothers, by contrast, may recognize the abuse - but overlook its lasting, harmful effects. Psychotherapist Jasmin Lee Cori has helped thousands of men and women heal the hidden wounds left by every kind of undermothering.
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3 out of 5 stars
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Good book but not the audio version
- De ibekristi en 08-08-18
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Out of the Fog
- Moving from Confusion to Clarity After Narcissistic Abuse
- De: Dana Morningstar
- Narrado por: Dana Morningstar
- Duración: 8 h y 59 m
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The FOG is an acronym that stands for "Fear, Obligation, and Guilt". These three emotions are often how narcissists, sociopaths, and other types of emotional manipulators go about controlling others.
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5 out of 5 stars
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THE best book I’ve ever read on the subject
- De Alexandria Filipowski en 10-23-19
De: Dana Morningstar
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Mothers Who Can't Love
- A Healing Guide for Daughters
- De: Susan Forward, Donna Frazier Glynn
- Narrado por: Susan Forward, Kathleen Gati, Julia Whelan, y otros
- Duración: 8 h y 28 m
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With Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters, Susan Forward, Ph.D., author of the smash #1 best-seller Toxic Parents, offers a powerful look at the devastating impact unloving mothers have on their daughters - and provides clear, effective techniques for overcoming that painful legacy.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Very Powerful. Deserves 6 stars!
- De wendy en 03-25-15
De: Susan Forward, y otros
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Narcissistic Fathers
- How to Deal with a Toxic Father and Complex PTSD
- De: Caroline Foster
- Narrado por: Dave Thackara
- Duración: 2 h y 58 m
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Is your father ruining your life? Discover if He is a Narcissist and Learn How to Neutralize His Manipulations! Are you tired of people minimizing or denying your experience? Are you tired of being told, "Forgive him, he's still your father!"? Caroline Foster is on your side. She has distilled all the information and advice you need to take the hardest step toward emotional independence and self-realization: the first one.
De: Caroline Foster
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Healing for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents
- Increase Resilience, Nurture Healthy Relationships, and Reclaim Your True Self
- De: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrado por: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Duración: 5 h y 42 m
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If you grew up with an emotionally immature, unavailable, or selfish parent, you may have lingering feelings of anger, loneliness, betrayal, or abandonment. This breakthrough audio course was created to help you revive your self-confidence and sense of self, value your own needs, and move forward in your life. Your instructor, Lindsay C. Gibson, PsyD, has dedicated her professional life to helping adult children of emotionally immature parents (ACEIPs). She speaks to you from the heart with a warm, empathetic tone as she takes you on a journey of self-discovery and transformation.
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5 out of 5 stars
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Mind opening! So helpful!
- De Matilda en 04-20-25
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Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents
- Practical Tools to Establish Boundaries and Reclaim Your Emotional Autonomy
- De: Lindsay C. Gibson PsyD
- Narrado por: Suzie Althens
- Duración: 7 h y 16 m
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In this important sequel to Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, author Lindsay Gibson offers powerful tools to help you step back and protect yourself at the first sign of an emotional takeover, make sure your emotions and needs are respected, and break free from the coercive control of emotionally immature parents.
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1 out of 5 stars
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Asinine
- De Amazon Customer en 07-14-20
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- JenH
- 05-15-23
Great book
This was a great book. It was quite validating. Must read if you have a toxic family.
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- Shelley Love
- 12-04-23
Wow! Clarity on So Many Levels!
This is the best book I’ve come across that explains what it’s like to grow up as the scapegoat in a toxic family. I’ve listened to it 3 times; gleaning more validation each listen. Bought the paperback too with plans to highlight certain nuggets of wisdom.
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- DOG FAN
- 04-16-24
This is my story!
I have never heard my story, and the issues with the narcissists in my life. described so honestly. The Narratoration is flawless. Told brilliantly! Everything I've always thought and felt was described perfectly. I couldn't stop listening! As I just turned 60, I wish I would have had this book decades ago. Everything described in this book was my experience and it was awful being the scapegoat. I finally see that I'm not the bad person. My parents were awful people. Every example was either them or me. And at 60, I'm in therapy to try and undo the damage done to me. It's good to know It wasn't me, but I've got a long road ahead. If only they had been decent, I could have become something great. God only knows what I couldve become. Anything in life but the sorry scapegoat would have been amazing. Unfortunately I had sick violent Borderline/Narcissistic mother and FULL ON Narcissistic Father. And I hate them. They are truly evil. I'm glad the book shows who they really are.
Thank You!!
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- Dan Simard
- 08-23-24
intelligent practicality
nice combination of professional opinion and supportive data that is easily applied to self improvement.
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- colleen
- 09-03-24
If you've ever felt like the family loser and don't know why
This is such a great book, its hard to express how this hits the mark on scapegoats, why they are chosen, why those not being scapegoated seem to jump on them and take the side of the abuser, why the abuser/abusers do what they do and why the scapegoat takes their survival skills into the world only to self sabotage, choose narc friends, stay in bad relationships, and have a lack of skills to be kind to themselves. It explains that and so much more.
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- SB
- 04-25-23
So good
I will be listening to this again as it's full of great information! I'm so glad I found this book.
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- rebecca niamtu
- 07-26-24
Sounds like AI
I can’t get past the narration sounding like AI. I doubt I’ll be able to finish it. Probably a great book
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- Anonymous User
- 01-29-25
I can see clearly now.
I can see my life in a much clearer lens now without thinking I’m evil or crazy and I can put the blame where it actually belongs now. Extremely informative and knowledgeable read.
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- kelly layton
- 12-24-23
Helpful for Scapegoats to Understand Their Toxic Family’s Disorder/Dysfunction
I identify with the scapegoat role all too much. Jay Reid accurately illustrates what my parebts and siblings did to me for decades and the toxic narcissistic traits that compelled them to carry out the abuse. He shares useful insight for the scapegoat whose awareness has led to cutting contact from the narcissistic family in order to heal. I no longer feel so alone in the darkness and am working on self-compassion every day with the support of experts like Jay Reid.
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- Tiffany Johnson
- 05-26-23
The story of the G.O.A.T.
I learned much inside this book of what I already knew without being able to articulate. Thank you Jay Reid. Love you guys, We are worthy.
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