Secure Parenting

Today's parents are constantly pressured to be perfect. But in striving to do everything right, we risk missing what children really need for lifelong emotional security. Now the simple, powerful "Circle of Security" parenting strategies that Kent Hoffman, Glen Cooper, and Bert Powell have taught thousands of families are available in self-help form for the first time. Filled with vivid stories and unique practical tools, this book puts the keys to healthy attachment within everyone's reach - self-understanding, flexibility, and the willingness to make and learn from mistakes.

Lose our cool and then regret it afterward? Feel like we’re doing “everything” for our kids, but still living in constant tension? Do we worry our stress is quietly shaping our child’s nervous system, confidence, and future? A lot of parents know this moment: it’s been a long day. We’re holding it together, barely. Then something small happens (a spilled drink, a sibling fight, a refusal to brush teeth) and our body goes into overdrive. We snap. Our child spirals. The house turns loud. And afterward, the guilt hits like a wave.

You love your kids. But sometimes, you yell. And then comes the guilt. You swore you wouldn’t lose your temper. You promised you’d stay calm. But then, in the middle of the chaos — the ignored requests, the meltdowns, the sibling fights — it happens again. You raise your voice. You react. And afterward, you’re left wondering why this feels so hard… and if you’re doing it all wrong. You’re not a bad parent. You’re a good parent having a hard moment. And you’re not alone. Talk, Don’t Yell is a compassionate, practical guide for overwhelmed but well-intentioned parents ...

Struggling to connect with your child or help your teen navigate their emotions? This two-part guide provides the proven strategies you need to build a strong parent-child bond and give your teen the emotional tools they need to succeed.

With this unique and highly practical guide, you'll learn the science of attachment theory, and how to apply it to your coparenting relationship. Secure attachment refers to the bond between a parent and young child, which gives that child a stable and secure basis from which to negotiate life going forward. A child with a secure base can weather the storms of trauma and life changes—such as those caused by divorce—much more easily than a child who doesn't.

Nachdem er unser Verständnis von Bindungsstilen revolutioniert hat, kehrt der Psychiater und Neurowissenschaftler Dr. Amir Levine mit einem brillanten, paradigmenverändernden Werk über die Wissenschaft der sicheren menschlichen Bindung zurück. Wie Dr. Levine in Secure erklärt, fühlen sich Menschen mit einem sicheren Bindungsstil nicht nur in ihren Beziehungen, sondern auch in ihrer eigenen Haut am wohlsten. Und erstaunlicherweise zeigen die neuesten Forschungsergebnisse, dass jeder, unabhängig davon, wie unsicher er sich fühlen mag, lernen kann, sich ein sicheres Leben aufzubauen.

From internationally renowned family consultant Kim John Payne comes an eloquent guide that seeks to help parents reclaim for their children the space and freedom that all kids need for their individuality to flourish.

Pioneers of Human Behaviour: John Bowlby A Gateway to His Life, Theories, and Legacy Few psychologists have changed the way we think about human relationships as profoundly as John Bowlby. His attachment theory transformed childcare, reshaped social policy, and bridged the gap between psychoanalysis and modern developmental science. By uncovering the deep biological need for secure bonds, Bowlby revealed that love is not a luxury—it is a survival requirement. This concise yet powerful volume distils Bowlby’s life, work, and enduring influence into clear, engaging chapters. From his ...

Learn how to effectively raise kids with a narcissistic ex and ensure your kids are emotionally secure, mentally strong, confident, and happy. It can be done, but you need to utilize specific strategies.

-Are you finding it hard to be close and open in your relationships?- Do you often find yourself withdrawing emotionally, maintaining a rigid self-sufficiency that ultimately leaves you feeling isolated and disconnected?- Are you on the quest for a sense of true emotional independence while still fostering deep and meaningful relationships?

Maybe you grew up in a home where emotions were ignored, minimized, or punished. Maybe you were told to “calm down,” “stop crying,” or “be strong.” Now you’re raising children of your own, and despite your best intentions, you hear those same words slipping out of your mouth when you’re overwhelmed. You love your kids. You want them to feel secure. Yet in the moments that matter most meltdowns, conflict, exhaustion - your body reacts before your values do.

Stop the Spiral. Trust God’s Plan. Find Your Peace. Do you analyze every text message, convinced a delayed reply means the end of the relationship? Do you feel like you’re "too much" for the people you love? Do you exhaust yourself trying to earn affection, only to live in constant fear of losing it? If you nodded yes, you aren’t broken. You aren’t "crazy." You are simply wired for connection in a world that often feels unsafe.

Nick Lavery is an active-duty Green Beret within the United States Army Special Forces. Although injuries sustained in combat resulted in the above-the-knee amputation of his leg—Nick not only remained in the Army, he returned to his Special Forces detachment and continues conducting combat operations to this day. Objective Secure is the methodology Nick employed to return to operational status. It is also the methodology he uses today as he continues this unprecedented journey in service to his country. It is a battle-tested guide forged by fire—literally.

Every person is wired for love differently—with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and routines, making it possible to neurologically prime the brain for greater love and connection and fewer conflicts. This go-to guide will show you how.

Whether you find yourself constantly seeking reassurance in love or pushing away from too much closeness, "Anxious Attachment and Avoidant Detachment" provides the tools to navigate the complexities of intimacy with grace and confidence. You'll learn to speak the language of love fluently, to listen with empathy, and to build the kind of relationships you've always deserved—one where love is not a source of angst but a foundation for growth.

Fixing Avoidant and Anxious Attachment in Your Relationship is a powerful workbook designed to help you understand your attachment style, ease anxiety, and create the kind of deep, trusting bond that brings lasting peace and love.

Do you long to feel safe, calm, and truly loved — instead of trapped in fear, overthinking, and self-doubt? Living with anxious attachment can feel like being caught in a storm that never ends. You crave closeness yet fear rejection. You give your all but still question if you’re enough. This powerful 3-in-1 audiobook bundle brings together CBT, DBT, and ACT Therapy to help you quiet your anxious mind, regulate emotions, and finally build the secure, lasting love you deserve.

In 'Anxious Attachment Recovery and Healing,' you’ll discover a transformative journey towards greater emotional well-being and secure, loving relationships. This comprehensive guide offers insights, strategies, and practical exercises to help you overcome anxiety and overthinking in your relationships and develop a more secure sense of self and connection with your loved ones.

You open up. You try to get closer. But the more you reach out… the more they pull away. They need space. You need reassurance. And suddenly, what should be a relationship—feels more like a chase. You overthink every message. Every pause. Every “I’m fine” that doesn’t feel fine at all. And deep down, you wonder: “Is it me? Am I too much? Or not enough?” This is what it feels like to live with an anxious attachment style—especially when you're in a relationship with someone emotionally avoidant. The connection feels real… but so does the pain. And the confusion. And the exhaustion.

Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.