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Are you constantly seeking approval from others, struggling to feel truly worthy without external validation? Do you find yourself trapped in a cycle of self-doubt, anxiety, or emotional exhaustion from trying to please everyone around you? In "Validation Addiction: Please Make Me Feel Worthy," psychotherapist Dr. Richard L. Travis offers profound insights into the phenomenon of validation addiction—a compulsive need for external approval that masks deeper emotional wounds. With compassion and clarity, Dr. Travis helps you understand the roots of this condition, recognize the patterns ...

You're not broken. You're neurodivergent—and you're not alone. More adults than ever are discovering they have ADHD, autism, dyslexia, OCD, and other forms of neurodivergence—often after years of feeling “off,” misunderstood, or exhausted from trying to fit in. Neurodivergent Adults: Thriving with ADHD, Autism, and More in a Neurotypical World is a practical, compassionate guide to understanding your brain, breaking free from shame, and building a life that truly works for you. Written by psychotherapist and fellow neurodivergent Richard L. Travis, this book is packed with real-life...

Anger is a message. Are you ready to hear what your child is really trying to say? Whether it shows up as yelling, shutting down, eye-rolling, or refusal to engage, anger in teens and pre-teens is more than just a behavior problem—it's a form of communication. And behind it is often a child who feels overwhelmed, misunderstood, or powerless. In this compassionate and practical guide, psychologist Dr. Richard L. Travis helps parents move beyond punishment and power struggles to understand the root of their child’s anger. With real-life examples, updated research, and easy-to-apply tools,...

What do we really want in bed—and why are we so afraid to ask for it? In this groundbreaking and compassionate guide, psychotherapist Dr. Richard L. Travis invites readers into the most intimate corners of human connection: where desire, vulnerability, identity, and pleasure meet. Drawing from decades of clinical experience, real-life stories, and the latest research, What We Really Want in Bed helps men, women, and couples navigate the complex emotional and psychological terrain of sex in today’s world. Whether you're single, married, healing from shame, exploring new identities, or ...

Adicción a la Validación: Por favor, hazme sentir digno ¿Te sientes atrapado en la necesidad constante de aprobación? ¿Tu autoestima depende de los “me gusta”, los cumplidos o la validación externa? Este libro es para ti. En Adicción a la Validación, el Dr. Richard L. Travis, reconocido psicoterapeuta y autor de más de treinta libros, explora la raíz emocional de la búsqueda desesperada de reconocimiento y aceptación. Con ejemplos reales, ejercicios prácticos, y reflexiones profundas, este libro te ayudará a: Comprender cómo la infancia, las relaciones y la cultura ...

Can a gay man find a friend to trust? Can he find a date, or even a partner? Are there healthy gay relationships out there? Are most gay men only partiers and not really emotionally available? What about trans men, bisexuals, and gender fluid people? Gays are entitled to have good, healthy friendships and good healthy relationships. Many gay men have felt they have been perceived as "damaged goods" and therefore act out in self-abusive ways by choosing inappropriate or emotionally unavailable men to date or befriend. This book helps identify personality characteristics or behaviors that get...

Tragedy, Trauma, and Loss in Teens and Pre-Teens: Healing the Emotional Wounds In today’s complex world, teens and pre-teens are facing unprecedented challenges—ranging from school violence and bullying to social media pressure, family instability, and personal loss. This updated and compassionate guide by Dr. Richard L. Travis offers parents, guardians, and educators a roadmap to understanding how young people experience trauma and how to support their emotional healing. With real-life examples, up-to-date research, YouTube and TED Talk links, and practical tools, this book explores: ...

Are you feeling overwhelmed by your teen or preteen’s ADHD symptoms? "Overcoming ADHD in Teens and Pre-Teens: A Parent's Guide" is your ultimate roadmap for understanding and managing ADHD effectively. Written by Dr. Richard L. Travis, this updated and expanded edition equips parents with clear, practical strategies tailored specifically for teens and pre-teens. Inside, you'll discover: The latest research on ADHD, explained in parent-friendly terms. Proven techniques for improving attention, organization, and impulse control. Real-life scenarios and success stories from parents and teens...

Journey Within: Healing Through Guided Imagery by Dr. Richard L. Travis Close your eyes. Take a deep breath. Begin your journey to healing, renewal, and inner peace. In a world filled with noise and stress, Journey Within: Healing Through Guided Imagery offers a gentle, powerful path to emotional, physical, and spiritual well-being. Dr. Richard L. Travis, a seasoned therapist and teacher, invites you into carefully crafted guided journeys — pathways designed to awaken your natural healing abilities, reduce anxiety, ease emotional pain, and help you reconnect with your inner strength. ...

La juventud de hoy está más “conectada” que nunca… y, sin embargo, muchos se sienten abrumadoramente solos. Juventud Desconectada: Cómo abordar la crisis de salud mental en adolescentes y adultos jóvenes profundiza en el aislamiento emocional, social y digital que afecta a toda una generación. Esta guía enfocada en soluciones combina poderosas historias reales, pasos prácticos y la investigación más reciente para empoderar a familias, educadores, líderes comunitarios y a los propios jóvenes. Descubre estrategias comprobadas para reconstruir la conexión, fomentar la ...

Aging from the Inside Out is your compassionate, science-backed guide to understanding and navigating the natural changes that come with aging—without fear, shame, or confusing jargon. Written by trusted therapist and educator Dr. Richard L. Travis, this book offers a chapter-by-chapter look at how your body, mind, and lifestyle evolve through your 50s, 60s, and 70s—and what you can do to stay strong, confident, and connected every step of the way. From your skin and hair to your vision, joints, internal organs, and even your sex life, this book explores each system of the aging body ...

¿Sientes que el rencor te consume? ¿Te cuesta dejar atrás una traición o una herida emocional profunda? Este libro es tu guía para sanar, liberarte y reclamar tu paz interior. En Los Efectos Tóxicos de la Venganza, el psicoterapeuta y autor Dr. Richard L. Travis explora cómo el deseo de venganza afecta tu cerebro, tus relaciones y tu bienestar físico. A través de historias reales, herramientas prácticas y ejercicios transformadores, aprenderás a: ✅ Identificar los patrones de resentimiento que te frenan ✅ Comprender cómo la venganza impacta tu salud mental y física ✅ ...

A powerful, affirming guide for LGBTQ+ youth and the people who love them. In a world where being yourself isn’t always easy, Brave, Queer, and Becoming offers understanding, support, and hope. This updated edition of Dr. Richard L. Travis’s trusted resource empowers teens, parents, and educators with the tools they need to navigate identity, community, faith, and mental health in today’s changing world. Whether you’re questioning your sexuality, exploring gender identity, facing peer pressure, or just looking for answers, this book will meet you where you are. Inside you’ll ...

What if one simple word could transform your life? In a noisy, demanding world where burnout is glorified and boundaries are blurred, The Power of Saying No is your guide to reclaiming your peace, time, and sense of self. Psychotherapist, author, and speaker Dr. Richard L. Travis empowers readers to stop overcommitting, people-pleasing, and putting themselves last. With real-life stories, expert insights, and links to powerful YouTube and TED Talks, this book offers a compassionate yet practical roadmap for setting healthy boundaries—without guilt. Whether you're a caregiver, a people-...

Digital Detox: Break Free, Focus More, Live Better Are you always online—but rarely present? Constantly plugged in—but quietly burned out? You’re not alone. In a world wired for distraction, Digital Detox offers a practical and inspiring roadmap back to clarity, creativity, and connection. Whether you're scrolling through social media late at night, overwhelmed by work emails, or watching your kids disappear into their devices, this book delivers the tools you need to unplug from tech—and plug back into life. With personal stories, neuroscience-backed insights, and powerful tools ...

La Guía para Padres LGBTQ+: Criando Hijos Resilientes en un Mundo en Cambio Por Dr. Richard L. Travis Tu hijo salió del clóset… y ahora te preguntas cómo estar presente con amor, sabiduría y confianza. Esta es tu guía. En este libro cálido, práctico y afirmador, el psicoterapeuta Dr. Richard L. Travis ofrece perspectivas compasivas y herramientas enfocadas en soluciones para padres de niños y adolescentes LGBTQ+. Ya sea que tu hijo haya salido del clóset recientemente o lo hayas sabido por años, este libro te ayudará a fortalecer tu conexión, profundizar tu comprensión y ...

**Completely updated December/2016** In today’s world we are faced with wars in the Middle East, terrorist attacks around the world, mass murders and shootings even in the United States. The tragedies and traumas of today are far more violent than what used to shock us. Yet each trauma is felt and responded to differently by different people. This book explains the kinds of tragedies, traumas, and losses that we might experience in our lives. It also spells out the effects these losses have on us, whether physical, emotional, social, or academic. Tragedy, trauma, and loss that are ...

Breaking the Silence: LGBTQ+ Addiction, Recovery, and Hope is a compassionate and comprehensive guide to understanding addiction through an LGBTQ+ lens. Drawing on current research, real-life stories, and culturally competent practices, this book explores the unique challenges queer individuals face—including trauma, shame, family rejection, and internalized stigma—and how these often fuel addiction. You'll find affirming approaches to treatment, insights on co-occurring disorders, guidance for finding safe recovery spaces, and healing tools such as journaling, mindfulness, and ...

Navigating Truth in an Age of Disinformation: How to Stay Informed, Empowered, and Resilient We live in a time when the line between fact and fiction has never been blurrier. Disinformation spreads faster than truth, trust in institutions is eroding, and emotional manipulation is just a click away. But you don’t have to feel powerless. In Navigating Truth in an Age of Disinformation, you’ll learn: Why our brains are wired to believe falsehoods How social media algorithms fuel outrage and division The real-life consequences of misinformation in health, politics, and society Global ...

The LGBTQ+ Parent’s Guide: Raising Resilient Kids in a Changing World By Dr. Richard L. Travis Your child came out—and now you’re wondering how to show up with love, wisdom, and confidence. This is your guide. In this warm, practical, and affirming book, psychotherapist Dr. Richard L. Travis offers compassionate insight and solution-focused tools for parents of LGBTQ+ kids and teens. Whether your child just came out or you’ve known for years, this book will help you strengthen your connection, deepen your understanding, and raise a child who feels safe and proud to be exactly who ...