In this episode of “Quiet the Clock," Beth Gulotta welcomes Kevin Nahai, a therapist who takes a deep interest in supporting women with egg freezing and fertility issues. They delve into the emotional and psychological challenges faced by women in their late 30s and early 40s. Kevin discusses the importance of open communication in relationships, the shared responsibility of managing biological timelines, and the need for individuals to be clear about their desires. They also explore societal pressures, the impact of social media on perceptions of relationships, and the significance of authenticity and self-awareness.

We Also Talk About:

• Kevin's background and interest in supporting women in egg freezing and fertility
• Kevin's approach to understanding and supporting women's experiences
• Men's perception of the biological clock and pressure on women in dating
• Responsibility of both men and women in managing timelines and expectations in relationships
• Importance of open and honest conversations in relationships
• Misconceptions about women needing to be fully healed before entering a relationship
• Finding someone who is "good enough" and the pillars of a successful relationship
• Being true to oneself in relationships and not settling for less
• Complexities of social media messaging and pressure to conform to certain ideals
• Fear of admitting true desires and the power of authenticity and self-awareness

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Join Beth Gulotta and Daheli Hall, screenwriter, director, and comedian, as they delve into Daheli’s personal journey navigating fertility challenges and societal pressures surrounding motherhood and career. Daheli bravely shares her experience with IVF, shedding light on the emotional toll of societal expectations, the layers of complexities, and what it looks like when it just doesn’t work. Daheli discusses her one-woman show, which serves as a platform to educate and connect with others. Bringing attention to such an important topic in a unique and fun way. Throughout the conversation, the importance of vulnerability and rewriting narratives of success is emphasized, alongside a discussion of the unique fertility experiences of black women in America. The episode concludes with a supportive message about egg freezing, emphasizing that individuals should never feel isolated in their fertility journey.

We Also Talk About:

• Daheli's journey towards motherhood
• Career in entertainment
• Challenges faced in navigating fertility treatments and societal expectations
• Societal pressure and expectations surrounding marriage and motherhood
• Prioritizing career and finding a supportive partner before considering motherhood
• Lack of transparency in celebrity narratives around pregnancy
• Navigating career and motherhood in the entertainment industry
• Starting a fertility journey and challenges faced with IVF
• Impact of turning personal struggles into a one-woman show
• Importance of rewriting the narrative around success and happiness

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In this episode of Quiet the Clock, Leyla Bilali, a seasoned fertility nurse and co-founder of Dandi Fertility, shares her expertise and personal struggles with infertility. She discusses the emotional journey of patients, the importance of education and personalized care in fertility treatments, and the challenges of navigating the fertility space. Leyla emphasizes the need to process emotions related to infertility and the significance of letting go of the idea of a perfect ending. Beth and Leyla explore the nuances of fertility preservation and the impact of Dandi Fertility's supportive products and services. The episode is a deep dive into the complexities of fertility and the emotional support required for those on this journey.

• Leyla's career transition into fertility nursing
• Different subsets of fertility patients
• Challenges of navigating a community platform for fertility patients
• Lack of knowledge among women about their own bodies and fertility
• Pressure and anxiety surrounding age and fertility
• Importance of fertility preservation and lack of information provided to patients
• Emotional impact of pregnancy loss and need for empathetic care
• Complexity of fertility treatments and need for personalized care
• Leyla's personal experience with infertility and emotional journey
• Importance of allowing oneself to feel all the emotions that come with the fertility journey

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