It's okay to miss Mom AND feel relief.

Mother's Day can be a complicated holiday for many women. Mother wounds run deep and can affect every aspect of our lives. These wounds can be emotional, mental, or spiritual injuries inflicted by your mom, usually starting in childhood, but can persist throughout our adult lives. And you can love and admire you mama, like I did mine, AND have to work through the myriad ways she damaged your ability to live the fulfilling life you need, want and desire.

Whether you endured neglect, criticism, absence, enmeshment, abuse or some other way you were let down or hurt, in order to heal, you must become aware. Name it! In this episode, we explore the nature and impact of mother wounds and give you concrete tools to begin the healing process from wounds from your mama. Hear this: even if she never intended to harm you, if the wounds are there and you have the courage to name them and get the help you need to heal, you will gain the freedom you deserve.

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CEASEFIRE! It is TIME for mamas to stop devouring one another and start building genuine community -- common unity.

In this episode, we discuss the 'mommy wars' and the impact they have on all mamas. There are proactive ways you can contribute to the ceasefire and start building a beautiful community of all different kinds of mamas. provides five ways to help stop the judgment and criticism between mothers. I've been a stay-at-home mom, part-time working mom, full-time working mom, and now as a business owner so I have truly seen it all! It's time to wake up, step up, reach out, speak out, and welcome in other mothers. By doing so, we can end the mommy wars and create a more compassionate and understanding environment for all mothers.

Takeaways

• The 'mommy wars' between stay-at-home moms and working moms are real and harmful to women.
• Mothers should support and uplift each other instead of tearing each other down.
• Building common unity among mothers is essential for creating a more compassionate and understanding environment.
• By waking up, stepping up, reaching out, speaking out, and welcoming in other mothers, we can end the mommy wars and create a supportive community.
• Motherhood is challenging, and all mothers are doing their best with what they have.

Chapters
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Cease Fire: Ending the Mommy Wars
25:17
Building Common Unity Among Mothers
30:25
Speaking Out and Creating Change

SOOOOO excited to announce that I will be speaking as part of a leadership panel at the LA Tribune's Leadership Week on May 7, 2024. Join me and 6 of my TLC sisters as we discuss leadership in our different industries.

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Your story is WORTHY to be told and the world is waiting...
What is that story you've always bee too afraid to tell? Is there a story from your life that you've minimized, ran away from or told yourself it just won't make a difference? In today's episode, I am here to right that wrong view in your beautiful mind. Your story matters and it MUST be told!
Words change worlds. You have a decision to make about what words you share with the world - from your closest friends and family to the wider world community. It's time to get real. It's time to step into the light. It's time to be brave. The world needs what ONLY you can give, what only you can bring, the story only YOU can tell. What are you waiting you for?
Your story, sisters, is worthy to be told because only YOU can tell it! What if you shared the story that makes you squirm and the lives of other women were healed and you became the catalyst for them to to leave that abusive relationship, get out of crushing debt, start that beautiful business or no longer hide themselves in shame? There is true magic that happens when we courageously share our stories.
Today, I share a story that has burned within me. This past week, my eyes were opened to the need to share it and the impact that awaits. I choose to start today. What will YOU choose?

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“We don’t rise to the level of our goals, we fall to the level of our self-worth” Jamie Kern Lima

Are you ready to raise your standard of worthiness and unleash your true potential? Join us for this juicy episode filled with tangible tools you can apply NOW to raise the ceiling of worthiness in your beautiful life. Do you know deep inside that you've ben playing small, settling for less than you deserve but aren't sure how to break out of this damaging pattern? We've got great news for you! You absolutely can break the cycle starting today!

It's time to step up, set new standards for your own self-worth and today, you'll get my 5 favorite tools you can immediately apply that will begin the shifts you need and deserve. So grab your favorite beverage, your notebook and settle in because it's time to get real, commit and raise the ceiling of YOUR worthiness!

Join the Girl Out of Order Community for our 1st EVER live zoom community call! The "Unlock Your Worthiness" Community call takes place Monday, April 22nd at 6 pm CST. Register here: https://us06web.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZ0qdu2rrjojH9Y5M2exWdXNq-5Moqeej38r

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Any people pleasers in the house? It's time to go to rehab and kick this habit for good!
"I was a people-pleaser, but the only person who wasn’t pleased was me." Oprah

People pleasing is one of the most destructive habits that hinders our self-worth. It can show up in obvious ways like over-apologizing and saying yes WAY too often to more subtle ways such as suppressing emotions and not asking for help. No matter how it rears its ugly head, people pleasing takes and keeps us down, hindering our ability to love, nurture and respect ourselves. So how do we break this often life-long habit?

Join us this week as we explore the many facets of people-pleasing and get practical tools to recognize it, rehab it and break free from its grip. This episode is FIRE and is already changing me! I can't wait for it to help you transform your self-worth as well.

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It's time to BUST through the imposter syndrome that holds you back, keeps you down and robs the world of your greatness!

"The beauty of the impostor syndrome is you vacillate between extreme egomania and a complete feeling of: 'I'm a fraud! Oh God, they’re on to me! I’m a fraud!' So you just try to ride the egomania when it comes and enjoy it, and then slide through the idea of fraud." Tina Fey, actress, comedian, and writer

The feeling of being a fraud, a fake, an imposter is epidemic in female humans. From Tina Fey to Michelle Obama to Serena Williams, imposter syndrome is ever-present. But here's the great news! We can combat it and relegate it to the shadows as we take our place in the light!

While there are probably many more tactics and strategies to fight imposter syndrome, here are my top 5!

1. STACK Your Proofs, NOT Your Doubts – every single day, write down successes, no matter how small.
2. INQUIRE about the BS you’re believing – Byron Katie’s The Work
3. CELEBRATE your Successes, DON’T Minimize them! Create new patterns of celebration, not downplaying, of sharing, not shrinking. This is NOT prideful or arrogant, this is a powerful antidote to playing small and feeling like an imposter.
4. REDEFINE FAILURE: Change your perspective on failure and mistakes - view as opportunities to learn and grow rather than as reflections of your inadequacies.
5. Create a TRIBE of Empowering Humans who will remind you who you are when you forget and what you are capable of when you feel wobbly and unsure.

Freedom awaits, sister! You are made to have a gorgeous, fulfilling life and the world needs what ONLY you can provide.

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It took prison for Chelsea to find her gateway to paradise.

"The phoenix must burn to emerge." – Janet Fitch

Chelsea Alba has been on a journey of worthiness for most of her life. Born and raised in Philadelphia, Chelsea lost her way as a teenager and found herself immersed in a world of drug-fueled partying. After experiencing a terrible trauma, Chelsea swiftly became and addict who found herself in and out of jail until she finally ended up serving a sentence in state prison. What could have broken her, ended up saving her and setting her on a completely different path and she eventually met me in Fiji.

Join us for this beautiful conversation as Chelsea provides a roadmap for her own worthy journey and gives us all hope that we too can develop empowering self-worth no matter our circumstances, our traumas or our challenges. Chelsea is truly a phoenix who rose from the ashes.

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You are SO WORTHY OF NEVER giving up on your dreams!

"If you don't see a clear path for what you want, sometimes you have to make it yourself." Mindy Kaling

It's time to CELEBRATE! After 3 years, I'm dropping my 50th episode and I. AM. GIDDY! The process has been neither easy nor a straight line, but I will not doubt myself out of my dreams or my destiny. Come along with me as I look back on where Girl Out of Order has come from and get excited about where we're going. You, dear sisters, are meant to live the life of your dreams. Just don't quit! You're never too old. It's never too late. For goodness sake, the world is waiting for what ONLY YOU can provide. I am one of those women waiting for you, dear one, so get back up, stay in the game and start running again in the direction of those beautiful dreams of yours.

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