The Art of Gathering

How We Meet and Why It Matters

By: Priya Parker

Narrated by: Bernadette Dunne

"Hosts of all kinds, this is a must-read!" --Chris Anderson, owner and curator of TED

From the host of the New York Times podcast Together Apart, an exciting new approach to how we gather that will transform the ways we spend our time together—at home, at work, in our communities, and beyond.

In The Art of Gathering, Priya Parker argues that the gatherings in our lives are lackluster and unproductive--which they don't have to be. We rely too much on routine and the conventions of gatherings when we should focus on distinctiveness and the people involved. At a time when coming together is more important than ever, Parker sets forth a human-centered approach to gathering that will help everyone create meaningful, memorable experiences, large and small, for work and for play.

Drawing on her expertise as a facilitator of high-powered gatherings around the world, Parker takes us inside events of all kinds to show what works, what doesn't, and why. She investigates a wide array of gatherings--conferences, meetings, a courtroom, a flash-mob party, an Arab-Israeli summer camp--and explains how simple, specific changes can invigorate any group experience.

The result is a book that's both journey and guide, full of exciting ideas with real-world applications. The Art of Gathering will forever alter the way you look at your next meeting, industry conference, dinner party, and backyard barbecue--and how you host and attend them.

Surprisingly detailed, pragramic, insightful

I picked up this book on a whim as I was looking to branch out from typical non-fiction books, hoping to pick up a few tips here and there. This book was a rather thorough break down of event design, which could be applied from everything from casual get togethers to conferences. There is little here about appetizers, dinner/drinks, music selection, proper activities, but how to make events memorable, engaging, fun, whatever the goal is. I think the name of this book does it a disservice as it sounds like a glorified Good Housekeeping issue rather than a truly thoughtful way to make all of your group activities tangibly work better. I recommend this book to everyone interested in the self-development genre.

Should be mandatory reading

I can’t say enough about this book. This book has sharpened my approach to my work as a
seasoned event producer and my efforts as a friend and family member almost overnight.

Very informative- good read

Great look into the purpose, structure, planning, and execution of gatherings of all kinds. Just as useful for work life as it is for personal and social gatherings.

A must read for organizers & managers

As an advocate and organizer for social change it’s very rare that I find a mainstream management book that so directly applies to my work. Parker’s work resonates because it offers a clear guide on how to maximize the experience of attendees at any gathering while also ensuring that you meet your goals. This book has been added to my “gifting list” for all of my social movement friends.

Fascinating Tidbits

Helpful tidbits for anyone who help others have a shared experience. Must read for substance and not just a framework for gatherings!

Excellent perspective

A unique perspective on how to think about gatherings. I will try many of these ideas. Very different from traditional event planning guides.

This book is deeper than you think

Very impressed by Priya Parker’s writing style. Clearly an accomplished organizer, host and facilitator. I recommend this book.

Thought provoking

I wish I could choose a 4.6! This book is a revelation of the nuances of gatherings. It challenges me to make more preparation on my methods and details, beginnings and effective closings. It is an insight into richer more meaningful hospitality.

Thought provoking.

As I listened, I thought of a variety of ways to apply the concepts in this book to improve gatherings in my life.

Book review and opportunity taken from book

Enjoyed the book and the opportunity to hear Priya speak at ATD23 in San Diego