She Comes First

A Guide for Sassy Women Who Want to Get Back in Control of Their Life
By: Brian Nox
Narrated by: Jerod McBrayer
Length: 3 hrs and 52 mins
4.7 out of 5 stars (257 ratings)

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An empowering audiobook about standing your ground in dating, in marriage, in your career, and anywhere else.

As an author and a coach who has been helping women for more than a decade, I noticed some women were in trouble, and not just in their relationships. Some had unfulfilling jobs, didn't get paid what they were worth, had always dreamt of starting their own business but never did, felt lonely even though they had a husband and kids.... The list goes on and on. So many women try to be the perfect girlfriends, wives, mothers, friends, sisters, colleagues, business owners, bosses, and more. They love to serve and want to succeed in the many roles they have to play. They are compliant, even to the people who don't really deserve that kind of treatment. They give it all they have, every single day. 

Regardless of their tremendous efforts, some women get little in return. They feel used. They get men that keep flaking out, careers that don't feel meaningful, and possibly a body that starts to feel and look more and more tired. Did you ever notice that burnout tends to afflict women much more often than men? There's a reason for that, as you'll learn.

This should stop.

Some women seem to have found a loophole, a backdoor in the current system. There are women out there who have designed the life they live. I call these women high-value women. This value has nothing to do with money. It turns out the high-value woman follows a set of strategies and principles. I'll share them with you throughout this audiobook.

©2017 Brian Nox (P)2017 Brian Nox

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Impressively Useful

I am divorced a couple of years and began dating 4 months ago. It has been 15 years since I last dated and I found that there is quite a relearning curve. An astute female friend of mine suggested I read this book so as to understand ‘high value women’, what they represent, be able to form realistic expectations about them and have a successful, long term relationship with one. This book is full of concisely delivered, crucially important information for ANY mutually satisfying intimate, long term relationship at any age level. I’m sorry that it wasn’t available to me when I was in my twenty’s. I have given copies to my 22 year old daughter and 26 year old son and both have remarked over their days of reading how it has been incredibly useful with positive outcomes for the relationship my son is in and the dateing my daughter is doing. I can’t recommend this book enough for women and men of any age. Trevor

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Such a gemstone!

It goes well and way beyond just a dating-help book! Highly recommend! I rarely write any review, and in fact this is my very first Audible full review for a book.

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Extremely helpful

After finished his last book "F*ck Him" and impressed. I decide to give this book a shot. I purchased this book also because I always sense that there's something off about me but can't quite know how to address them. Brian turned the light on for me. In this book, Brain drew a picture of a strong will, self assure lady who knows her boundaries and limits and would like to protect them dearly. And he also give advice to practical steps to figure out what is one's bottom line. I think he did a pretty good job. I repeatly listen to this book from time to time just to refresh the reminders. This book's more focus on paradigm reformation rather than tell you how to do thing. If that's what you're looking for, this is the book for you. (You can return it anyway, what do you have to loose?)

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A must book to listen!

This audio book inspires me to go after my dreams. Please listen to this book you will not be disappoint it!.

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I found parts of my old self I had forgotten, now I have courageous revelation

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Insightful and Powerful. A must read/listen!

It is so refreshing to hear a male author speak on women's value and empowerment and to do so in such an intelligent and compassionate manner. Nox is not harsh or accusatory, nor does he candy coat anything or do the ever so common "female audience softening" that appeals to what I would call the "gumdrops and bundt cake" type woman. This book is for women, all women. It is a wake up call to our worth and a guidebook on establishing our own belief on that very foundation. Frankly it is one that should be read and re-read or heard and listened to over again at least annually until the lessons sink in. Suffice it to say I highly recommend this book and cheers to Nox for his insight into women and his willingness to share that insight with the world.

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AWESOME!!

I felt so empowered by this book. This was my second book by Brian Nox and something about his writing just draws you in. This is a must-read if you struggle with putting yourself first and standing your ground in any relationship in life!

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She Comes First

I finished this book in a day. I usually don't write reviews but I felt I owed you this. Thank you for the great book.

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valuable, listened a few times!

very valuable, listened a few times. would recommend to all ages ands stages! didn't realize being so nice and sweet was my problem!

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Great Book on life and relationships!

Loved it! Great advice for both men and women. Life and relationship coaching was excellent.

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  • Ms. A. H. Richards
  • 09-01-20

Simply brilliant

I’ve never written a book review before but this was clear, precise, motivating and insightful. It’s great for developing all areas of your life. Highly recommend.

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  • MISS P M GRAFFIN
  • 04-02-19

fantabulous

from a Male perspective is fascinating. with an easy to listen to voice full of antidotes and incitefulness. I loved this book I've listened to it 5 times already

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  • Simon
  • 10-27-20

Wonderful book to assist all women

Great book that gives insight into women's own power within themselves and utilising this energy to live their best life. Easy knowledge to apply and also use of great examples. I loved this book and could relate to the complex issues women experience. It has certainly opened my eyes and look forward to achieving my goals and dreams. I would recommend this book to all.

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 09-12-20

A great book for all women

Have listened to it twice already Well read, easy to follow and great practical advice. Loved it

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  • Anonymous User
  • 08-14-20

tapping into my feminine energy

Loved this book. Really helped me realise what I was doing wrong in relationships. Even when I thought being so understanding of the other person and showing empathy was a great thing, it was my biggest mistake. Putting myself first was something I could never do but am determined to do now. Finding the balance between both is my journey.

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  • Sylwia G. Kluba
  • 08-13-20

excellent book ,

I love it. easy to listen. calming voice of narrator. i will definitely recommend to read

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  • Anonymous User
  • 07-23-20

Lovely

Thank you very much Brian, much appreciated advice wisdom and knowledge. Every woman should read this. I will pass it on to my daughter when she is older :-D

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  • Jules
  • 07-02-20

Easy and useful

This book is very easy to listen to, Ben has a great paused, easy and clear voice, at the same time keeps the interest and curiosity. I liked when he was giving examples, he made it clear what type of man specifically he was talking about in that moment, that makes a difference also at the stage of the relationship and how emotionally invested he is.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 06-30-20

Great book!

I needed this book in my life. Now I have the tools to make my life better. Thank you Brian!

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  • Londondudette
  • 05-06-20

Great fast easy listening

Enjoyed this book thank you.Very insightful from a man's prospective. Thanks very much. ....Good job.

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  • 02-06-20

Inspirational

I love this book in general! there are bits that I may not completely agree with Brian, but overall very inspiring. I am going to take a few advices from the book, such as writing down personal mission statement.

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  • Fiona McQuarrie
  • 12-31-19

i loved this book

i loved this book. So many great tips for any occasion or circumstance. very interesting. highly recommend.