Fierce Self-Compassion

How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive

By: Kristin Neff

Narrated by: Jean Ann Douglass

Length: 12 hrs and 34 mins

Publisher's summary

The author of Self-Compassion follows up her groundbreaking book with new ideas that expand our notion of self-kindness and its capacity to transform our lives, showing women how to balance tender self-acceptance with fierce action to claim their power and change the world.

Kristin Neff changed how we talk about self-care with her enormously popular first book, Self-Compassion. Now, 10 years and many studies later, she expands her body of work to explore a brand-new take on self-compassion. Although kindness and self-acceptance allow us to be with ourselves as we are, in all our glorious imperfection, the desire to alleviate suffering at the heart of this mindset isn't always gentle, sometimes it's fierce. We must also act courageously in order to protect ourselves from harm and injustice, say no to others so we can meet our own needs, and motivate necessary change in ourselves and society.

Gender roles demand that women be soft and nurturing, not angry or powerful. But like yin and yang, the energies of fierce and tender self-compassion must be balanced for wholeness and well-being. Drawing on a wealth of research, her personal life story and empirically supported practices, Neff demonstrates how women can use fierce and tender self-compassion to succeed in the workplace, engage in caregiving without burning out, be authentic in relationships, and end the silence around sexual harassment and abuse. Most women intuitively recognize fierceness as part of their true nature, but have been discouraged from developing it. Women must reclaim their power in order to create a healthier society and find lasting happiness.

In this wise, caring, and enlightening book, Neff shows women how to reclaim balance within themselves, so they can help restore balance in the world.

©2021 Kristin Neff (P)2021 HarperCollins Publishers

Thank you for this book!

Such important content here. Thank you Kristin Neff this book is super helpful and real.

Everyone Should Read this!

Beautifully done book. Like I said before, both men and women should read this. Its required reading if you work, care for a sick or elderly person, ... actually if you're alive! Her exercises make you think, in a real way. I love her work. The way she was treated by her alma mater made me sweat with rage. That part reminds me of the Jim Crow south in the US. She started her Mindful Self-Compassion organization to help people, and that didn't count to get tenure? Gimme a break! As a society, we can do so much better than holding women to these outdated painful standards. Besides, everyone needs self-compassion, just like Helena Roth's "Doing Gentle With an Edge" you can learn to treat yourself better, even when you make mistakes.

Love

Found this book through Brene Brown’s work and I absolutely love it. Get it a try

Love this book!

I really enjoyed this book and related to many of the stories. The narrated was great!

Timely and Timeless

I listened to this book in two parts to try to understand and apply what I learned and it was even more powerful.

Amazing 🤩

This book is life changing. I would habe loved if Kristen could have narrated herself, but the depth and breath of. this book is phenomenal.

It’s long but worth it!

I could listen to the last chapter over and over again! It is the diamond

Calling the authorities

First I wanna say I loved this book. Second, I want to emphasize that calling the authorities has been used more than once as a recommendation for women who are feeling scared and need assistance. And Mini, but not most cases Cornelius Sardis has produced even more harm than the original fact I have personal experience with this, even though I am a vis white woman. However, I imagine my experience is nowhere near as harmful as those of women of color. I think this needs to be thoroughly acknowledged as part of any book like this.

Compassionate Mess

love this outlook on a daily intention. a beautiful unfolding of how fierce compassion looks on a daily basis.

Necessary reading

The book is thorough (maybe too much at times), and practical. Kristin gives many helpful ideas and stories for women to practice self-compassion - the yin and Yang.